Cam/asymptote
@asympmaso.bsky.social
Playful gay-end-of-pan masochist and bondage sub with occasional moments of switching or deeper submission. asymptote on Recon. Often 🔐. Open relationship, too many hobbies for my own good.
📍 Bristol, UK
(he/him)
📍 Bristol, UK
(he/him)
Does your agent have good contacts in hell?
If we absolutely have to wait until we're running around in circles on the Burning Plain then I suppose I can be patient, but hopefully the book can be released on this astral dimension as well
If we absolutely have to wait until we're running around in circles on the Burning Plain then I suppose I can be patient, but hopefully the book can be released on this astral dimension as well
November 9, 2025 at 1:25 PM
Does your agent have good contacts in hell?
If we absolutely have to wait until we're running around in circles on the Burning Plain then I suppose I can be patient, but hopefully the book can be released on this astral dimension as well
If we absolutely have to wait until we're running around in circles on the Burning Plain then I suppose I can be patient, but hopefully the book can be released on this astral dimension as well
This is all caveated by the fact that I'm socially confident, tall, reasonably slim, white, cis, etc., so I almost certainly have the privilege of having more fun conversations when thrown into a kinky social situation than many other people do. I still find it easier in smaller cities though!
November 9, 2025 at 10:51 AM
This is all caveated by the fact that I'm socially confident, tall, reasonably slim, white, cis, etc., so I almost certainly have the privilege of having more fun conversations when thrown into a kinky social situation than many other people do. I still find it easier in smaller cities though!
Depending on how you feel in social environments like bars, this can be a nice way to meet people in person. My limited experience is that events in smaller cities feel a bit more welcoming than ones in big cities, but you might still want to go with people you know for your first time
November 9, 2025 at 10:44 AM
Depending on how you feel in social environments like bars, this can be a nice way to meet people in person. My limited experience is that events in smaller cities feel a bit more welcoming than ones in big cities, but you might still want to go with people you know for your first time
One extra thing to add (from my limited experience) for people outside the biggest cities:
Occasionally, smaller centres will have a kink social night or other in-person event where it can be possible to meet people for the first time and then exchange contact details to make other plans.
Occasionally, smaller centres will have a kink social night or other in-person event where it can be possible to meet people for the first time and then exchange contact details to make other plans.
November 9, 2025 at 10:42 AM
One extra thing to add (from my limited experience) for people outside the biggest cities:
Occasionally, smaller centres will have a kink social night or other in-person event where it can be possible to meet people for the first time and then exchange contact details to make other plans.
Occasionally, smaller centres will have a kink social night or other in-person event where it can be possible to meet people for the first time and then exchange contact details to make other plans.
I love the feeling of _not_ having control over whether, when, and how I cum. It's most fun if I'm cumming (or not cumming) on instruction, especially in sessions where I know that me cumming isn't the point and that if it's allowed to happen then it isn't the end of the session... 😈
November 5, 2025 at 9:12 PM
I love the feeling of _not_ having control over whether, when, and how I cum. It's most fun if I'm cumming (or not cumming) on instruction, especially in sessions where I know that me cumming isn't the point and that if it's allowed to happen then it isn't the end of the session... 😈
Thanks! 😊 And do keep encouraging me to take pics from time to time! I like the fact that my current recon profile pic was effectively ordered by you 😁
November 5, 2025 at 8:47 PM
Thanks! 😊 And do keep encouraging me to take pics from time to time! I like the fact that my current recon profile pic was effectively ordered by you 😁
You would not believe how useless I am at (a) flexing, (b) finding decent lighting, and (c) figuring out how to pose and take a pic, but here you go! I do like the fact that my arms have some visible structure to them these days
November 5, 2025 at 8:29 PM
You would not believe how useless I am at (a) flexing, (b) finding decent lighting, and (c) figuring out how to pose and take a pic, but here you go! I do like the fact that my arms have some visible structure to them these days
Just making dinner at the mo - I'm useless at selfies, but I'll see what I can rustle up after food :)
November 5, 2025 at 6:43 PM
Just making dinner at the mo - I'm useless at selfies, but I'll see what I can rustle up after food :)
I know right! A useful one that I've stuck in my memory banks for if I ever find myself domming 😏
November 2, 2025 at 5:35 PM
I know right! A useful one that I've stuck in my memory banks for if I ever find myself domming 😏
I do love cum control in all its forms. I remember submitting to cum control once expecting to be denied for a couple of weeks, and instead I found myself ordered to cum five times a day and document it - a good mindfuck
November 2, 2025 at 4:47 PM
I do love cum control in all its forms. I remember submitting to cum control once expecting to be denied for a couple of weeks, and instead I found myself ordered to cum five times a day and document it - a good mindfuck
And it's not the only one! @misterobi.bsky.social, check out the banner on my profile :)
November 1, 2025 at 5:03 PM
And it's not the only one! @misterobi.bsky.social, check out the banner on my profile :)
I'm planning to keep going 😁 It's been 40 days without an orgasm so far - can I get to 100?
