Dem Carosi
@carosi.bsky.social
Grandfather, great-grandfather, reader, walker,cyclist, retired, volunteering still. Found in Wales. NHS diagnosed autistic.
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www.youtube.com/watch?v=8kL9... Well, this is worth watching, about 'modern' alleged gold-standard, ABA.
I'm Autistic and I Became an ABA Therapist
YouTube video by Autistic AF
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December 2, 2025 at 11:35 AM
www.youtube.com/watch?v=8kL9... Well, this is worth watching, about 'modern' alleged gold-standard, ABA.
I recall the saying "Throw enough mud at a wall, and some of it will stick". That's how I see so called 'Black Friday'. I make it a point to avoid buying on that day because I know how gullable this autistic is, from experience.
November 27, 2025 at 8:30 PM
I recall the saying "Throw enough mud at a wall, and some of it will stick". That's how I see so called 'Black Friday'. I make it a point to avoid buying on that day because I know how gullable this autistic is, from experience.
I've been having periods of mental numbness lately and feel like a brain reset would be good. There doesn't seem to be a cause. Hoping my voluntary work tomorrow will help.
November 18, 2025 at 8:39 PM
I've been having periods of mental numbness lately and feel like a brain reset would be good. There doesn't seem to be a cause. Hoping my voluntary work tomorrow will help.
The more diversity there is, the less trapped we can feel,into compliance.
November 9, 2025 at 8:09 AM
The more diversity there is, the less trapped we can feel,into compliance.
Came across this gate in the middle of a field with no fence in sight. There are plenty of fences with no gates, but a gate with no fence? Must be autistic 😂
October 31, 2025 at 6:30 PM
Came across this gate in the middle of a field with no fence in sight. There are plenty of fences with no gates, but a gate with no fence? Must be autistic 😂
For those of us wanting validation, dignity and respect, self diagnosis is in my opinion acceptable. I'm into my 4th year on a GP refered waiting list, and having paid into the NHS (Wales UK), refuse to spend retirement savings on a private assessment. I'm not waiting,
I'M OPENLY DECLARING.
I'M OPENLY DECLARING.
August 18, 2025 at 7:57 AM
For those of us wanting validation, dignity and respect, self diagnosis is in my opinion acceptable. I'm into my 4th year on a GP refered waiting list, and having paid into the NHS (Wales UK), refuse to spend retirement savings on a private assessment. I'm not waiting,
I'M OPENLY DECLARING.
I'M OPENLY DECLARING.
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No, one group of autistic people is not “eclipsing” others, because NO autistics are getting enough support. NONE.
Shame on organizations that let parents with unfounded claims make life harder for autistic people whose struggles are less obvious, but no less real or brutal. #neurodiversity
Shame on organizations that let parents with unfounded claims make life harder for autistic people whose struggles are less obvious, but no less real or brutal. #neurodiversity
August 9, 2025 at 3:31 AM
No, one group of autistic people is not “eclipsing” others, because NO autistics are getting enough support. NONE.
Shame on organizations that let parents with unfounded claims make life harder for autistic people whose struggles are less obvious, but no less real or brutal. #neurodiversity
Shame on organizations that let parents with unfounded claims make life harder for autistic people whose struggles are less obvious, but no less real or brutal. #neurodiversity
One of the biggest problems I've found that clutters our brains as autistic individuals is, DISSONANCE.
August 8, 2025 at 5:43 AM
One of the biggest problems I've found that clutters our brains as autistic individuals is, DISSONANCE.
@thinkingautism.com In my efforts to get active recognition for adult autism here in Wales, UK, I have concluded that we are SUPRESSED BY INACTION.
This leaves a void to be filled by misinformation from those antagonistic and ignorant.
This leaves a void to be filled by misinformation from those antagonistic and ignorant.
August 7, 2025 at 5:37 AM
@thinkingautism.com In my efforts to get active recognition for adult autism here in Wales, UK, I have concluded that we are SUPRESSED BY INACTION.
This leaves a void to be filled by misinformation from those antagonistic and ignorant.
This leaves a void to be filled by misinformation from those antagonistic and ignorant.
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Today in Hell Yes, Research!
