Min Grob
@coercivecontrol.bsky.social
Founder of CCChat Magazine-the free online magazine on and around coercive control. www.ccchat-coercivecontrol.com
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One week to go before the All-Party Parliamentary Group on Perpetrators of Domestic Abuse meeting.
📆Wednesday 22nd January 2025
⏲️10am-11am.
📍Hybrid - Only online places remain 💻
If you are interested in joining us, please email info@respect.org.uk for more information.
📆Wednesday 22nd January 2025
⏲️10am-11am.
📍Hybrid - Only online places remain 💻
If you are interested in joining us, please email info@respect.org.uk for more information.
January 15, 2025 at 12:52 PM
One week to go before the All-Party Parliamentary Group on Perpetrators of Domestic Abuse meeting.
📆Wednesday 22nd January 2025
⏲️10am-11am.
📍Hybrid - Only online places remain 💻
If you are interested in joining us, please email info@respect.org.uk for more information.
📆Wednesday 22nd January 2025
⏲️10am-11am.
📍Hybrid - Only online places remain 💻
If you are interested in joining us, please email info@respect.org.uk for more information.
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I'm very relieved for Evan that this part of her nightmare is over.
I recommend watching Evan's documentary #PhoenixRising
Manson's actions have come at a huge cost to Evan. She had to give up her son (see 2/2). When will he face consequences?
www.theguardian.com/music/2024/n...
1/2
I recommend watching Evan's documentary #PhoenixRising
Manson's actions have come at a huge cost to Evan. She had to give up her son (see 2/2). When will he face consequences?
www.theguardian.com/music/2024/n...
1/2
Marilyn Manson drops defamation lawsuit against Evan Rachel Wood
Shock rocker, who denied Wood’s accusations of ‘horrific’ abuse and filed lawsuit, to pay her $327,000 in attorneys fees
www.theguardian.com
November 27, 2024 at 12:54 PM
I'm very relieved for Evan that this part of her nightmare is over.
I recommend watching Evan's documentary #PhoenixRising
Manson's actions have come at a huge cost to Evan. She had to give up her son (see 2/2). When will he face consequences?
www.theguardian.com/music/2024/n...
1/2
I recommend watching Evan's documentary #PhoenixRising
Manson's actions have come at a huge cost to Evan. She had to give up her son (see 2/2). When will he face consequences?
www.theguardian.com/music/2024/n...
1/2
Yes, I went in.
Yes, it was bloody freezing.
Yes, it was bloody freezing.
November 24, 2024 at 8:38 PM
Yes, I went in.
Yes, it was bloody freezing.
Yes, it was bloody freezing.
“Violence is not always motivated by a desire to gain or resist control. Sometimes it is primarily an expression of anger or frustration. Sometimes it is a matter of self-image. Sometimes it is simply a bid for attention.”
— A Typology of Domestic Violence
Michael P. Johnson
— A Typology of Domestic Violence
Michael P. Johnson
November 23, 2024 at 10:04 PM
“Violence is not always motivated by a desire to gain or resist control. Sometimes it is primarily an expression of anger or frustration. Sometimes it is a matter of self-image. Sometimes it is simply a bid for attention.”
— A Typology of Domestic Violence
Michael P. Johnson
— A Typology of Domestic Violence
Michael P. Johnson
Rendered invisible
November 21, 2024 at 8:21 PM
Rendered invisible
Proselytising forgiveness so that the victim is pressurised to get past being violated, to make it more comfortable for everyone else.
November 21, 2024 at 8:06 PM
Proselytising forgiveness so that the victim is pressurised to get past being violated, to make it more comfortable for everyone else.
They longed to be rid of them.
November 20, 2024 at 7:56 PM
They longed to be rid of them.
I often hear victim/survivors say they need an apology, in order for them to move on.
Sadly, someone’s healing can’t be contingent on the abuser acknowledging/atoning for their actions as, in the vast majority of cases, an abuser will deny or minimise, leaving disappointment and no resolution.
Sadly, someone’s healing can’t be contingent on the abuser acknowledging/atoning for their actions as, in the vast majority of cases, an abuser will deny or minimise, leaving disappointment and no resolution.
November 19, 2024 at 6:22 AM
I often hear victim/survivors say they need an apology, in order for them to move on.
Sadly, someone’s healing can’t be contingent on the abuser acknowledging/atoning for their actions as, in the vast majority of cases, an abuser will deny or minimise, leaving disappointment and no resolution.