October 31, 2025 at 4:39 PM
I'm planning to keep going 😁 It's been 40 days without an orgasm so far - can I get to 100?
Kneeling, presenting, offering, hoping 🥵😈
October 31, 2025 at 4:33 PM
Kneeling, presenting, offering, hoping 🥵😈
That will definitely be a powerful reminder!
October 28, 2025 at 9:42 PM
That will definitely be a powerful reminder!
I've been reading it! It's all been great but I've particularly enjoyed the "Locktober Shopping Trip" story - a lovely vignette that really illustrates the developing submission well.
I'll be interested to find out what infraction led to the cold showers and how those have been going :)
I'll be interested to find out what infraction led to the cold showers and how those have been going :)
October 28, 2025 at 5:02 PM
I've been reading it! It's all been great but I've particularly enjoyed the "Locktober Shopping Trip" story - a lovely vignette that really illustrates the developing submission well.
I'll be interested to find out what infraction led to the cold showers and how those have been going :)
I'll be interested to find out what infraction led to the cold showers and how those have been going :)
Very nice. I've actually been thinking about cold showers recently as something that feels "appropriate" for a sub (especially as part of correction/punishment) and that I'd submit to in a D/s context, but that I'd personally find very challenging.
October 27, 2025 at 4:58 PM
Very nice. I've actually been thinking about cold showers recently as something that feels "appropriate" for a sub (especially as part of correction/punishment) and that I'd submit to in a D/s context, but that I'd personally find very challenging.
The cold, shaved, wet, and locked look is fantastic. 😈 I'm very happy to hear that it was a positive experience for all involved! ☺️
October 17, 2025 at 12:09 PM
The cold, shaved, wet, and locked look is fantastic. 😈 I'm very happy to hear that it was a positive experience for all involved! ☺️
Strong recommendation _not_ to look up any information about it before playing it, but also to have a way of taking notes as you play. There are a lot of interesting things going on in the game
October 14, 2025 at 10:11 PM
Strong recommendation _not_ to look up any information about it before playing it, but also to have a way of taking notes as you play. There are a lot of interesting things going on in the game
It's been my absolute favourite game of the year so far (and probably of many years!)
October 14, 2025 at 8:39 PM
It's been my absolute favourite game of the year so far (and probably of many years!)
Such a fantastic view 🥵🥵 Thanks for sharing!
October 10, 2025 at 4:23 PM
Such a fantastic view 🥵🥵 Thanks for sharing!
Some fantastic blog posts! I particularly liked the locktober shopping trip and the edging session - both stories had me straining in my own cage 🥵
I hope it all continues to go from strength to strength and I look forward to reading more 😊
I hope it all continues to go from strength to strength and I look forward to reading more 😊
October 8, 2025 at 10:46 PM
Some fantastic blog posts! I particularly liked the locktober shopping trip and the edging session - both stories had me straining in my own cage 🥵
I hope it all continues to go from strength to strength and I look forward to reading more 😊
I hope it all continues to go from strength to strength and I look forward to reading more 😊