2/2: Black Families (Altadena and LA fires)

PS please don’t express condolences for me this isn’t about me, I’m fine! Just using my experience to reframe fire loss & support during that time

I hear a lot of “at least they survived” and yes that is always most important but sometimes dismisses the extreme distress and grief people experience when losing everything

Arousal = body’s reaction to sexual stimuli

Desire = longing to act on sexual impulses

Don’t always overlap, but when one consistently happens without the other it can be a major issue

-damaging sacral nerves can result in lessened erectile/ejaculatory function
-pinched pudendal, cavernous, or pelvic splanchic nerves can cause chronic pelvic/groin pain
-back injuries or pain can make sex, arousal, or ejaculation painful & limit arousal
-any chronic pain impacts desire

Why is this even a thing? Of course we do, any smaller population keeps track of those things! People love to project some weird game of thrones fantasy onto us 🤮

Hahah thank you

Thank you 🥳🥳

So special ❤️ I love that, I’ve heard the same about that period or the toddler crawling into bed time :) a bit of a wake in the night that splits the sleep in two

Btw biphasic sleep was a thing here & across the world for sure! But it phased out of Iceland as we industrialized, unless the job requires it