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The way these dudes want to gaslight women to accept less.

"He's not physically beating you so...just accept it. Don't be a quitter!"
heymrsbond 4h Being married to a man you can no longer respect because of how cavalierly he treats being a dad and a husband is changing my brain chemistry. I've never been so disappointed, disgusted, and disturbed. I've never been so angry. 2.1K 239 41 23 ask_aubry 2h You owe it to yourself and your kid(s) to expect more get more if not get out. evermore_thomas 1h Don't listen to her. Nobody ever said marriage was easy. Nothing worth having is ever easy to get. Communicate and work on it. Be specific about the changes you need. Don't listen to that quitter above you telling you to run away. If he works, pays the bills, doesn't cheat, and keeps his hands to himself you're already ahead. Don't let some single miserable woman talk you into the same angry life she has.
November 18, 2025 at 2:29 AM
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When the Internet surprises you.
Today 3:36 PM Hey should I crawl on floor like worm and enter your uterus and rest there enjoy the heaven inside there playing with the eggs and when your periods starts I come out as your son and our pure love story starts from there Report Invite wants to chat Do you want to chat with Accept or ignore their request. Ignore Accept
November 18, 2025 at 1:03 AM
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Woman posts a happy photo celebrating her relationship with her husband who she met on Bumble.

And of course dudes in the comments being normal. 🙄
9 years ago today this guy asked me out on my first ever date. Safe to say it went pretty well, thanks Bumble! Success Story Bum IG & Threads: @ask_aubry Rare_Combination4940 3h Always remember survivorship bias this is not the norm BAF_DaWg82 9h prosperity4me 5h I bet he's $$$$$$ Wow he's huge 8 Bodes_Magodes 6h cubs1357642 1h Is this guy a millionaire? Call me crazy...but I like my partner past 50 truthsh4llswtufree 1h fat people disgust me and are a burden to society. and I used to be fat and got into incredible shape after hard work. Kranael 36m Is that the mansion/yard in the background he has or is it just a weekend house? Reply1 DeNy_Kronos 8h Edited Tell him to buy a scratcher LaughingBuddha2020 6m You have got to get him to take his health seriously and to get on Ozempic. You don't want him to have sperm-related fertility issues or leave you as a young widow. IG & Threads: @ask_aubry 47 Cunnilingusobsessed 8h 24082020 9h What in the actual fck am I doing wrong bros... Reply -47 Cunnilingusobsessed 8h. Edited Don't worry bro. That dude is incredibly successful and has money. Keep downvoting.. He ain't a high school teacher supermannman 5h yep. -37 -5 abarr021 9h I'm going to take a wild guess and assume he's either rich or extremely religious Reply anna alabama OP 9h Neither lol -61 40
November 17, 2025 at 9:18 PM
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The way they somehow figured out a way to blame housing prices on single women
Homebuyers Are Increasingly Single Women Share of single men fell Married couple Single woman ■ Single man Unmarried couple Other Defiant_Research_280 11m This is the reason why housing prices have skyrocketed Reply 2 MustardKarl 7m True. Women will greatly overpay for houses just to say "look at me I did THIS and I don't need no man" just to check a box olivegardengambler 2m Top 1% Commenter TIL BlackRock's CEO Larry Fink is actually a single woman.
November 17, 2025 at 7:27 PM
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Video of Speaker Mike Johnson making his daughter take the "purity pledge" filmed by a German show.

