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@bdsmsocial.bsky.social
Writing about consent, power, and responsibility in kink and everyday life.
Adult content and explicit themes appear here.
Adult content and explicit themes appear here.
Risk and Responsibility
Recent story: I checked everything before ordering fetish gear from an unknown seller - and still had to choose what risk I was willing to own.
“Safe” never meant risk-free.
It means informed choice and responsibility.
#BDSM #Polyamory #Consent #Risk #Responsibility
Recent story: I checked everything before ordering fetish gear from an unknown seller - and still had to choose what risk I was willing to own.
“Safe” never meant risk-free.
It means informed choice and responsibility.
#BDSM #Polyamory #Consent #Risk #Responsibility
January 25, 2026 at 7:10 PM
Risk and Responsibility
Recent story: I checked everything before ordering fetish gear from an unknown seller - and still had to choose what risk I was willing to own.
“Safe” never meant risk-free.
It means informed choice and responsibility.
#BDSM #Polyamory #Consent #Risk #Responsibility
Recent story: I checked everything before ordering fetish gear from an unknown seller - and still had to choose what risk I was willing to own.
“Safe” never meant risk-free.
It means informed choice and responsibility.
#BDSM #Polyamory #Consent #Risk #Responsibility
Happy weekend everyone! New video coming up shortly...
January 24, 2026 at 2:57 PM
Happy weekend everyone! New video coming up shortly...
Imagine: Democratic elections, gradual erosion of safe exits. While power remains formal and legal, dissent becomes punished.
Certain people might judge TPE without understanding it. Yet they see what is happening in their country and do not understand what it has become: an abusive relationship!
Certain people might judge TPE without understanding it. Yet they see what is happening in their country and do not understand what it has become: an abusive relationship!
January 18, 2026 at 3:49 PM
Imagine: Democratic elections, gradual erosion of safe exits. While power remains formal and legal, dissent becomes punished.
Certain people might judge TPE without understanding it. Yet they see what is happening in their country and do not understand what it has become: an abusive relationship!
Certain people might judge TPE without understanding it. Yet they see what is happening in their country and do not understand what it has become: an abusive relationship!
We have come full circle to my initial question.
This video now looks at structures of TPE and democracy:
who makes rules, who enforces them, and what happens when rules are broken.
And surprise: Power is not the issue. Accountability is.
#TPE #BDSM #Consent #PowerDynamics #Democracy
This video now looks at structures of TPE and democracy:
who makes rules, who enforces them, and what happens when rules are broken.
And surprise: Power is not the issue. Accountability is.
#TPE #BDSM #Consent #PowerDynamics #Democracy
January 15, 2026 at 9:00 PM
We have come full circle to my initial question.
This video now looks at structures of TPE and democracy:
who makes rules, who enforces them, and what happens when rules are broken.
And surprise: Power is not the issue. Accountability is.
#TPE #BDSM #Consent #PowerDynamics #Democracy
This video now looks at structures of TPE and democracy:
who makes rules, who enforces them, and what happens when rules are broken.
And surprise: Power is not the issue. Accountability is.
#TPE #BDSM #Consent #PowerDynamics #Democracy
Total Power Exchange is often mistaken for unquestioned control.
In practice, it is built on ongoing consent.
Power may be exercised continuously.
But it is never owned. It is granted.
If consent can be withdrawn, who truly holds power?
#BDSM #TPE #Consent #PowerDynamics #EthicalKink
In practice, it is built on ongoing consent.
Power may be exercised continuously.
But it is never owned. It is granted.
If consent can be withdrawn, who truly holds power?
#BDSM #TPE #Consent #PowerDynamics #EthicalKink
January 12, 2026 at 4:52 PM
Total Power Exchange is often mistaken for unquestioned control.
In practice, it is built on ongoing consent.
Power may be exercised continuously.
But it is never owned. It is granted.
If consent can be withdrawn, who truly holds power?
#BDSM #TPE #Consent #PowerDynamics #EthicalKink
In practice, it is built on ongoing consent.
Power may be exercised continuously.
But it is never owned. It is granted.
If consent can be withdrawn, who truly holds power?
#BDSM #TPE #Consent #PowerDynamics #EthicalKink
Total Power Exchange sounds exactly like this: total control, total authority, 24/7. This immediately evokes loss of rights, obedience, even abuse. And given how BDSM is often portrayed, that reaction makes sense. But that is not where the conversation ends.
#BDSM #power #consent #curiosity
#BDSM #power #consent #curiosity
January 11, 2026 at 12:13 PM
Total Power Exchange sounds exactly like this: total control, total authority, 24/7. This immediately evokes loss of rights, obedience, even abuse. And given how BDSM is often portrayed, that reaction makes sense. But that is not where the conversation ends.
