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asympmaso.bsky.social
Cam/asymptote
@asympmaso.bsky.social
Playful gay-end-of-pan masochist and bondage sub with occasional moments of switching or deeper submission. asymptote on Recon. Often 🔐. Open relationship, too many hobbies for my own good.

📍 Bristol, UK
(he/him)
Does your agent have good contacts in hell?

If we absolutely have to wait until we're running around in circles on the Burning Plain then I suppose I can be patient, but hopefully the book can be released on this astral dimension as well
November 9, 2025 at 1:25 PM
This is all caveated by the fact that I'm socially confident, tall, reasonably slim, white, cis, etc., so I almost certainly have the privilege of having more fun conversations when thrown into a kinky social situation than many other people do. I still find it easier in smaller cities though!
November 9, 2025 at 10:51 AM
Depending on how you feel in social environments like bars, this can be a nice way to meet people in person. My limited experience is that events in smaller cities feel a bit more welcoming than ones in big cities, but you might still want to go with people you know for your first time
November 9, 2025 at 10:44 AM
One extra thing to add (from my limited experience) for people outside the biggest cities:

Occasionally, smaller centres will have a kink social night or other in-person event where it can be possible to meet people for the first time and then exchange contact details to make other plans.
November 9, 2025 at 10:42 AM
I love the feeling of _not_ having control over whether, when, and how I cum. It's most fun if I'm cumming (or not cumming) on instruction, especially in sessions where I know that me cumming isn't the point and that if it's allowed to happen then it isn't the end of the session... 😈
November 5, 2025 at 9:12 PM
Thanks! 😊 And do keep encouraging me to take pics from time to time! I like the fact that my current recon profile pic was effectively ordered by you 😁
November 5, 2025 at 8:47 PM
You would not believe how useless I am at (a) flexing, (b) finding decent lighting, and (c) figuring out how to pose and take a pic, but here you go! I do like the fact that my arms have some visible structure to them these days
November 5, 2025 at 8:29 PM
Just making dinner at the mo - I'm useless at selfies, but I'll see what I can rustle up after food :)
November 5, 2025 at 6:43 PM
I know right! A useful one that I've stuck in my memory banks for if I ever find myself domming 😏
November 2, 2025 at 5:35 PM
I do love cum control in all its forms. I remember submitting to cum control once expecting to be denied for a couple of weeks, and instead I found myself ordered to cum five times a day and document it - a good mindfuck
November 2, 2025 at 4:47 PM
And it's not the only one! @misterobi.bsky.social, check out the banner on my profile :)
November 1, 2025 at 5:03 PM
I'm planning to keep going 😁 It's been 40 days without an orgasm so far - can I get to 100?
October 31, 2025 at 4:39 PM
Kneeling, presenting, offering, hoping 🥵😈
October 31, 2025 at 4:33 PM
That will definitely be a powerful reminder!
October 28, 2025 at 9:42 PM
I've been reading it! It's all been great but I've particularly enjoyed the "Locktober Shopping Trip" story - a lovely vignette that really illustrates the developing submission well.

I'll be interested to find out what infraction led to the cold showers and how those have been going :)
October 28, 2025 at 5:02 PM
Very nice. I've actually been thinking about cold showers recently as something that feels "appropriate" for a sub (especially as part of correction/punishment) and that I'd submit to in a D/s context, but that I'd personally find very challenging.
October 27, 2025 at 4:58 PM
The cold, shaved, wet, and locked look is fantastic. 😈 I'm very happy to hear that it was a positive experience for all involved! ☺️
October 17, 2025 at 12:09 PM
Strong recommendation _not_ to look up any information about it before playing it, but also to have a way of taking notes as you play. There are a lot of interesting things going on in the game
October 14, 2025 at 10:11 PM
It's been my absolute favourite game of the year so far (and probably of many years!)
October 14, 2025 at 8:39 PM
Such a fantastic view 🥵🥵 Thanks for sharing!
October 10, 2025 at 4:23 PM
Some fantastic blog posts! I particularly liked the locktober shopping trip and the edging session - both stories had me straining in my own cage 🥵

I hope it all continues to go from strength to strength and I look forward to reading more 😊
October 8, 2025 at 10:46 PM