Cassidy Vare 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈🇵🇸
@cassidy-vare.bsky.social
She/her. Lesbian. Actual communist. ACAB. Proud parent. MSW student. NY/NJ Gotham fan (champions again!). Warhammer queer. Make stuff from wood sometimes. Anti-AI.
Looking for trans friends, especially fem/me, in Philadelphia! Hit me up!
Looking for trans friends, especially fem/me, in Philadelphia! Hit me up!
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The thing about socialism is that it has a tendency to hurt people when it's being done badly.
The thing about capitalism is that it hurts people when it's being done *correctly.* The harm is baked into the design. The better it's working, fewer benefit and more people are harmed.
The thing about capitalism is that it hurts people when it's being done *correctly.* The harm is baked into the design. The better it's working, fewer benefit and more people are harmed.
"Should some big sports guy wake up one day, say "I'm a woman" and get to compete in womans sports? Cause I have heard people ague that."
No you haven't. Guaranteed. You have maybe heard people argue in bad faith *against* that.
No you haven't. Guaranteed. You have maybe heard people argue in bad faith *against* that.
November 30, 2025 at 4:16 PM
"Should some big sports guy wake up one day, say "I'm a woman" and get to compete in womans sports? Cause I have heard people ague that."
No you haven't. Guaranteed. You have maybe heard people argue in bad faith *against* that.
No you haven't. Guaranteed. You have maybe heard people argue in bad faith *against* that.
Joining the over-30 selfie thread!
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November 30, 2025 at 4:10 PM
Joining the over-30 selfie thread!
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It's weird to be both so sick I don't want to move and also horny for like the first time in months
November 28, 2025 at 4:17 PM
It's weird to be both so sick I don't want to move and also horny for like the first time in months
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The only truly irreversible thing a trans child is likely to do is take their own life. "What if they do something irreversible?" actually means "theyre not allowed to make a decision!"
You cant undo or reverse any decision you make, you can simply change your mind later and handle the consequences
You cant undo or reverse any decision you make, you can simply change your mind later and handle the consequences
November 22, 2025 at 11:57 AM
The only truly irreversible thing a trans child is likely to do is take their own life. "What if they do something irreversible?" actually means "theyre not allowed to make a decision!"
You cant undo or reverse any decision you make, you can simply change your mind later and handle the consequences
You cant undo or reverse any decision you make, you can simply change your mind later and handle the consequences
I had a meeting this morning with my MSW professor and my placement supervisors where mostly they talked about how great I am. I'm not used to people talking about me in front of me and calling me "she," and it was overwhelming to be both seen and praised. I was *sobbing* by the end.
November 20, 2025 at 10:21 PM
I had a meeting this morning with my MSW professor and my placement supervisors where mostly they talked about how great I am. I'm not used to people talking about me in front of me and calling me "she," and it was overwhelming to be both seen and praised. I was *sobbing* by the end.
It's Transgender Day of Remembrance. I'm about six months into my transition and lately I don't feel like a boy in a skirt anymore. I have a lot of feelings about taking up space or being the center of attention, and I'm feeling how desperately I've wanted those things my whole life.
Queer + here.
Queer + here.
November 20, 2025 at 4:59 PM
It's Transgender Day of Remembrance. I'm about six months into my transition and lately I don't feel like a boy in a skirt anymore. I have a lot of feelings about taking up space or being the center of attention, and I'm feeling how desperately I've wanted those things my whole life.
Queer + here.
Queer + here.
Was there a time in my life when I would have ridiculed someone for making dinner in heels? Yes.
Am I wearing heels while I make dinner *right now?* Also yes.
We can change and grow as human beings. We can contain multitudes.
Am I wearing heels while I make dinner *right now?* Also yes.
We can change and grow as human beings. We can contain multitudes.
November 18, 2025 at 11:09 PM
Was there a time in my life when I would have ridiculed someone for making dinner in heels? Yes.
Am I wearing heels while I make dinner *right now?* Also yes.
We can change and grow as human beings. We can contain multitudes.
Am I wearing heels while I make dinner *right now?* Also yes.
We can change and grow as human beings. We can contain multitudes.
My ladies (NY/NJ Gotham) are going to the final! And I will be going to Marsha's on South Street to watch them. Do I know anyone else who will be there? #nwsl
November 16, 2025 at 11:10 PM
My ladies (NY/NJ Gotham) are going to the final! And I will be going to Marsha's on South Street to watch them. Do I know anyone else who will be there? #nwsl
US men's national team vs Paraguay!
November 15, 2025 at 11:02 PM
US men's national team vs Paraguay!
Two hours of electrolysis is no joke. My nervous system is on fire.
November 11, 2025 at 10:09 PM
Two hours of electrolysis is no joke. My nervous system is on fire.
Gender Critical ideology is a reliable indicator of a personality disorder.
Treatment is available, as long as you can acknowledge that you have a problem and that you've caused harm.
Treatment is available, as long as you can acknowledge that you have a problem and that you've caused harm.
November 11, 2025 at 3:09 PM
Gender Critical ideology is a reliable indicator of a personality disorder.
Treatment is available, as long as you can acknowledge that you have a problem and that you've caused harm.
Treatment is available, as long as you can acknowledge that you have a problem and that you've caused harm.
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transphobes are the stupidest of the bigots bcos they’ve convinced themselves that eradicating trans ppl is a progressive position.
November 8, 2025 at 10:16 PM
transphobes are the stupidest of the bigots bcos they’ve convinced themselves that eradicating trans ppl is a progressive position.
