You don’t get to make bad choices and act like it was just a vote or it doesn’t matter.

This year we skipped them entirely. Hubby caught him at the door watching when we left the house and went the opposite way and then again on our way home when we stopped at our next door neighbors.

I caught ol boy outside a few days later and asked him directly, to which he was like yup.

Told him we’re not on that any more. The whole tomatoes and coming in their house was a wrap.