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Coach Bear
@coachbeardadbod.bsky.social
Verse greymuzzle GenX soft-dom papabear; married, ethical non-monogamist; nips, pits, frot, cigars/pipes, handler, aspiring musclebelly.

This is a mostly lurking alt for posting my erotica/hypno (not many pix).

More about me: linktr.ee/CoachBearDadBod
The tiddies are tiddying
November 14, 2025 at 7:57 PM
Or maybe feeling like one of these fine gents...

🧵 6/6
November 12, 2025 at 7:33 PM
I have collected bottles for years, and have a few vintage ones that go back to the 80s/90s.

This week, I found an old bottle of one of my favorites in storage: Ralph Lauren MONOGRAM.

It was released in 1985 as a follow-up to the smash-hit POLO, but was discontinued in 1987.

🧵 2/6
November 12, 2025 at 7:33 PM
Cremo Bourbon & Oak or Italian Bergamot
November 10, 2025 at 1:51 AM
I've given my Linktree a bit of a refresh!

I've added sections and links, and also took my various threaded posts about me (the origin of "Coach", why I write smut, etc.) to craft an "About Me" profile page as an introduction before folks dive into my content.

linktr.ee/CoachBearDad...
November 2, 2025 at 8:43 PM
Check out this amazing ad for the Melrose Baths from the early 1980s, showing a cartoonish collection of happy, smiling, diverse body types, with the tagline “if you’re breathing and your body is warm, you’re our kind of people!”

www.queermaps.org/place/melros...

🧵 7/7
November 1, 2025 at 5:54 AM
Yeah I’ve been remiss in doing more. I like some production on them (music, voice processing, etc.) so they take some time. I have a couple of ideas teed up and hope to get at least two more done in the next few months. Thanks for listening!
November 1, 2025 at 12:34 AM
Yup, I'm still checking Telegram occasionally.

Don't worry, I'll resume chatting there and posting to my private channel soon enough. Just need a break for awhile.

In the meantime, download and read or listen to some of my smut!

drive.google.com/drive/folder...
October 31, 2025 at 11:02 PM
Because I’m in charge.

I’m not on your timer, champ.
October 20, 2025 at 9:28 PM
My kinks are pretty mild. The basics:

Kindness first.

I’m a soft dom into positive reinforcement; I love
emotionally-supportive control & power exchange.

I like pits & musk (not more than a few day’s worth).

Breath control & light impact play if chemistry is good.

Cigar sex if location works.
October 18, 2025 at 9:31 PM
Absolutely. My dad was the best for that, and I try to pay it forward, to the best of my ability. 🩷
October 18, 2025 at 7:28 PM
I like a boy with initiative 😈
October 18, 2025 at 6:08 PM
My dog, and my husband.
October 18, 2025 at 6:08 PM
“Hanging out” one-on-one is something I give priority to close friends, dependent on connection, and most importantly, calendar.

“Getting to know me” is a two-way street. I can’t do all the work.

Come up and say hi at a bar event sometime. I won’t bite.
October 18, 2025 at 7:17 AM
Kinda broad question.

I don’t keep a running list.

My best answer to that is “someone I connect and have chemistry with.”
October 18, 2025 at 7:11 AM
Hmmm 🤔
October 18, 2025 at 2:57 AM
Heck yes. I love a sexy sartorial cocktail date.

Always open to carefully removing those nice clothes together after a few cocktails, too 😈

Suit and tie blowjobs are 👌
October 18, 2025 at 2:35 AM
Chilling at home. Friends coming for dinner. Low-key.
October 18, 2025 at 2:21 AM
While topping or bottoming, I love eye contact and having my nipples worked — in a sling or on your/my back.

I also love topping you on your belly/side, straddling a straight leg while the other knee is bent, does that have a name? Pry those cheeks open and get me deeper; makes me cum HARD.
October 18, 2025 at 2:21 AM
Hmmm. Maybe.

I like poppers but they’re not a real fetish for me, so I don’t think I’d be a good “coach” for them.

I only really started using them again because of Trimix (avoided them for years because of Viagra/Cialis), so without the benefit of that shot, poppers fuck with my boner.
October 18, 2025 at 2:15 AM
Kindness.

After that, eye contact, kissing, and nipple play.
October 18, 2025 at 2:11 AM
Very vague. Define “like” — as a friend? As a fuckbuddy? As a good person? As a celebrity? Gotta give me something to work with here.

I don’t have a list of general “likes”.
October 18, 2025 at 12:22 AM
I reckon… DAT AZZ!
October 18, 2025 at 12:21 AM
Also, you need to play queer sexy indie arcade brawler STRANGE FLESH, that’s a key game mechanic.

greatestbear.itch.io/strange-flesh
October 17, 2025 at 8:25 PM
Old Kevin Flynn in hot loose black robes with glowy accents — revised to be kind of high-fashion Kenzo/kimono style. Casual sexy Flynn. (Though I want to eventually make the full costume below from the movie, too)

Give me a few years to work on my musclebelly status, and I’ll go as daddy Triton.
October 17, 2025 at 8:15 PM