#BDSM #power #consent #curiosity
#BDSM #power #consent #curiosity
Is a Master–slave or TPE relationship really the opposite of democracy?
We normally think of total control and loss of rights. Dictatorship.
What if this first impression is incomplete, or even wrong?
This series of around five videos takes a closer look.
#BDSM #power #consent #curiosity
We normally think of total control and loss of rights. Dictatorship.
What if this first impression is incomplete, or even wrong?
This series of around five videos takes a closer look.
#BDSM #power #consent #curiosity
January 11, 2026 at 6:19 AM
Is a Master–slave or TPE relationship really the opposite of democracy?
We normally think of total control and loss of rights. Dictatorship.
What if this first impression is incomplete, or even wrong?
This series of around five videos takes a closer look.
#BDSM #power #consent #curiosity
We normally think of total control and loss of rights. Dictatorship.
What if this first impression is incomplete, or even wrong?
This series of around five videos takes a closer look.
#BDSM #power #consent #curiosity
This channel is not about convincing anyone to live differently. It is about curiosity: how adults communicate, handle boundaries, power, and responsibility at work and in relationships. Discomfort is allowed. Agreement with my ideas is not required.
#communication #boundaries #consent #curiosity
#communication #boundaries #consent #curiosity
January 9, 2026 at 8:38 AM
This channel is not about convincing anyone to live differently. It is about curiosity: how adults communicate, handle boundaries, power, and responsibility at work and in relationships. Discomfort is allowed. Agreement with my ideas is not required.
#communication #boundaries #consent #curiosity
#communication #boundaries #consent #curiosity
Why am I drawing connections between kink and everyday communication? My life is fairly conventional. What is less conventional is how much clarity, empathy, and responsibility I learned from spaces where unclear boundaries have real consequences.
#communication #boundaries #consent #leadership
#communication #boundaries #consent #leadership
January 7, 2026 at 7:45 PM
Why am I drawing connections between kink and everyday communication? My life is fairly conventional. What is less conventional is how much clarity, empathy, and responsibility I learned from spaces where unclear boundaries have real consequences.
#communication #boundaries #consent #leadership
#communication #boundaries #consent #leadership
BDSM and polyamory are often seen as dangerous or fringe.
Many people mentally switch off when they hear these words.
Yet, what is fascinating is, that they often require clearer consent and boundaries than many so-called normal relationships or workplaces.
#consent #communication #bdsmeducation
Many people mentally switch off when they hear these words.
Yet, what is fascinating is, that they often require clearer consent and boundaries than many so-called normal relationships or workplaces.
#consent #communication #bdsmeducation
January 4, 2026 at 3:46 PM
BDSM and polyamory are often seen as dangerous or fringe.
Many people mentally switch off when they hear these words.
Yet, what is fascinating is, that they often require clearer consent and boundaries than many so-called normal relationships or workplaces.
#consent #communication #bdsmeducation
Many people mentally switch off when they hear these words.
Yet, what is fascinating is, that they often require clearer consent and boundaries than many so-called normal relationships or workplaces.
#consent #communication #bdsmeducation
BDSM and polyamory often live in the closet because of stigma, not because they are inherently harmful or rare.
When practiced responsibly, they function like laboratories for consent, communication, power, and care.
I want to explore what lessons from these spaces can be useful far beyond sex.
When practiced responsibly, they function like laboratories for consent, communication, power, and care.
I want to explore what lessons from these spaces can be useful far beyond sex.
January 3, 2026 at 12:02 PM
BDSM and polyamory often live in the closet because of stigma, not because they are inherently harmful or rare.
When practiced responsibly, they function like laboratories for consent, communication, power, and care.
I want to explore what lessons from these spaces can be useful far beyond sex.
When practiced responsibly, they function like laboratories for consent, communication, power, and care.
I want to explore what lessons from these spaces can be useful far beyond sex.
Repost if you want to make me this slave.
October 18, 2025 at 1:25 PM
Repost if you want to make me this slave.
After today's workout at the gym
September 27, 2025 at 7:17 AM
After today's workout at the gym
The bitch is in heat (but locked) - pt2
September 23, 2025 at 5:20 PM
The bitch is in heat (but locked) - pt2
The bitch is in heat (but locked) 😈
September 22, 2025 at 3:37 PM
The bitch is in heat (but locked) 😈
Choosing some outfits for #FolsomEurope. Like? Dislike?
August 25, 2025 at 5:06 PM
Choosing some outfits for #FolsomEurope. Like? Dislike?
Bit of a milking session during my vacation in Scotland
April 16, 2025 at 10:24 AM
Bit of a milking session during my vacation in Scotland