Getting a bunch of responses on a thread thinking one of them is a yes and they’re all no’s and “sorry I would but I’m out of town” “sorry I’m working” “sorry I’m busy” thinking you’re gonna get one yes and it’s all no is so fucking infuriating and disheartening.
So yeah anywho sorry for that take.

I’ve seen this and have had this happen too much. Like we understand you have a job, are elsewhere, are doing something else. Cool. Love that for you, don’t care tho.
We’re asking for someone to say yes, not a hundred no’s and why.
We need the yes.
We’d rather you say nothing.

There are a lot of people in my mind that this refers to, not just one person, but if you think it’s about you, it can be. We all need to learn something from it. I’m not 100% innocent (but most didn’t involve me), but I’ve definitely been in the middle of a lot of discourse and it’s fucking lame.

Y’all i genuinely want everyone in my community to get along. Beef in such a smallish community is fucking petty. But peace is also important. If they don’t want to talk they don’t have to. But blasting on social media is *ahem* dumb.

•Go to the person(s) you clearly wronged and talk to them. Say fucking sorry, they probably did some wrong too.
Instead of saying “I want to change!” To the world, the first step is talking to the people that were affected by you being a dick
I say this while being in the middle of everyone’s beef

imagine being a baby born on Rapture Day and not being able to make it into heaven because you weren’t alive yet to Hear The Good Word. i would want to speak to a manager tbh