me watching bourgeois L1 middle class Autistics with jobs & university degrees get their private autism diagnosis that was "so thorough and validating!" ... and it cost thousands of pounds/dollars.

When girls say they're Autistic, society goes "no you're not!"

But when a trans person says they're trans, suddenly society goes, "no, you're just a confused Autistic girl!"

so ... Autistic girls DO exist to you, but only when it's convenient to you?

This is what autistic dysphonemia feels like internally. It's part of the reason I'm semi-verbal.

Finding the right words, word parts, or letters spontaneously is difficult for me. And holding onto them is hard.

Many possibilities float in my brain mélange, I don't know which to choose.

It's not difficult to recognise autism in girls. You just need to pay attention!

Decades of suffering could be prevented if allistics stopped ignoring female autism.