There's precedent of not holding people accountable to crimes they commit and instead holding the cult leader accountable. Ervil LaBaron's killing of Rulon Allred is one example.

He's either inconsiderate or tried to test you to see if you really liked him enough. He learned that no, you don't like him enough to compromise yourself or your needs. Nobody is worth that. The fact that you followed up was extremely generous.

It's very much an evangelical invention to believe all things can be resolved in this life.

The narcissistic misuse of Christianity to prey upon the call to forgive conveniently ignores their responsibility to reconciliation.

And in situations where reconciliation is impossible... well, they're just screwed.

I didn't have regular access to a comic book store after grade school. They all but disappeared. It was a weekend thing for my brother and I to walk to the comic store for a comic book each with our allowance. Record stores disappeared after high school.