Ineffably Chris
@catastrfy.bsky.social
Queer & genderqueer severely disabled elder.
Rainbow collector, genealogist& researcher, writer, designer, cat herder, artist, crafter
Ze/hir
link.me/catastrfy
Rainbow collector, genealogist& researcher, writer, designer, cat herder, artist, crafter
Ze/hir
link.me/catastrfy
omg soooo cute! i lurve them!
December 19, 2025 at 12:53 AM
omg soooo cute! i lurve them!
oh, that’s aDORable!😻
December 18, 2025 at 3:41 PM
oh, that’s aDORable!😻
sending you so many vibes and hugs if they are welcome!
December 18, 2025 at 5:22 AM
sending you so many vibes and hugs if they are welcome!
so welcome, becky!💙💛😻
December 18, 2025 at 4:06 AM
so welcome, becky!💙💛😻
you're very welcome, and thank YOU!
i admire you greatly for all the work you've done!
i admire you greatly for all the work you've done!
December 18, 2025 at 4:05 AM
you're very welcome, and thank YOU!
i admire you greatly for all the work you've done!
i admire you greatly for all the work you've done!
thank you so much hugs and mwahs!
December 17, 2025 at 3:39 AM
thank you so much hugs and mwahs!
oooh with me it was my lips and tongue staying numb for hours! huh.
December 17, 2025 at 3:06 AM
oooh with me it was my lips and tongue staying numb for hours! huh.
part of every generation of abusive parents respond w/ anger & outrage that their kids refuse to tolerate their abuse any longer & refuse to risk their own children.
highly rec reading about DARVO, a term coined by @jjfreyd.bsky.social
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DARVO
highly rec reading about DARVO, a term coined by @jjfreyd.bsky.social
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DARVO
DARVO - Wikipedia
en.wikipedia.org
December 17, 2025 at 2:18 AM
part of every generation of abusive parents respond w/ anger & outrage that their kids refuse to tolerate their abuse any longer & refuse to risk their own children.
highly rec reading about DARVO, a term coined by @jjfreyd.bsky.social
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DARVO
highly rec reading about DARVO, a term coined by @jjfreyd.bsky.social
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DARVO
i wish i could magic cake to you! HUGHUGHUGHUGHUGHUG*
December 17, 2025 at 1:28 AM
i wish i could magic cake to you! HUGHUGHUGHUGHUGHUG*
oh noooooo smooshing allll the hugs thru this box into no-time for you and all the *mwahs* and lovelveolove and healing vibes!
and now gonna scroll forward and look for updates xoxoxoxox
and now gonna scroll forward and look for updates xoxoxoxox
December 17, 2025 at 1:26 AM
oh noooooo smooshing allll the hugs thru this box into no-time for you and all the *mwahs* and lovelveolove and healing vibes!
and now gonna scroll forward and look for updates xoxoxoxox
and now gonna scroll forward and look for updates xoxoxoxox
i love that you have such great dentists! <3 <3
December 17, 2025 at 1:02 AM
i love that you have such great dentists! <3 <3
100%!!
my excellent dr in '98, after i told him about recent research i'd read on cfs, asked me to PLEASE email all those papers/articles to him, bc it was impossible for him to keep up with all current research on everything his patients had.
the only one of all my hcps from the 80s/90s to do so
my excellent dr in '98, after i told him about recent research i'd read on cfs, asked me to PLEASE email all those papers/articles to him, bc it was impossible for him to keep up with all current research on everything his patients had.
the only one of all my hcps from the 80s/90s to do so
December 17, 2025 at 1:00 AM
100%!!
my excellent dr in '98, after i told him about recent research i'd read on cfs, asked me to PLEASE email all those papers/articles to him, bc it was impossible for him to keep up with all current research on everything his patients had.
the only one of all my hcps from the 80s/90s to do so
my excellent dr in '98, after i told him about recent research i'd read on cfs, asked me to PLEASE email all those papers/articles to him, bc it was impossible for him to keep up with all current research on everything his patients had.
the only one of all my hcps from the 80s/90s to do so
painful but not swollen -- it's my bad leg that i injured in 2014 or so that never healed write. it should settle back down in a few days jsut now is miserable and 10ish
*HUG*
*HUG*
December 16, 2025 at 8:11 AM
painful but not swollen -- it's my bad leg that i injured in 2014 or so that never healed write. it should settle back down in a few days jsut now is miserable and 10ish
*HUG*
*HUG*
awwww, this makes my heart melt! <3 <3
December 16, 2025 at 12:09 AM
awwww, this makes my heart melt! <3 <3
oh, that is delightful!
December 14, 2025 at 4:13 AM
oh, that is delightful!
some of his rehydrated chicken and gobbles it down.
i think he WILL make it to solstice now and possibly into the new year!
he is almost out of his chickens, if anyone would like to get him some -- you will make him purr every time he eats them! (wish list post is pinned)
xoxoxoxx
i think he WILL make it to solstice now and possibly into the new year!
he is almost out of his chickens, if anyone would like to get him some -- you will make him purr every time he eats them! (wish list post is pinned)
xoxoxoxx
December 14, 2025 at 1:29 AM
some of his rehydrated chicken and gobbles it down.
i think he WILL make it to solstice now and possibly into the new year!
he is almost out of his chickens, if anyone would like to get him some -- you will make him purr every time he eats them! (wish list post is pinned)
xoxoxoxx
i think he WILL make it to solstice now and possibly into the new year!
he is almost out of his chickens, if anyone would like to get him some -- you will make him purr every time he eats them! (wish list post is pinned)
xoxoxoxx
but he's still in kidney failure; none of this is a cure.
the goal is his comfort and happiness--and he's so much happier now!
he likes to lay on chest on the best for a while as soon as i get up and make the bed (he sleeps w p at night), and he purrrrrrrrrrs. and then he has his oil and 2/3
the goal is his comfort and happiness--and he's so much happier now!
he likes to lay on chest on the best for a while as soon as i get up and make the bed (he sleeps w p at night), and he purrrrrrrrrrs. and then he has his oil and 2/3
December 14, 2025 at 1:29 AM
but he's still in kidney failure; none of this is a cure.
the goal is his comfort and happiness--and he's so much happier now!
he likes to lay on chest on the best for a while as soon as i get up and make the bed (he sleeps w p at night), and he purrrrrrrrrrs. and then he has his oil and 2/3
the goal is his comfort and happiness--and he's so much happier now!
he likes to lay on chest on the best for a while as soon as i get up and make the bed (he sleeps w p at night), and he purrrrrrrrrrs. and then he has his oil and 2/3