"Careful with That Axe Eugene" is my favourite fun times song. How about you? 😇

I think women as an example of a really obvious way that minorities don't get to set their own tempo is wll overlooked. If you can't see that, get a fucking grip. And then you can understand why queers and crips and racial minorities and trans people and just everyone ever is not having fun

Not too long ago I visited Auntie J while my cousin and their kids were there. I struggled with their impatience, irritation at their grand/mother. I've come to accept the privilege. Finally. Of not having to manage aged parents. But my aunt has entered into her own space and time, and it's valid.

Pasting for my own benefit tbh. I only have 2 ancestors now. Dad's sisters. Aunts to me and surrogate grandmas to my child. The oldest at 85 or 6 is battling cancer. Again. Her brain is starting to slip, and I know in my heart that's going to be my path.

The angle of the sun says summer. The bite of the wind says no

That was horrible

It is fucking freezing. Which is weird because we're going through a heatwave. And wherever you are at 1 am there's always an old black guy dragging a heavy bag of shopping. It's the law.

No hot tub. No Atomfall. FML