Increasingly, people want to talk about autism in positive or neutral ways, and also want to acknowledge that autistic challenges can be discussed in non-derogatory ways. From Patrick Dwyer et al:
researchportal.port.ac.uk/en/publicati... #autism #neurodiversity
Increasingly, people want to talk about autism in positive or neutral ways, and also want to acknowledge that autistic challenges can be discussed in non-derogatory ways. From Patrick Dwyer et al:
researchportal.port.ac.uk/en/publicati... #autism #neurodiversity
Neurodiversity movement identification and perceived appropriateness of terms used to describe autism
researchportal.port.ac.uk
July 16, 2025 at 3:12 AM
Today in Hell Yes, Research!
Increasingly, people want to talk about autism in positive or neutral ways, and also want to acknowledge that autistic challenges can be discussed in non-derogatory ways. From Patrick Dwyer et al:
researchportal.port.ac.uk/en/publicati... #autism #neurodiversity
Increasingly, people want to talk about autism in positive or neutral ways, and also want to acknowledge that autistic challenges can be discussed in non-derogatory ways. From Patrick Dwyer et al:
researchportal.port.ac.uk/en/publicati... #autism #neurodiversity
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Fake "treatments" for autism that you should avoid include chelation, supplements, bleach, and raw camel's milk.
Remember: Autism is where your brain develops differently to non-autistic people. It is not an illness, so what autistic people need are supports, not a cure:
www.nhs.uk/conditions/a...
Remember: Autism is where your brain develops differently to non-autistic people. It is not an illness, so what autistic people need are supports, not a cure:
www.nhs.uk/conditions/a...
Treatments that are not recommended for autism
Find out about treatments that are not recommended for autism and treatments that could be harmful.
www.nhs.uk
July 6, 2025 at 7:27 PM
Fake "treatments" for autism that you should avoid include chelation, supplements, bleach, and raw camel's milk.
Remember: Autism is where your brain develops differently to non-autistic people. It is not an illness, so what autistic people need are supports, not a cure:
www.nhs.uk/conditions/a...
Remember: Autism is where your brain develops differently to non-autistic people. It is not an illness, so what autistic people need are supports, not a cure:
www.nhs.uk/conditions/a...
@drstevenkapp.bsky.social I was brought up by extremely colour-prejudiced parents, yet I never have been. I could never see any logic in it, so refused to comply. I often wonder if that is because I'm autistic.
April 30, 2025 at 7:12 PM
@drstevenkapp.bsky.social I was brought up by extremely colour-prejudiced parents, yet I never have been. I could never see any logic in it, so refused to comply. I often wonder if that is because I'm autistic.
@thinkingautism.bsky.social
The Autism Spectrum is complicated so no wonder those not autistic are phased, afraid, or indifferent. I feel the need to be proactive in advocating, so I gave the management of a volunteer team I recently joined brief info entitled "You may notice about me".
The Autism Spectrum is complicated so no wonder those not autistic are phased, afraid, or indifferent. I feel the need to be proactive in advocating, so I gave the management of a volunteer team I recently joined brief info entitled "You may notice about me".
April 24, 2025 at 6:17 AM
@thinkingautism.bsky.social
The Autism Spectrum is complicated so no wonder those not autistic are phased, afraid, or indifferent. I feel the need to be proactive in advocating, so I gave the management of a volunteer team I recently joined brief info entitled "You may notice about me".
The Autism Spectrum is complicated so no wonder those not autistic are phased, afraid, or indifferent. I feel the need to be proactive in advocating, so I gave the management of a volunteer team I recently joined brief info entitled "You may notice about me".
My masking to function in an NT world feels impersonal enough, and although I use autocorrect, I draw the line at using AI for messages. I don't recognise myself in them. An autistic I know uses it all the time. Viva la spectrum. I'll stick to the rewrites.
April 17, 2025 at 7:14 AM
My masking to function in an NT world feels impersonal enough, and although I use autocorrect, I draw the line at using AI for messages. I don't recognise myself in them. An autistic I know uses it all the time. Viva la spectrum. I'll stick to the rewrites.
Plenty of others can be the same but can't do the Ed to get a degree, which bars them from a job with most organizations. Police included. Token gestures ot enough.
