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Oh.
@cupofojayla.bsky.social
you in my business?
chi to sd | ucsd alumna | 1922
I just finished a certification and I can’t even enjoy that feat
December 3, 2024 at 2:16 AM
I wanna cry 😀
December 2, 2024 at 10:43 PM
the hardest part about the pivot I’m making is the work to get there, not because I’m lazy but because exerting the effort most days feels physically painful and I know it’s a mind game but still
December 2, 2024 at 9:17 PM
these thoughts have arisen because I should be sleeping, I have work at 5:30am 🙂‍↕️
November 30, 2024 at 4:48 AM
Recently went through pictures of me when I was younger and realized I’ve always done a closed-mouthed smile and funnily enough, the only time I cheesed big was when I was missing my front teeth lol
November 30, 2024 at 4:35 AM
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Bitch I deserve it ALL.
November 22, 2024 at 11:20 PM
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You are not entitled to the grace of someone you’ve traumatized. You do not get to claim space in the life of a person you’ve hurt.
November 18, 2024 at 11:57 PM
I wanna sit in the parking lot and eat my food in peace but someone’s child and their friends are parked next to me, windows down, blaring shitty music— I’m being tortured.
November 19, 2024 at 11:17 PM
I hate coming to get car stuff done alone, they get to making all kinds of sounds and I’m like I came for an oil change! Please, no bad news 😭
November 19, 2024 at 1:24 AM
However, if you personally came to me for my honest opinion on something, that was all real lol. I’m talking about the kind of thing you have to be honest with yourself about before you can be honest with other people about it.
I think, before, my level of honesty and its delivery were coming from a purely protective/defensive place. While I believe honesty is, in fact, the best policy, I can’t say that up until recently my choice to be honest was ever because I was comfortable or felt safe in any environment
November 18, 2024 at 8:47 PM
I think, before, my level of honesty and its delivery were coming from a purely protective/defensive place. While I believe honesty is, in fact, the best policy, I can’t say that up until recently my choice to be honest was ever because I was comfortable or felt safe in any environment
November 18, 2024 at 8:45 PM
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oh nothing, just casually making a safe space for Black girls at PWIs 🥹

www.blackbeautynearyou.com

#addtoblacksky #blacksky
November 16, 2024 at 3:35 PM
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There is good corny and bad corny … and bad corny you can NEVER come back from.
November 18, 2024 at 3:50 AM
I am the universe’s manifestation of greatness. There is no need to stress, it’s already okay.
Affirm yourself & inspire someone else 🙌🏾
November 18, 2024 at 12:44 AM
I’ve been so dedicated to seeing how good it can get by implementing a shift in mindset and I must say— it’s lovely here.
November 17, 2024 at 11:03 PM
Leaving the gym with the rest of my day ahead of me, I won!
November 17, 2024 at 4:51 PM
Came home from work to train my puppy but I still need to detangle and wash my hair, there is not enough time in a day
November 17, 2024 at 3:30 AM
Let’s get some actual media up on here, tis me
November 17, 2024 at 3:00 AM
I am DYING to dye my hair jet black again, but will I maintain the health of my hair after doing it? ahhhh idk
November 16, 2024 at 6:56 PM
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That felt very MAGAish
November 16, 2024 at 5:40 AM
“skeet” is crazy, this is my first and last time saying the word in this context
November 16, 2024 at 12:18 AM
Had a bad workout but at least we showed up to the gym today, right?
November 15, 2024 at 3:54 AM
I know people hate to see me in the gym parking lot. You thought you had a spot, meanwhile I got here 10 minutes ago and never took my foot off the brake 😭
November 15, 2024 at 2:43 AM
November 15, 2024 at 2:26 AM
I know I’ve grown because the urge to emotionally post or find relevant memes has significantly diminished
November 15, 2024 at 1:41 AM