Craig cassey
@coachcraig.bsky.social
Executive leadership and Sex coach, speaker, and relationship researcher. 🏳️🌈 AF.
Follow for relationship advice and occasionally thotty pics
Follow for relationship advice and occasionally thotty pics
If you're not prioritizing pleasure, you're not prioritizing your relationship.
Here’s what you have to gain when you put pleasure first ⤵️
Here’s what you have to gain when you put pleasure first ⤵️
May 15, 2025 at 4:47 PM
If you're not prioritizing pleasure, you're not prioritizing your relationship.
Here’s what you have to gain when you put pleasure first ⤵️
Here’s what you have to gain when you put pleasure first ⤵️
You’ve been told masturbation is normal.
But did you know it’s actually good for you?
Let’s talk about the 7 health benefits of solo pleasure—backed by science 🧠💦
👇
But did you know it’s actually good for you?
Let’s talk about the 7 health benefits of solo pleasure—backed by science 🧠💦
👇
May 1, 2025 at 7:11 PM
You’ve been told masturbation is normal.
But did you know it’s actually good for you?
Let’s talk about the 7 health benefits of solo pleasure—backed by science 🧠💦
👇
But did you know it’s actually good for you?
Let’s talk about the 7 health benefits of solo pleasure—backed by science 🧠💦
👇
Shoutout to everyone who was so kind to volunteer to test my quiz out! It’s been a huge help and I really appreciate all the feedback!
Yall are ensuring this is top notch for my community and those who want more relationship and sex support!
Yall are ensuring this is top notch for my community and those who want more relationship and sex support!
April 10, 2025 at 11:39 PM
Shoutout to everyone who was so kind to volunteer to test my quiz out! It’s been a huge help and I really appreciate all the feedback!
Yall are ensuring this is top notch for my community and those who want more relationship and sex support!
Yall are ensuring this is top notch for my community and those who want more relationship and sex support!
[Beta Testers Needed!]
Wrapping up design on a new short form quiz to help you uncover your attachment and desire archetype complete with tips on how to improve your relationships and sex life!
Want to be a beta tester? First 10 get a bonus breakdown specific to them and their results! 🩵
Wrapping up design on a new short form quiz to help you uncover your attachment and desire archetype complete with tips on how to improve your relationships and sex life!
Want to be a beta tester? First 10 get a bonus breakdown specific to them and their results! 🩵
April 9, 2025 at 7:34 PM
[Beta Testers Needed!]
Wrapping up design on a new short form quiz to help you uncover your attachment and desire archetype complete with tips on how to improve your relationships and sex life!
Want to be a beta tester? First 10 get a bonus breakdown specific to them and their results! 🩵
Wrapping up design on a new short form quiz to help you uncover your attachment and desire archetype complete with tips on how to improve your relationships and sex life!
Want to be a beta tester? First 10 get a bonus breakdown specific to them and their results! 🩵
If you love your partner but not your sex life, you’re likely missing Erotic Leadership.
Here’s why that matters — and what to do about it. 🧵👇
Here’s why that matters — and what to do about it. 🧵👇
April 7, 2025 at 11:27 PM
If you love your partner but not your sex life, you’re likely missing Erotic Leadership.
Here’s why that matters — and what to do about it. 🧵👇
Here’s why that matters — and what to do about it. 🧵👇
What fisting can teach us about receiving love better…
🧵for the brave, the curious, and the ones who struggle to let good shit in.
🧵for the brave, the curious, and the ones who struggle to let good shit in.
April 3, 2025 at 5:40 PM
What fisting can teach us about receiving love better…
🧵for the brave, the curious, and the ones who struggle to let good shit in.
🧵for the brave, the curious, and the ones who struggle to let good shit in.
They say if you stay ready you don’t gotta get ready 😏
March 24, 2025 at 11:44 PM
They say if you stay ready you don’t gotta get ready 😏
5 ways anxiety might be quietly ruining your sex life (and what to do about it 🧵)
If you’re craving more ease, connection, & pleasure in bed, this is for you:
If you’re craving more ease, connection, & pleasure in bed, this is for you:
March 21, 2025 at 7:20 PM
5 ways anxiety might be quietly ruining your sex life (and what to do about it 🧵)
If you’re craving more ease, connection, & pleasure in bed, this is for you:
If you’re craving more ease, connection, & pleasure in bed, this is for you:
This is your friendly reminder if you want to btm to *practice* outside of just fucking your partners if you run more tight than relaxed.