Sadly, someone’s healing can’t be contingent on the abuser acknowledging/atoning for their actions as, in the vast majority of cases, an abuser will deny or minimise, leaving disappointment and no resolution.
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You’ll never know what you’re capable of until you start. I feel like Blue Sky is starting a FIRE.... It's calling my name!
Hit like, REPOST and FRIEND each other and comment with:
#TakeToTheBlueSky
Hit like, REPOST and FRIEND each other and comment with:
#TakeToTheBlueSky
November 15, 2024 at 7:43 PM
You’ll never know what you’re capable of until you start. I feel like Blue Sky is starting a FIRE.... It's calling my name!
Hit like, REPOST and FRIEND each other and comment with:
#TakeToTheBlueSky
Hit like, REPOST and FRIEND each other and comment with:
#TakeToTheBlueSky
I have lost count of all the times I’ve heard a professional say: “She keeps choosing abusive boyfriends.”
She doesn’t choose abusive boyfriends. No one does. No abuser presents badly, at first.
They disarm you by lovebombing you, and convincing you you’re ‘soul mates’.
She doesn’t choose abusive boyfriends. No one does. No abuser presents badly, at first.
They disarm you by lovebombing you, and convincing you you’re ‘soul mates’.
November 18, 2024 at 10:02 PM
I have lost count of all the times I’ve heard a professional say: “She keeps choosing abusive boyfriends.”
She doesn’t choose abusive boyfriends. No one does. No abuser presents badly, at first.
They disarm you by lovebombing you, and convincing you you’re ‘soul mates’.
She doesn’t choose abusive boyfriends. No one does. No abuser presents badly, at first.
They disarm you by lovebombing you, and convincing you you’re ‘soul mates’.
So many survivors never get the apology they so badly need.
November 18, 2024 at 7:03 AM
So many survivors never get the apology they so badly need.
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One thing I’ve learned from reporting on abuse and its patterns is that abusers and their enablers respond viciously to people talking about abuse. They don’t want people to learn about and recognize abuse, theirs or otherwise. They don’t want the status quo that benefits abusers to change.
November 18, 2024 at 2:40 AM
One thing I’ve learned from reporting on abuse and its patterns is that abusers and their enablers respond viciously to people talking about abuse. They don’t want people to learn about and recognize abuse, theirs or otherwise. They don’t want the status quo that benefits abusers to change.
Time and time I get approached by victim/survivors and asked it what they have been enduring is #coercivecontrol.
The conversation almost always ends with them saying that they didn’t think it was because they were never punched/stabbed/strangled etc and that he ONLY ever threatened it.
The conversation almost always ends with them saying that they didn’t think it was because they were never punched/stabbed/strangled etc and that he ONLY ever threatened it.
November 17, 2024 at 11:02 AM
Time and time I get approached by victim/survivors and asked it what they have been enduring is #coercivecontrol.
The conversation almost always ends with them saying that they didn’t think it was because they were never punched/stabbed/strangled etc and that he ONLY ever threatened it.
The conversation almost always ends with them saying that they didn’t think it was because they were never punched/stabbed/strangled etc and that he ONLY ever threatened it.
I’ve spent nearly 10 years on cultivating a better understanding of #coercivecontrol and recovering- first as a campaigner/advocate and now, on the frontline.
There is a new website coming soon, with a new direction.
In the meantime, here are some food pics…
There is a new website coming soon, with a new direction.
In the meantime, here are some food pics…
November 17, 2024 at 9:05 AM
I’ve spent nearly 10 years on cultivating a better understanding of #coercivecontrol and recovering- first as a campaigner/advocate and now, on the frontline.
There is a new website coming soon, with a new direction.
In the meantime, here are some food pics…
There is a new website coming soon, with a new direction.
In the meantime, here are some food pics…
Am I the only one who thinks this intense bromance between Musk and Trump is going to end badly?
Lovebombing usually does.
Lovebombing usually does.
November 15, 2024 at 8:32 PM
Am I the only one who thinks this intense bromance between Musk and Trump is going to end badly?
Lovebombing usually does.
Lovebombing usually does.
