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bigdave.bsky.social
BigDave
@bigdave.bsky.social
Scottish, queer, disabled, geek, pagan.

Pokémon Go friend code: HFXHHMWCD

Not sure what else to put. Any questions, feel free to ask


Cover pic by Malibu Darby
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a woman sitting on a bed with the words oh my god david
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Travelling to and from hospital several times in the past couple of weeks while I fight stacked infections has drained my already meagre funds.

If anyone’s able to help out for the cost of food and meds to keep me going until the 11th, I’d be very appreciative 🧡 Sorry

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December 6, 2025 at 6:36 PM
A movie that takes place where you’re from

For better or for worse
.................

Haven't actually seen it but it takes place nearby. So many more (and bigger) productions were filmed locally
November 24, 2025 at 12:44 PM
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XXX-Men DISPATCH! I mean, rollout!
First dispatch stream goin live Twitch.tv/wattsthesafeword
November 20, 2025 at 7:05 PM
Anybody have any input?
HELP! What do you call someone who has a kink for being dressed by their dom. Not specifically feminized but like, styled day to day?

Style enforcement? Dolling up? Is there a kink term for this phenomenon that I cant find?
a person in a wig says who is your stylist
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November 19, 2025 at 9:21 PM
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Breakfast is served!

And then we streamin twitch.tv/wattsthesafeword
November 18, 2025 at 6:49 PM
Let's not do this
November 18, 2025 at 11:15 AM
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Lego…of my dick! Wait sorry. Come join our first Lego building stream!
Twitch.tv/wattsthesafeword
November 13, 2025 at 7:46 PM
Just reported a chat request claiming to be a routine security check from an account with a keyboard smash username

Keep an eye out folks....and don't click links from unknown people
November 12, 2025 at 9:14 PM
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This week's pod hits Palm Springs where we sold gear, got in costume and went to too many sexy pool parties! But will @pupamp.bsky.social ever be invited back to this BLUF party?

Itunes: apple.co/2QkMDwk
Spotify: spoti.fi/2QjPNjL
November 7, 2025 at 3:49 PM
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And the winner is Sacha Coward for Queer As Folklore
November 1, 2025 at 8:24 PM
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Kinky reels to lighten your mood anyone!? Go checkout this weeks vid! @mrkristofer.bsky.social @wattsthesafeword.bsky.social

youtu.be/Igyzgb_54to
Kinky Reels to Lighten Your Mood
YouTube video by Watts The Safeword
youtu.be
October 30, 2025 at 7:44 PM
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Home safe and live on Twitch! Come hang out and lock it in! Twitch.tv/wattsthesafeword
October 21, 2025 at 5:26 PM
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How do you find other kinksters? How long should you clean out?! And why is that sex toy so pricey!? @mrkristofer.bsky.social

New @wattsthesafeword.bsky.social covering community stats and top questions all kinksters have: Where Do New Kinksters Start?
youtu.be/DUTQzUvKJlQ
October 15, 2025 at 2:00 PM
Anyone else laugh out loud watching this week's Dragula #Titans2 ?

Seeing @cynthiadoll.bsky.social run into the toilet cubicle to finish her make-up... Obviously a reference to her previous season 🤣
October 14, 2025 at 10:45 AM
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So how's the first week of #locktober going!?! Come find out how leaky, small and needy we are with some chastity hot takes from @mrkristofer.bsky.social and I!

New @wattsthesafeword.bsky.social pod:
Itunes: apple.co/2QkMDwk
Spotify: ibit.ly/XQDo3
October 10, 2025 at 5:49 PM
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Also live on twitch if you wanna come chat about locktober and ask sex ed questions! Twitch.tv/wattsthesafeword
WattsTheSafeword - Twitch
AMA DAY!! Let's lock in!
Twitch.tv
October 8, 2025 at 6:07 PM
Just watched the premiere of #Dragula #Titans2

Not sure who I'm backing yet as it's such a stacked cast. One thing I'm certain of is that it's going to be exciting

First episode and the claws are out already

#NoSpoilers #Drag #BouletBrothers
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October 8, 2025 at 12:17 PM
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From ball pain, ball slips and why doesn’t my cage fit right? Today’s new vid is all about ways you might be doing chastity wrong! (And our tips to make it right!) @kink3d.com @mrkristofer.bsky.social

Happy #locktober yall.
youtu.be/rkXh1FbdAxs
You're Doing Chastity Wrong! - LOCKTOBER
YouTube video by Watts The Safeword
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October 2, 2025 at 3:55 PM
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Curious chastity players you need these pro tips! Tag those newer who need it most or should wear a cage for their first time? 😈

Happy #locktober
@mrsleather.bsky.social @kink3d.com
October 2, 2025 at 12:25 AM
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Locked in for horror games too on twitch twitch.tv/wattsthesafeword
WattsTheSafeword - Twitch
HAPPY LOCKTOBER!!! Lets lock in for spoopy month!
twitch.tv
October 1, 2025 at 6:00 PM
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WattsTheSafeword - Twitch
FOLSOM WAS A BLAST!
twitch.tv
September 30, 2025 at 6:04 PM
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anyway digital ID cards are a fuckin terrible idea

petition.parliament.uk/petitions/73...
September 26, 2025 at 7:38 PM
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We are delighted to announce that we will publish @sachacoward.bsky.social’s Queer as Folklore in paperback and ebook editions in December 2025.

Initially published by Unbound, it was longlisted for the 2025 Polari Prize and has been shortlisted for the British Fantasy Society awards. #booksky
September 25, 2025 at 8:04 AM
Got any questions? Join the AMA over on the purple app
Time for a Folsom AMA. Ass me anything! Twitch.tv/wattsthesafeword
September 24, 2025 at 6:34 PM
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I have the 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 flag in my bio.
It’s to indicate where I’m from.

Recently, the 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 has been used here to show support for far right ideology.

I abhor the 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 being used in this way.

I abhor bigotry in any forms.

Anyone with right wing political beliefs are free to unfollow me. Please.

Love will win.
September 13, 2025 at 4:13 PM