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Behaviour and words should match. That is why
Congruency Matters.

Atheist ⚛️
Interested in:
Psychology
Behaviour
Language
Education
Communication

Advocating for equality for all.
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We have all witnessed apologies and how bad some felt and were lacking accountability. I have taken a few weeks to write a brief and fairly light essay about what happens when we apologise publicly from behind an online persona.

open.substack.com/pub/congruen...
Anatomy of an Apology
I write with you, the reader, in mind, aiming for clarity and warmth.
open.substack.com
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While we are buying products, we are being sold ourselves.

New Substack drops @ 2pm GMT today.

www.substack.com/@congruencym...
June 17, 2025 at 11:39 AM
Theatre of Control – Part Two is out now! 🎭 Following on from "The Cult of Charisma," this piece explores how personas collapse online.
Bryan, Darlene, Walker. Different acts, same play.
🔗 substack.com/@congruencymatters/note/p-165248430?r=5byzep
Part Three — The Political Actors — coming soon.
Theatre of Control
Part Two: The Smaller Stage
substack.com
June 5, 2025 at 7:49 AM
10 thind Xians say to atheists examines by Darante.
'You want to sin'
'You just hate god'
Etc.

youtu.be/vc9RT5GudIc?...
Things Christians Say to Atheists (And What It REALLY Says About Them)
YouTube video by Darante' LaMar
youtu.be
March 26, 2025 at 7:36 AM
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A classic hallmark of pseudoscience is when proponents reverse the burden of proof on skeptics to prove them wrong rather than having to provide evidence to support their own claims.

Hitchens’s razor: What can be asserted without evidence can also be dismissed without evidence.
January 10, 2025 at 8:06 PM
When asked for evidence of their god claims, and more than once, this is the response. Eventually, they left a link for their Only Fans. I have no issue with OF content creators. I just don't think they should use outlandish god claims, etc, to garner engagement.
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