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Ayla Cullen
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Deaf proud parent to two legends and a Great Dane. A self-made woman loving life.
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Totally based! 🤭🔥
December 10, 2025 at 4:51 PM
"taught [...] to think our true selves as inconveniences to everyone around us, [...] to close yourself back up and apologize for existing." -- hit me hard. Made me realize how much I felt bad for existing, how much I apologized for it, for being transgender. Damn.

No more apologies, I'm done.
March 24, 2025 at 5:12 AM
From an article: "[...] the mentality where [...] trans people were taught from the youngest age to think of our true selves as inconveniences to everyone [...], as something to protect the world from. [...] it’s a very understandable reaction, to close yourself back up and apologize for existing."
March 24, 2025 at 5:09 AM
Set up ip address redirect via router if router supports it?
March 22, 2025 at 7:00 AM
Oof that’s rough! Hope surgery goes well!!!
March 22, 2025 at 4:03 AM
Set up alternate DNS? 1.1.1.1 for primary dns. Works fine as a bypass. Unless you’re needing it for vpn then you’re screwed. Lol.
March 22, 2025 at 4:01 AM
Thank you!! 😁
February 5, 2025 at 8:37 PM
Hang in there. You’ve got this.
January 30, 2025 at 7:37 AM
Reposted by Ayla Cullen
I don't think I'm being hyperbolic saying this should be enough to qualify for refugee status under persecution based on gender identity (UNHRC guidance).
January 30, 2025 at 12:34 AM
EO said it has to be M or F, cannot be X. Also said cannot change gender going forward. Ironically, if someone changed it previously and wants to now set it back to AGAB, they can't.
January 30, 2025 at 7:04 AM
Docusign?
January 28, 2025 at 12:21 AM
Thank you! First stage is orchiectomy. Second stage is zero depth vaginoplasty. Third/final stage is peritoneal vaginoplasty. The last two are happening in late 2025.
January 12, 2025 at 6:38 PM