Am I connected to any queer jewelers/silversmiths who are Star Trek fans? I want to commission a d'ja pagh and none of what I'm seeing out in the world is right.
November 9, 2025 at 2:42 PM
Am I connected to any queer jewelers/silversmiths who are Star Trek fans? I want to commission a d'ja pagh and none of what I'm seeing out in the world is right.
Going to Marsha's for the second half of the Gotham match tomorrow, anyone wanna meet up?
November 8, 2025 at 5:59 PM
Going to Marsha's for the second half of the Gotham match tomorrow, anyone wanna meet up?
This is your reminder that so-called AI is incapable of separating fact from fiction. It's unaware there's a difference. It doesn't exist to provide correct information about anything, it exists to get you to use it more. And it's basically destroying everything in the process.
Fuck AI.
Fuck AI.
November 7, 2025 at 9:27 PM
This is your reminder that so-called AI is incapable of separating fact from fiction. It's unaware there's a difference. It doesn't exist to provide correct information about anything, it exists to get you to use it more. And it's basically destroying everything in the process.
Fuck AI.
Fuck AI.
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Shoplifting is a victimless crime and good for building up your lawbreaking spirit.
November 7, 2025 at 5:07 PM
Shoplifting is a victimless crime and good for building up your lawbreaking spirit.
"Tears on the sleeve of a man, doesn't wanna be a boy today"
The first line on my FAVORITE album for most of my teens. @toriamos.bsky.social, you were SCREAMING into my earholes and it only took me thirty years to hear you. Thanks for trying, jfc
The first line on my FAVORITE album for most of my teens. @toriamos.bsky.social, you were SCREAMING into my earholes and it only took me thirty years to hear you. Thanks for trying, jfc
November 7, 2025 at 1:26 PM
"Tears on the sleeve of a man, doesn't wanna be a boy today"
The first line on my FAVORITE album for most of my teens. @toriamos.bsky.social, you were SCREAMING into my earholes and it only took me thirty years to hear you. Thanks for trying, jfc
The first line on my FAVORITE album for most of my teens. @toriamos.bsky.social, you were SCREAMING into my earholes and it only took me thirty years to hear you. Thanks for trying, jfc
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the reason you don't need dysphoria to be trans is because dysphoria can be impossible to realize without first accepting your own transness
November 6, 2025 at 1:43 AM
the reason you don't need dysphoria to be trans is because dysphoria can be impossible to realize without first accepting your own transness
Democrats avoid shooting themselves in the foot challenge: impossible
November 5, 2025 at 1:22 AM
Democrats avoid shooting themselves in the foot challenge: impossible
Six months into HRT. Doc just doubled my e dose and approved prog.
I will be unstoppable. Tremble before me, and rejoice.
I will be unstoppable. Tremble before me, and rejoice.
October 31, 2025 at 2:33 AM
Six months into HRT. Doc just doubled my e dose and approved prog.
I will be unstoppable. Tremble before me, and rejoice.
I will be unstoppable. Tremble before me, and rejoice.
Back on my bullshit*
*fancy bicycle
*fancy bicycle
October 28, 2025 at 12:53 AM
Back on my bullshit*
*fancy bicycle
*fancy bicycle
@paulabarkermp.bsky.social has turned off replies and quote reposts, because she's refusing to acknowledge that cellphone use had *nothing* to do with Brianna Ghey's murder. Brianna was murdered because of transphobia, which the UK government is ACTIVELY ENCOURAGING.
October 27, 2025 at 5:24 PM
@paulabarkermp.bsky.social has turned off replies and quote reposts, because she's refusing to acknowledge that cellphone use had *nothing* to do with Brianna Ghey's murder. Brianna was murdered because of transphobia, which the UK government is ACTIVELY ENCOURAGING.
Inside, I feel like I've changed so much in the last six months since my transition began. I feel at home in myself, and in my body, in ways I never did in 46 years.
Which makes it all the more startling, and frustrating, to look in the mirror and see so little change reflected in my face yet. 🙁
Which makes it all the more startling, and frustrating, to look in the mirror and see so little change reflected in my face yet. 🙁
October 19, 2025 at 2:17 PM
Inside, I feel like I've changed so much in the last six months since my transition began. I feel at home in myself, and in my body, in ways I never did in 46 years.
Which makes it all the more startling, and frustrating, to look in the mirror and see so little change reflected in my face yet. 🙁
Which makes it all the more startling, and frustrating, to look in the mirror and see so little change reflected in my face yet. 🙁
Question for my fellow tall women: what leggings do you like? Decent quality, not wildly expensive, prefer feels-like-cotton, bright colors a must!
October 4, 2025 at 2:39 PM
Question for my fellow tall women: what leggings do you like? Decent quality, not wildly expensive, prefer feels-like-cotton, bright colors a must!
@moderation.bsky.app what the actual fuck is wrong with you? You know as well as anyone else that Antifa isn't a "terrorist group." You know as well as we do that this is literally nonsense *made up by the fascists* to try to discredit being an anti-fascist.
But I guess you're going along w/it. 🤮
But I guess you're going along w/it. 🤮
September 29, 2025 at 1:47 AM
@moderation.bsky.app what the actual fuck is wrong with you? You know as well as anyone else that Antifa isn't a "terrorist group." You know as well as we do that this is literally nonsense *made up by the fascists* to try to discredit being an anti-fascist.
But I guess you're going along w/it. 🤮
But I guess you're going along w/it. 🤮