Becky Vesey
beckyvesey.bsky.social
Becky Vesey
@beckyvesey.bsky.social
You probably know me by another name.
Let people change their names at *any* age. Even if it's more than once. For any reason.

Signed,
Someone on their 3rd legal name with a kid who chose their new name at 6
November 15, 2025 at 10:22 PM
Yeah. :/ I switched my family to Tidal, but due to the lack of unpaid accounts, random folks can't get to my playlists. Unfortunate, since I curate a very specific niche playlist I want to share widely, so I end up porting it back over to my [now unpaid] Spotify account. :/
November 15, 2025 at 10:13 PM
As I usually put it, the neurodivergent call is coming from inside the genome.

Sure, I'm probably ADHD & maybe autistic (self-dx), and in retrospect my mom is also probably autistic (now self-dx), but it took having a PDA kid to realize "well NOW I'm absolutely not going to" might not be normal.
November 15, 2025 at 8:36 PM
Maybe they'll finally fucking wake up now and move left of center-right again. WBNI.
November 5, 2025 at 3:14 AM