Your hole is a muscle and like any other muscle responds well to stretching and relaxation exercises before taking the 🍆 you want ;)
Your hole is a muscle and like any other muscle responds well to stretching and relaxation exercises before taking the 🍆 you want ;)
March 20, 2025 at 5:00 PM
This is your friendly reminder if you want to btm to *practice* outside of just fucking your partners if you run more tight than relaxed.
Your hole is a muscle and like any other muscle responds well to stretching and relaxation exercises before taking the 🍆 you want ;)
Your hole is a muscle and like any other muscle responds well to stretching and relaxation exercises before taking the 🍆 you want ;)
One of the greatest “quantum leaps” in my relationship healing process was when I finally learned why my desire for boyfriends who I found objectively so damn hot would randomly die after 6 months was due to my leaning avoidantly attached.
For a decade I repeatedly found myself in the frustrating…
For a decade I repeatedly found myself in the frustrating…
March 17, 2025 at 7:27 PM
One of the greatest “quantum leaps” in my relationship healing process was when I finally learned why my desire for boyfriends who I found objectively so damn hot would randomly die after 6 months was due to my leaning avoidantly attached.
For a decade I repeatedly found myself in the frustrating…
For a decade I repeatedly found myself in the frustrating…
Just presented on my Masters research and loved every second 🥹🥹🥹 it’s such a treat to get to share what I’ve learned helps couples truly build thriving relationships that can even take severely avoidant or anxious partners and transform them in 6 months to more secure and passionate lovers
March 12, 2025 at 10:21 AM
Just presented on my Masters research and loved every second 🥹🥹🥹 it’s such a treat to get to share what I’ve learned helps couples truly build thriving relationships that can even take severely avoidant or anxious partners and transform them in 6 months to more secure and passionate lovers
Had the time of my life in Mardi Gras this past weekend (seriously can’t think of a better way to wrap up my year in 🇦🇺!) and I’m reminded that I am such a quality over quantity person on vacay.
I’ll take a vacay bf or passionate fuck with ample pillow talk and brekkie over 12 men any day.
I’ll take a vacay bf or passionate fuck with ample pillow talk and brekkie over 12 men any day.
March 6, 2025 at 1:50 AM
Had the time of my life in Mardi Gras this past weekend (seriously can’t think of a better way to wrap up my year in 🇦🇺!) and I’m reminded that I am such a quality over quantity person on vacay.
I’ll take a vacay bf or passionate fuck with ample pillow talk and brekkie over 12 men any day.
I’ll take a vacay bf or passionate fuck with ample pillow talk and brekkie over 12 men any day.
You can’t “self-care” your way into saving a relationship that’s not in alignment. But not taking care of yourself will end even the best relationships if not corrected.
March 4, 2025 at 3:18 AM
You can’t “self-care” your way into saving a relationship that’s not in alignment. But not taking care of yourself will end even the best relationships if not corrected.
Some of yall are so damn slutty…
It makes me so proud 🥺🥲
It makes me so proud 🥺🥲
February 21, 2025 at 2:35 AM
Some of yall are so damn slutty…
It makes me so proud 🥺🥲
It makes me so proud 🥺🥲
It’s 2025, if you want to go on a dinner date and fuck we’re fucking first and eating second.
I am not sacrificing a delicious cheesy pasta entree and dessert when I can have my cake and eat yours too… first ;)
I am not sacrificing a delicious cheesy pasta entree and dessert when I can have my cake and eat yours too… first ;)
February 13, 2025 at 11:50 PM
It’s 2025, if you want to go on a dinner date and fuck we’re fucking first and eating second.
I am not sacrificing a delicious cheesy pasta entree and dessert when I can have my cake and eat yours too… first ;)
I am not sacrificing a delicious cheesy pasta entree and dessert when I can have my cake and eat yours too… first ;)
Thongs on leg day just feel… right 😏
January 26, 2025 at 10:04 PM
Thongs on leg day just feel… right 😏
5 Relationship reframes to get through your rough patches more easily and back on track to a more pleasurable and passionate partnership. 1/n
January 22, 2025 at 11:32 PM
5 Relationship reframes to get through your rough patches more easily and back on track to a more pleasurable and passionate partnership. 1/n
Setting limits on my phone.
Deleting my news apps.
Redesigning my morning and evening rituals.
And having a lot of sex.
This week calls for all the self-care 😵💫
Deleting my news apps.
Redesigning my morning and evening rituals.
And having a lot of sex.
This week calls for all the self-care 😵💫
January 22, 2025 at 10:26 AM
Setting limits on my phone.
