@clownybee.bsky.social
Just an old lady who likes to yell into the void
A short (?) story about why I thought I don't like wine
My (ex) husband (we were still just dating at the time but anyway) got an invite to his friend/colleague's wedding. I knew absolutely NONE of those people.
I was 23. I left my kid (3 at the time) with her grandparents for the weekend.
My (ex) husband (we were still just dating at the time but anyway) got an invite to his friend/colleague's wedding. I knew absolutely NONE of those people.
I was 23. I left my kid (3 at the time) with her grandparents for the weekend.
February 10, 2026 at 10:01 PM
A short (?) story about why I thought I don't like wine
My (ex) husband (we were still just dating at the time but anyway) got an invite to his friend/colleague's wedding. I knew absolutely NONE of those people.
I was 23. I left my kid (3 at the time) with her grandparents for the weekend.
My (ex) husband (we were still just dating at the time but anyway) got an invite to his friend/colleague's wedding. I knew absolutely NONE of those people.
I was 23. I left my kid (3 at the time) with her grandparents for the weekend.
I have an ember mug. I bought it with my first Xmas "gift" card from work. That was 4 years ago. Its name is Happy Happy Warm Warm and it's on the list of about 4 things getting me through this horrible winter we are having.
Let us all rejoice and thank Happy Happy Warm Warm for their service
Let us all rejoice and thank Happy Happy Warm Warm for their service
February 2, 2026 at 2:40 PM
I have an ember mug. I bought it with my first Xmas "gift" card from work. That was 4 years ago. Its name is Happy Happy Warm Warm and it's on the list of about 4 things getting me through this horrible winter we are having.
Let us all rejoice and thank Happy Happy Warm Warm for their service
Let us all rejoice and thank Happy Happy Warm Warm for their service
These men get so hard being able to execute people like this.
January 8, 2026 at 6:21 PM
These men get so hard being able to execute people like this.
I'm eternally annoyed by the "witches" on the Internet who tell you about their spells so they can sell you their oils or tinctures etc
December 1, 2025 at 4:41 PM
I'm eternally annoyed by the "witches" on the Internet who tell you about their spells so they can sell you their oils or tinctures etc
The fact that he thinks all his sex worker escapades were with women who chose to be in that profession is pretty naive really.
I'm sure some of them were l, I know they exist, but....I know for sure that a few of the hotels he visited for those escapades are those where trafficking is rampant.
I'm sure some of them were l, I know they exist, but....I know for sure that a few of the hotels he visited for those escapades are those where trafficking is rampant.
December 1, 2025 at 4:04 PM
The fact that he thinks all his sex worker escapades were with women who chose to be in that profession is pretty naive really.
I'm sure some of them were l, I know they exist, but....I know for sure that a few of the hotels he visited for those escapades are those where trafficking is rampant.
I'm sure some of them were l, I know they exist, but....I know for sure that a few of the hotels he visited for those escapades are those where trafficking is rampant.
@adoptourcrew.bsky.social is doing the lord's work right now. Reading the q&a thread has made me so so so happy
June 21, 2025 at 1:48 PM
@adoptourcrew.bsky.social is doing the lord's work right now. Reading the q&a thread has made me so so so happy
If you had a friend or family member that told you of their recent, very sudden "mutual" break up of their almost 20 year marriage and then the next week they bring a new partner to every function, wouldn't you think "hey, that's pretty fishy!"
June 9, 2025 at 11:50 AM
If you had a friend or family member that told you of their recent, very sudden "mutual" break up of their almost 20 year marriage and then the next week they bring a new partner to every function, wouldn't you think "hey, that's pretty fishy!"
So, I think I may have realized something super weird, please stay with me.
When I first met my (now ex) husband I had a kid.
(How he is and was with that kid is another story)
We have a child together through IVF (also another story)
When I first met my (now ex) husband I had a kid.
(How he is and was with that kid is another story)
We have a child together through IVF (also another story)
April 22, 2025 at 4:09 PM
So, I think I may have realized something super weird, please stay with me.