April 11, 2025 at 6:32 AM
Plenty of others can be the same but can't do the Ed to get a degree, which bars them from a job with most organizations. Police included. Token gestures ot enough.
Went to a support venue today offering my service as a volunteer, and was immediately overwhelmed by the atmosphere which was about as autism unfriendly as it gets. I turned on my heels and won't go back.
I wonder how many seeking support have done the same.
I wonder how many seeking support have done the same.
April 4, 2025 at 8:08 PM
Went to a support venue today offering my service as a volunteer, and was immediately overwhelmed by the atmosphere which was about as autism unfriendly as it gets. I turned on my heels and won't go back.
I wonder how many seeking support have done the same.
I wonder how many seeking support have done the same.
Women with big boob's have the advantage in avoiding eye contact.
Maybe there's a chat up line there somewhere
Maybe there's a chat up line there somewhere
April 4, 2025 at 7:05 AM
Women with big boob's have the advantage in avoiding eye contact.
Maybe there's a chat up line there somewhere
Maybe there's a chat up line there somewhere
I'm content being autistic and applaud those who are ADHD. I constantly plan and maintain order in my life while they, unintentionally bring chaos to theirs. I just can't comprehend how difficult that must be. And I go into overdrive thinking of Autism and ADHD together. Well done to you people.👍
April 3, 2025 at 3:52 PM
I'm content being autistic and applaud those who are ADHD. I constantly plan and maintain order in my life while they, unintentionally bring chaos to theirs. I just can't comprehend how difficult that must be. And I go into overdrive thinking of Autism and ADHD together. Well done to you people.👍
I'm fully retired after my redundancy and can't say I've since looked forward to each day. Recently started a volunteer role supporting Refugees just once a week and look forward to that day, but feel guilty about it. Can't make sense of it.
April 2, 2025 at 6:43 AM
I'm fully retired after my redundancy and can't say I've since looked forward to each day. Recently started a volunteer role supporting Refugees just once a week and look forward to that day, but feel guilty about it. Can't make sense of it.
Many of us have done research awaiting diagnosis.
This in my case includes courses and am convinced I know myself. I can't afford expensive private diagnosis from anyone who makes a business out of it. If anyone thinks I'm not autistic, prove it.
This in my case includes courses and am convinced I know myself. I can't afford expensive private diagnosis from anyone who makes a business out of it. If anyone thinks I'm not autistic, prove it.
March 27, 2025 at 7:15 AM
Many of us have done research awaiting diagnosis.
This in my case includes courses and am convinced I know myself. I can't afford expensive private diagnosis from anyone who makes a business out of it. If anyone thinks I'm not autistic, prove it.
This in my case includes courses and am convinced I know myself. I can't afford expensive private diagnosis from anyone who makes a business out of it. If anyone thinks I'm not autistic, prove it.
As a volunteer in various societies over many years, giving full commitment whilst tolerating the lack of respect and acknowledgement toward me on the part of some; I'm finally learning to walk away. Call me a slow learner if you like.
Recently joined two. One I'm enjoying the other resigned from.
Recently joined two. One I'm enjoying the other resigned from.
March 23, 2025 at 8:56 AM
As a volunteer in various societies over many years, giving full commitment whilst tolerating the lack of respect and acknowledgement toward me on the part of some; I'm finally learning to walk away. Call me a slow learner if you like.
Recently joined two. One I'm enjoying the other resigned from.
Recently joined two. One I'm enjoying the other resigned from.
The National Autistic Society in my area only focuses on the young and has no group for adults.
Are you in one?
What is it's function?
Any tips on starting one?
Are you in one?
What is it's function?
Any tips on starting one?
March 8, 2025 at 4:16 PM
The National Autistic Society in my area only focuses on the young and has no group for adults.
Are you in one?
What is it's function?
Any tips on starting one?
Are you in one?
What is it's function?
Any tips on starting one?
Got on a local bus, which I haven't done in years. Everyone seemed to know each other, and the driver and me.
Torture. I couldn't hide.
Torture. I couldn't hide.
March 4, 2025 at 7:03 AM
Got on a local bus, which I haven't done in years. Everyone seemed to know each other, and the driver and me.
Torture. I couldn't hide.
Torture. I couldn't hide.