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Bri
@brik.bsky.social
Mom of cats. I post pictures of my two tabby sisters. Writer, teacher, photographer. Pro education and science. LGBTQ+ ally. Blue dot in a red state. No DMs, please!
After I became legal guardian for my dad, BOA opened a new CC for him without contacting me when my brother coerced him to do that. That was after my brother was emptying out his bank account (thus the reason for the POA and eventual guardianship.)
December 18, 2025 at 6:32 PM
I had to deal with BOA again with my parents. The bank recognized the POA, but the BOA mortgage company refused. They kept trying to take a mortgage payment out of a bank account that didn't have the money - even after the payment was made ahead of time. Horrible company.
December 18, 2025 at 6:28 PM
I left BOA more than 15 years ago. They were horrible to deal with when I had to help my MIL after my FIL passed. They refused to cancel a CC she wasn't using that had about $30 in made-up fees added every month like "wallet protection."
December 18, 2025 at 6:24 PM
We know now that Wiles is his enabler, according to the VF article. So she did this for him. He throws out a petty, vindictive whim, and she makes it happen.
There are no adults in any of the rooms.
December 18, 2025 at 3:51 AM
Every single day it is another degradation. And his sycophants go right along with his childish and narcissistic whims.
December 17, 2025 at 8:25 PM
Can you imagine coming home and finding your tree moved to a new location? You would not normally think the cat was involved.
December 17, 2025 at 2:35 PM
I had a decorative snowflake tree skirt from Costco that had lots of glued-on gemstones. One of our kitties made it her personal mission to remove all the gemstones because they were fun to play with.
We have a plain tree skirt now.
December 17, 2025 at 2:33 PM
It is good to focus on something else. I'm doing more cooking, too!
December 17, 2025 at 4:52 AM
I haven't been to Floriduh since 2015. And I still have unexpired Disney tickets.
December 16, 2025 at 5:49 AM
I very much appreciate you sharing this. It resonates. It takes a process to heal and move yourself forward.
December 15, 2025 at 4:41 PM
They gave him the hat with the kiddie strings
December 14, 2025 at 3:18 AM
Thanks for the info. I will look into it!
December 13, 2025 at 10:59 PM
Thanks for the info!
December 13, 2025 at 10:55 PM
Very pretty! Hope you can stay in with the pups for now.
Most of the snow missed us.
December 13, 2025 at 10:52 PM
I had never seen them do that before when traveling out of the country, and they would like nothing more than keeping track of everyone domestically as well.
December 13, 2025 at 5:46 PM
Maybe I could do that and then visit my son going to grad school in Germany.
As for travel arrangements, where would you fly into? Is there more info to help estimate total cost including the stuff not included?
December 13, 2025 at 5:44 PM
I would love to go!
December 13, 2025 at 5:40 PM
They were doing this back at the end of April when I left to go to Germany. Border patrol agents (in StL!) were taking photos of everyone boarding, then looking at the device before we were allowed to board. They are using facial recognition.
December 13, 2025 at 5:37 PM
Love this! We always have to put out a pillow bed for the kitties when the fireplace is going. They love it.
December 13, 2025 at 5:29 PM
Fair point. I didn't think of them as being in charge because they are only following the whims of one person.
December 13, 2025 at 4:33 PM