When I first met my (now ex) husband I had a kid.
(How he is and was with that kid is another story)
We have a child together through IVF (also another story)
When I first met my (now ex) husband I had a kid.
(How he is and was with that kid is another story)
We have a child together through IVF (also another story)
My ex started seeing people outside our marriage and I "let" it happen. We had many conversations about STDs and one of my "rules" was that he get regularly tested. He agreed. But then the conversation went further. I told him I had gotten this far in my life without any
March 8, 2025 at 2:20 PM
My ex started seeing people outside our marriage and I "let" it happen. We had many conversations about STDs and one of my "rules" was that he get regularly tested. He agreed. But then the conversation went further. I told him I had gotten this far in my life without any
Man announces to his family a "sudden" break up of his marriage that everyone was shocked by
3 days later man introduces his mother to his new partner.
No one thinks anything of it or calls him out at all.
He continues to tell everyone the breakup is not his fault. And came out of no where...
3 days later man introduces his mother to his new partner.
No one thinks anything of it or calls him out at all.
He continues to tell everyone the breakup is not his fault. And came out of no where...
March 4, 2025 at 9:35 PM
Man announces to his family a "sudden" break up of his marriage that everyone was shocked by
3 days later man introduces his mother to his new partner.
No one thinks anything of it or calls him out at all.
He continues to tell everyone the breakup is not his fault. And came out of no where...
3 days later man introduces his mother to his new partner.
No one thinks anything of it or calls him out at all.
He continues to tell everyone the breakup is not his fault. And came out of no where...
They know it was bad...
... But it was so much worse
... But it was so much worse
March 4, 2025 at 5:16 PM
They know it was bad...
... But it was so much worse
... But it was so much worse
Dogs know.
My ex has been taking our dog to training (which I always suggested but he was all "I trained all my dogs and I don't need someone else to do it" but that's another story) It seems he's discovered that this dog only bites men cause he was "probably" raised by women and doesn't trust men
My ex has been taking our dog to training (which I always suggested but he was all "I trained all my dogs and I don't need someone else to do it" but that's another story) It seems he's discovered that this dog only bites men cause he was "probably" raised by women and doesn't trust men
February 25, 2025 at 3:33 PM
Dogs know.
My ex has been taking our dog to training (which I always suggested but he was all "I trained all my dogs and I don't need someone else to do it" but that's another story) It seems he's discovered that this dog only bites men cause he was "probably" raised by women and doesn't trust men
My ex has been taking our dog to training (which I always suggested but he was all "I trained all my dogs and I don't need someone else to do it" but that's another story) It seems he's discovered that this dog only bites men cause he was "probably" raised by women and doesn't trust men
"I was never given a chance to be better" is a phrase I hear over and over from my ex husband.
No one should have to tell you to not call your kid slurs
No one should have to tell you to respect your spouse
No one should have to tell you that throwing things is terrifying
No one should have to tell you to not call your kid slurs
No one should have to tell you to respect your spouse
No one should have to tell you that throwing things is terrifying
February 21, 2025 at 4:38 PM
"I was never given a chance to be better" is a phrase I hear over and over from my ex husband.
No one should have to tell you to not call your kid slurs
No one should have to tell you to respect your spouse
No one should have to tell you that throwing things is terrifying
No one should have to tell you to not call your kid slurs
No one should have to tell you to respect your spouse
No one should have to tell you that throwing things is terrifying
I need real adult human interactions but I have no idea how to go about doing this.
February 19, 2025 at 6:06 PM
I need real adult human interactions but I have no idea how to go about doing this.
A long time ago I was in a fitness group. A few times a year we'd do a challenge. It was mostly trying to teach people healthier habits and that eating good food can be easy etc. Every week we'd add something new.
Usually it was fun and we'd share recipes and things we liked or didn't like etc.
Usually it was fun and we'd share recipes and things we liked or didn't like etc.