Is there a hierarchy of harm? There is certainly more gaslighting around on how emotional abuse is just *mean words.*
November 15, 2024 at 12:24 PM
Is there a hierarchy of harm? There is certainly more gaslighting around on how emotional abuse is just *mean words.*
The International Network Against Witchcraft Accusations and Ritual Attacks was formed in 2022 to connect the different groups and initiatives working on this issue across the globe.
www.theinternationalnetwork.org/about-us
www.theinternationalnetwork.org/about-us
About us — International Network Against Witchcraft Accusations and Ritual Attacks
www.theinternationalnetwork.org
November 14, 2024 at 7:04 PM
The International Network Against Witchcraft Accusations and Ritual Attacks was formed in 2022 to connect the different groups and initiatives working on this issue across the globe.
www.theinternationalnetwork.org/about-us
www.theinternationalnetwork.org/about-us
Informative read ⬇️
Lots of over-the-top coverage right now about the £1m cap on inheritance tax agricultural property relief (APR).
Quick thread:
Quick thread:
November 14, 2024 at 7:58 AM
Informative read ⬇️
We don’t have the language to adequately describe #coercivecontrol.
With physical abuse we don’t need the language. It’s not necessary because the evidence is in front of our eyes.
With coercive control, it is different. We can not simply rely on our eyes.
We need more.
With physical abuse we don’t need the language. It’s not necessary because the evidence is in front of our eyes.
With coercive control, it is different. We can not simply rely on our eyes.
We need more.
https://language.it’s
November 14, 2024 at 6:25 AM
We don’t have the language to adequately describe #coercivecontrol.
With physical abuse we don’t need the language. It’s not necessary because the evidence is in front of our eyes.
With coercive control, it is different. We can not simply rely on our eyes.
We need more.
With physical abuse we don’t need the language. It’s not necessary because the evidence is in front of our eyes.
With coercive control, it is different. We can not simply rely on our eyes.
We need more.
In 10 years of speaking to hundreds of victim/survivors of #coercivecontrol seeking support, I have continually heard the same thing:
Ongoing support is crucial.
A single person to contact, to minimise having to constantly repeat.
Being given a list of organisations to contact is not support.
Ongoing support is crucial.
A single person to contact, to minimise having to constantly repeat.
Being given a list of organisations to contact is not support.
November 14, 2024 at 6:19 AM
In 10 years of speaking to hundreds of victim/survivors of #coercivecontrol seeking support, I have continually heard the same thing:
Ongoing support is crucial.
A single person to contact, to minimise having to constantly repeat.
Being given a list of organisations to contact is not support.
Ongoing support is crucial.
A single person to contact, to minimise having to constantly repeat.
Being given a list of organisations to contact is not support.
Why am I here?
I’m seeing more and more posts on *that* platform giving dating advice that is manipulative and coercive.
How can we understand healthy relationships when the advice that is being promoted so prolifically is abusive?
I’m seeing more and more posts on *that* platform giving dating advice that is manipulative and coercive.
How can we understand healthy relationships when the advice that is being promoted so prolifically is abusive?
November 13, 2024 at 9:00 PM
Why am I here?
I’m seeing more and more posts on *that* platform giving dating advice that is manipulative and coercive.
How can we understand healthy relationships when the advice that is being promoted so prolifically is abusive?
I’m seeing more and more posts on *that* platform giving dating advice that is manipulative and coercive.
How can we understand healthy relationships when the advice that is being promoted so prolifically is abusive?
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Hi, I'm Dr Emma Katz.
I'm the author of the book Coercive Control in Children's and Mothers' Lives (Oxford)
I have my feet in two different social media worlds:
- the world of domestic violence & abuse advocacy
- the world of chronic illness & COVID safety
Find my work linktr.ee/dremmakatz
I'm the author of the book Coercive Control in Children's and Mothers' Lives (Oxford)
I have my feet in two different social media worlds:
- the world of domestic violence & abuse advocacy
- the world of chronic illness & COVID safety
Find my work linktr.ee/dremmakatz
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Coercive control and domestic violence and abuse expert. Academic.
linktr.ee
November 13, 2024 at 8:53 PM
Hi, I'm Dr Emma Katz.
I'm the author of the book Coercive Control in Children's and Mothers' Lives (Oxford)
I have my feet in two different social media worlds:
- the world of domestic violence & abuse advocacy
- the world of chronic illness & COVID safety
Find my work linktr.ee/dremmakatz
I'm the author of the book Coercive Control in Children's and Mothers' Lives (Oxford)
I have my feet in two different social media worlds:
- the world of domestic violence & abuse advocacy
- the world of chronic illness & COVID safety
Find my work linktr.ee/dremmakatz