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autistic violinist 🇨🇦
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Autistic advocate, violinist, educator 🐈 🏳️‍🌈🌻
Got all my Christmas gifts, plus wrapping paper and cards and bags, from the local thrift store for $13! That’s for 5 people and a dog 💜

Go check out your local thrift stores and small businesses! You can’t get that kind of deal off Temu!
December 3, 2025 at 1:02 AM
Oh how quick the turntables!

Last week = Covid and no cat
This week = cat and no Covid!!
Things I am thankful for: time to rest, online classes and support groups, understanding profs, work from home, having all the food and supplements I need

Things I am not thankful for: having Covid but no cat to join me in sleeping 12-16h a day 😿
December 2, 2025 at 4:43 PM
I asked an online autism cat community what they thought about me getting Mila, and all the responses that say something like, “You going to the shelter in the first place was Leah using all her spirit to bring you two together” make me so happy 😻
December 2, 2025 at 3:11 AM
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Just another Monday in Trump’s America
December 2, 2025 at 12:32 AM
Tearing up at the thought that maybe last year all Mila wanted for Christmas was a warm home 🥺

This cat has no idea how loved she’s going to be!
December 1, 2025 at 9:14 PM
Mila had a great first night, except I had forgotten about the 2am post-poop zoomies. I’m also going to have to trim those claw nails at some point, but other than that she was content to sleep on the bed with me! 😻

Today we’re going to let her explore the living room.
December 1, 2025 at 8:29 PM
Welcome, Mila. I know Leah sent us to each other, and I hope you have the best life from now on 💕
November 30, 2025 at 8:22 PM
Cat day cat day cat day cat day cat day cat day cat day cat day cat day cat day cat day cat day cat day cat day cat day cat day cat day cat day cat day cat day cat day cat day cat day cat day cat day cat day cat day cat day!!!!!
November 30, 2025 at 4:20 PM
Was at PetSmart for the first time since Leah died. Mila comes with a coupon book so I’m waiting until tomorrow for some purchases, but I wanted to get her a “welcome home” treat. I heard Leah’s voice in my mind whisper, “Spoil her, mama!”

I hope Mila’s as excited as I am about it tomorrow!
November 30, 2025 at 2:54 AM
Mila (my new cat) needs a middle name! I’m thinking she’ll share with Leah.

Mila Marshmallow.

What do we think? Or, what’s another sweet that has a nice soft connotation to it?
November 29, 2025 at 8:11 PM
She’s got a most curious little face.

Had a bit of a cry over Leah again. Rewatched old videos and my heart broke again - and also realizing the astronomical strength it took to do what I did this summer when I moved away weeks after her death and changed everything!
November 29, 2025 at 1:56 AM
I CAN SMELL MY COFFEE THIS MORNING!!

It’s very faint and only about 20%, but that’s better than nothing!!
November 28, 2025 at 5:11 PM
Please keep your fingers crossed for me. This is Meela, she’s a shelter cat with a VERY similar backstory to Leah. Apparently she’s also the shelter sweetheart!

I’m meeting her next week once I’m well and I hope it works out. LOOK AT HER, she looks like she needs some good love.
November 27, 2025 at 7:48 PM
Because I’ve lost smell, I’m terrified that means I’ll have other neurological symptoms with Covid. Hopefully not!

But I think the one I’m most concerned about is losing empathy, which hasn’t been proven but I can see a pattern of: people get Covid, people turn fascist. Please tell me I’m wrong!
November 27, 2025 at 6:57 PM
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Handing back student work that’s been written by ChatGPT with a 0 followed by the comment “This essay will never stand in authentic wonder before the Beauty of God’s creation.”
Pope Leo XIV told students not to use artificial intelligence for homework, saying that AI ‘won’t stand in authentic wonder before the beauty of God’s creation.’
Even God Is Worried About ChatGPT
Pope Leo XIV told students not to use artificial intelligence for homework, saying that AI ‘won’t stand in authentic wonder before the beauty of God’s creation.’
www.vulture.com
November 26, 2025 at 3:35 PM
Things I am thankful for: time to rest, online classes and support groups, understanding profs, work from home, having all the food and supplements I need

Things I am not thankful for: having Covid but no cat to join me in sleeping 12-16h a day 😿
November 27, 2025 at 4:52 AM
Dammit I caught Covid 😢

Apart from feeling tired, the thing that made me test was not being able to smell my coffee.

Thankfully this week is all optional classes and online work, so I can stay home and rest.

It’s my first time! Tips?
November 26, 2025 at 5:39 PM
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November 26, 2025 at 5:03 PM
19 DAYS UNTIL NUTCRACKER REHEARSALS!!!

I’m so excited!! But I have a whole concert series and a few projects/exams before 😢
a ballerina in a white tutu is dancing on a stage in front of a christmas tree
Alt: a ballerina in a white tutu is dancing on a stage in front of a christmas tree
media.tenor.com
November 25, 2025 at 6:37 PM
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Massive shoutout out to whoever handles the Royal Canadian Air Force’s social media account. They responded to every single comment on their already very solid Trans Day of Remembrance post and they responded like this…
November 22, 2025 at 1:03 AM
What an honour it is to be someone that people aren’t afraid to fail in front of ♥️
November 25, 2025 at 12:32 AM
I guess all I’m really trying to do here is to live a life so that Yo Yo Ma might take notice 🫶🏼

It’s always so much fun explaining to people who I look up to and why!
November 24, 2025 at 4:23 PM
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normalise serving chocolate milk at parties
I do not drink because I have almost no tolerance for it anymore (one margarita is too much).

If you are hosting a party, I recommend also stocking:
-fancy ginger beer
-coconut water
-premium juices like lychee and guava
-apple cider with cinnamon
-Italian sodas
-sparkling water

Lots of options!
November 24, 2025 at 7:18 AM
I learnt how to forgive my dad before I learnt the extent of his neglect. I was in my 20s before I realized most parents have an interest in their kids and don’t just see them as burdens.

I don’t think I can ever forgive Christianity for that.
November 24, 2025 at 4:25 AM
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What if the true meaning of Christmas is supporting small businesses so the oligarchs have a very shitty season?

😚
November 23, 2025 at 5:58 PM