February 19, 2025 at 2:42 PM
A long time ago I was in a fitness group. A few times a year we'd do a challenge. It was mostly trying to teach people healthier habits and that eating good food can be easy etc. Every week we'd add something new.
Usually it was fun and we'd share recipes and things we liked or didn't like etc.
Usually it was fun and we'd share recipes and things we liked or didn't like etc.
My ex husband never really did anything for me for Valentine's Day. I got dinner (with kids) or lunch out (while they were in school) but minimal effort.
Last year he bought me a new coffee maker while he was out out on a date with someone. He made sure I knew that part.
Last year he bought me a new coffee maker while he was out out on a date with someone. He made sure I knew that part.
February 14, 2025 at 6:01 PM
My ex husband never really did anything for me for Valentine's Day. I got dinner (with kids) or lunch out (while they were in school) but minimal effort.
Last year he bought me a new coffee maker while he was out out on a date with someone. He made sure I knew that part.
Last year he bought me a new coffee maker while he was out out on a date with someone. He made sure I knew that part.
I absolutely hate being a grown up so far this week
February 5, 2025 at 9:04 PM
I absolutely hate being a grown up so far this week
Story time!:
SSX Tricky is one of my favorite games since I bought an Xbox back in 2003(?). I love this game with all my heart and I'm pretty good at it. I have a few favourite characters but I like to play some of the others for variety and completionist reasons.
SSX Tricky is one of my favorite games since I bought an Xbox back in 2003(?). I love this game with all my heart and I'm pretty good at it. I have a few favourite characters but I like to play some of the others for variety and completionist reasons.
February 2, 2025 at 9:04 PM
Story time!:
SSX Tricky is one of my favorite games since I bought an Xbox back in 2003(?). I love this game with all my heart and I'm pretty good at it. I have a few favourite characters but I like to play some of the others for variety and completionist reasons.
SSX Tricky is one of my favorite games since I bought an Xbox back in 2003(?). I love this game with all my heart and I'm pretty good at it. I have a few favourite characters but I like to play some of the others for variety and completionist reasons.
"It's not my secret to keep; it's his"
That hit me so hard
That hit me so hard
January 31, 2025 at 9:53 PM
"It's not my secret to keep; it's his"
That hit me so hard
That hit me so hard
Good news is: not travelling to America for the next 4 years will help me pay down some debts I guess.
January 30, 2025 at 3:11 AM
Good news is: not travelling to America for the next 4 years will help me pay down some debts I guess.
The people who fall asleep on the couch are the same people who get mad at you for wanting to go to bed early cause you're tired.
And/or if you try to wake them and are like "I'm tired too, let's just go to bed" they get insulted like you just said the stupidest mother fucking thing.
And/or if you try to wake them and are like "I'm tired too, let's just go to bed" they get insulted like you just said the stupidest mother fucking thing.
January 28, 2025 at 1:55 AM
The people who fall asleep on the couch are the same people who get mad at you for wanting to go to bed early cause you're tired.
And/or if you try to wake them and are like "I'm tired too, let's just go to bed" they get insulted like you just said the stupidest mother fucking thing.
And/or if you try to wake them and are like "I'm tired too, let's just go to bed" they get insulted like you just said the stupidest mother fucking thing.
Would it be weird if I just started roller skating around my house?
January 23, 2025 at 9:54 PM
Would it be weird if I just started roller skating around my house?
Years ago my ex made plans to move us all to the states. I didn't want to go for a ton of reasons but it was mostly the idea of sending my youngest child into a world of school shootings, and leaving my oldest (who had just turned 18 and was off to adulthood) behind. 1/2?
January 23, 2025 at 4:10 PM
Years ago my ex made plans to move us all to the states. I didn't want to go for a ton of reasons but it was mostly the idea of sending my youngest child into a world of school shootings, and leaving my oldest (who had just turned 18 and was off to adulthood) behind. 1/2?
Is there anything like Scentbird that's Canadian?
January 23, 2025 at 12:26 AM
Is there anything like Scentbird that's Canadian?