Deleting my news apps.
Redesigning my morning and evening rituals.
And having a lot of sex.
This week calls for all the self-care 😵💫
Deleting my news apps.
Redesigning my morning and evening rituals.
And having a lot of sex.
This week calls for all the self-care 😵💫
Pro tip for self-actualization: stop compartmentalizing parts of yourself and putting them at odds with eachother and instead own them all!
I’m both spiritual and slutty.
Whorish and wholesome.
Brilliant and an utter goofball.
And that’s my magic!
What’s yours?
I’m both spiritual and slutty.
Whorish and wholesome.
Brilliant and an utter goofball.
And that’s my magic!
What’s yours?
January 13, 2025 at 8:20 AM
Pro tip for self-actualization: stop compartmentalizing parts of yourself and putting them at odds with eachother and instead own them all!
I’m both spiritual and slutty.
Whorish and wholesome.
Brilliant and an utter goofball.
And that’s my magic!
What’s yours?
I’m both spiritual and slutty.
Whorish and wholesome.
Brilliant and an utter goofball.
And that’s my magic!
What’s yours?
Idk what it is but a man in leather with a big goofy smile just does things to me 😍
Missing MAL this year 🥺
Missing MAL this year 🥺
January 13, 2025 at 1:06 AM
Idk what it is but a man in leather with a big goofy smile just does things to me 😍
Missing MAL this year 🥺
Missing MAL this year 🥺
A reminder that just because someone is wearing “revealing” clothing, whether it’s a jock strap at a party or a form fitting play outfit - it’s not a free invitation to touch them.
Consent is both sexy and not optional.
So go up! Flirt! Say you love their lewk! And get consent before touching. 😘
Consent is both sexy and not optional.
So go up! Flirt! Say you love their lewk! And get consent before touching. 😘
January 12, 2025 at 1:56 AM
A reminder that just because someone is wearing “revealing” clothing, whether it’s a jock strap at a party or a form fitting play outfit - it’s not a free invitation to touch them.
Consent is both sexy and not optional.
So go up! Flirt! Say you love their lewk! And get consent before touching. 😘
Consent is both sexy and not optional.
So go up! Flirt! Say you love their lewk! And get consent before touching. 😘
In honor of hump day in Australia and the launch of my new brand tomorrow, here are some cheeks 👅
Who says coaches can’t be sex positive and cheeky all at once ;)
Who says coaches can’t be sex positive and cheeky all at once ;)
January 8, 2025 at 3:39 AM
In honor of hump day in Australia and the launch of my new brand tomorrow, here are some cheeks 👅
Who says coaches can’t be sex positive and cheeky all at once ;)
Who says coaches can’t be sex positive and cheeky all at once ;)
One of the most common mistakes I see in relationships that are increasingly sexless is asking “do you want to have sex?” to a partner who often feels as if they’re pulling back, never initiating, or something physically cold despite saying they love you and find you interested. Here’s why:
January 5, 2025 at 1:08 AM
One of the most common mistakes I see in relationships that are increasingly sexless is asking “do you want to have sex?” to a partner who often feels as if they’re pulling back, never initiating, or something physically cold despite saying they love you and find you interested. Here’s why:
Heading into the new year in Australia grateful for the adventure I just embarked on.
1 year ago I was still in the states excitedly anxious about what was to come.
1 year later I’m planning PhD apps, launching to a new course to help couples vanquish bed death, and happier than I’ve been in a…
1 year ago I was still in the states excitedly anxious about what was to come.
1 year later I’m planning PhD apps, launching to a new course to help couples vanquish bed death, and happier than I’ve been in a…
December 31, 2024 at 8:07 AM
Heading into the new year in Australia grateful for the adventure I just embarked on.
1 year ago I was still in the states excitedly anxious about what was to come.
1 year later I’m planning PhD apps, launching to a new course to help couples vanquish bed death, and happier than I’ve been in a…
1 year ago I was still in the states excitedly anxious about what was to come.
1 year later I’m planning PhD apps, launching to a new course to help couples vanquish bed death, and happier than I’ve been in a…
I’ve learned the best relationships aren’t those that use excitement as their foundation at the cost of personal peace, but have peace, safety, and trust as their foundation and generate excitement and adventure from that place 🥰
December 19, 2024 at 1:21 AM
I’ve learned the best relationships aren’t those that use excitement as their foundation at the cost of personal peace, but have peace, safety, and trust as their foundation and generate excitement and adventure from that place 🥰