cheeven.bsky.social
@cheeven.bsky.social
Bob. I know it is hard to lose someone who you used to talk to everyday. You feel lonely. Unfortunately you can’t rely on other people to make you happy. You have to own your happiness.
December 31, 2024 at 2:35 PM
Bob, I know it has been a difficult holiday for you. Don’t lose faith on yourself. You can handle it. You will prevail.
December 31, 2024 at 12:45 PM
Bob, let go and move on
December 31, 2024 at 9:50 AM
Dear Bob - Happy New Year. You reached out to her and you got the closure you needed. Take it as the parting gift before the end of 2024. Things will only get better! Believe in yourself!
December 30, 2024 at 10:12 PM
Bob, I know it is hard. It is the best time of year but your heart is still broken. The pains are natural - breaking from a once loving relationship is painful but you need to have faith in yourself that things will alright, and you will be alright! Hang in there!
December 25, 2024 at 12:41 PM
Bob, don’t be misguided. Remember to focus on yourself.
December 23, 2024 at 11:01 AM
Bob, don’t worry! It is your holiday soon!
December 19, 2024 at 4:05 AM
Bob, remember - it is not about her. It is your life and it should be you first.
December 18, 2024 at 9:17 AM
Bob, if you are listening - hang in there! The sky will clear up once the storm has passed, and the moon will shine again once the cloud flies by… be strong and be brave!
December 16, 2024 at 11:48 PM
Still hurts…
December 16, 2024 at 7:51 PM
人的慣性是可怕的
December 16, 2024 at 12:29 PM
人有悲歡離合
月有陰晴圓缺
此事古難全
但願人長久
千里共嬋娟
December 16, 2024 at 12:27 PM
菩提本無樹
明鏡亦非台
本來無一物
何處惹塵埃
December 16, 2024 at 12:25 PM
Bob told me that he has decided that he wants to cut off every personal engagement with the girl. He knows that he still needs to work with her in the office, but he can not afford to stay in the never-ending cycle of self doubt.
December 15, 2024 at 10:34 PM
Realising that someone or something is no longer your concern is both painful and deliberating at the same time
December 15, 2024 at 2:00 PM
What is more hurtful? Losing someone you love or losing someone who loves you?
December 15, 2024 at 12:16 PM
One of the major problem for him is that he feels less and less engaged from his workspace and from the people around him in the last couple of months.
December 15, 2024 at 11:17 AM
So a friend of mine, let’s call him Bob, has been having private counselling sessions with me regularly. He is an established software engineer and has serves in a top tier company as an engineer manager for over a decade. He actually crossed the 12-year milestone recently.
December 15, 2024 at 11:16 AM
I am aware that Bluesky is a public space, so I will remember to keep anything anonymous. This might make it hard for me when I really want to rant. Maybe I should just used a third person term from now on?
December 15, 2024 at 11:14 AM
Although my intention is to rant about my life, I do hope I will grow out of the current low tide and can become a stronger version of myself.
December 15, 2024 at 11:12 AM
Hello. This is my first post on Bluesky. I have been a long time user on Twitter but I mostly just use it as a news feed. I want to see if I can use Bluesky as a private journey and post my darker and more negative thoughts and feeling in a new and more closed space.
December 15, 2024 at 11:09 AM