Purity culture is so gross, giving ownership of a girl's autonomy to her father then passed to her husband. If it's all about just keeping children safe, why is it just the girls?
November 17, 2025 at 5:20 PM
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Funny how these "empty stick" men proclaim their future robot girlfriends are so superior yet care so much about what "left over" women think.
YouTube Chinese People Going Extinct? Xpeng Launches Female Robot, Leftover Women Panic as Men Choose Bots 39K views 1 day ago #chinaobserver ...more CHINA Maximum-Flat 9h Just like women that attack vtubers or ai girlfriends. Those that felt threaten are the one that will get replaced. Reply -1 TECHSHARK77 6h Females casues left over women soooooo.. Become better and grow & gain some worth and value and then maybe you may not be leftovers... Reply -3 IG & Threads: @ask_aubry JelloWise2789 8h Gooning Al is way more peaceful than a problematic left over gold digger Reply 1 protonsters 7h I mean can you blame men for choosing robots? Reply Vote Maximum-Flat 9h Just like women that attack vtubers or ai girlfriends. Those that felt threaten are the one that will get replaced. flocko2405 10h My sister-in-law in Beijing is 35, single by her own choice and very independent, and she is very, very happy. By now, there are quite a few women we know in China who are consciously choosing this kind of life. Reply Ralle_Rula OP 6h However, by time, she will inevitably become less and less happy, unless she's a loner...
November 17, 2025 at 4:01 PM
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Good for him!
Taija @travelingflying Subscribe A man canceled our date after hearing I voted for Donald Trump. 17:40 15 Nov 25 2M Views
November 17, 2025 at 3:51 AM
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As if Facebook Marketplace interactions aren't enough, I guess now we need to be free therapist to random dudes who need to trauma dump.
Facebook Marketplace Tried to sell some shoes...broke up a relationship Women's Boots size 8 $15 $ Sold here 12:35 PM well...I got home & I guess she took off from work early...picked up the dog & left a note that she wasnt happy that I went to buy her some more boots from a woman. she looked up your ad on here too & said..."shes obviously prettier than me...youll probably leave me for her". Sooo...that was all for nothin 1:05 PM Yikes, sounds like a bunch of red flags. Sorry for the havoc. Good luck with it all 1:15 PM IG & Threads: @ask_ Facebook Marketplace Edited I'm guessing that within the next 24 hours he's going to contact you and tell you how he tried to do everything for her and how no matter how hard he tried it never seemed to be enough and if only she could see how much he loved her and would you like to get drinks sometime because he could really use a friend... That run on sentence was brought to you by 'I'm a Sensitive Guy' the brand that tries to play you. Reply 19 OP 1d Your first bit is 100 percent correct- didn't ask me out though. Which is why I never thought anything like he was trying to get me... so naive Imao Facebook Marketplace SnowMantra 16h God forbid someone vent to a stranger. Everyone here is just assuming he's trying to get laid. Maybe he just wants a human connection??? Someone to talk to for a brief second??? I mean, the guy clearly has/had a controlling girlfriend who he has to walk on eggshells around. Reply -6 Lucifersam076 16h People are socially fcked lol. Dumping all that crap on someone who's selling you something for 15 dollars is an asshole move all day long. I would have started fucking with the guy hardcore lol nuadusp 13h What does she owe him being his therapist to vent at?
November 16, 2025 at 10:22 PM
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Oh right right right right. That's why conservative dating apps fail and dudes like him lie about being "moderate".
bosshog4.20 politics 15h Follow back Liberal women can't resist a alpha Republican. You aren't hiding it well. I see the way you look at me.
November 16, 2025 at 7:28 PM
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Young women and girls are less likely than their counterpart in wanting to get married.

And these dudes chime in and show exactly why.
Girls are now less likely than boys to say they want to get married % of 12th graders saying they are most likely to choose to get married in the long run 83 stoic_suspicious 17m We need sharia speedskis777 30m TitleAccomplished368 14m TheGruenTransfer 31m Look at how sturdy and awesome men are in this graph Unwavering as always. Nice job boys. Maybe it's because instead of the 6 pack abs super rich super fit tall and handsome trope they added a new dating filter, you have to politically align on all fronts Imao. Learned that by reading the comments. Sure. They invented this nonsense term called "emotional labor" and think they're the only person in the relationship doing that work. They are, but no one is asking you to do that on anyone else's behalf. Just be chill and you'll have less self-inflicted emotional labor to accomplish. TwitchyBald 1h Woke propaganda aimed to depopulate Western World is succeeding at the moment. Curse06 2h Hate to say it but women are a lot more likely to get brainwashed by propoganda. Doesn't matter the political spectrum lol. Minimum_Area3 1h No just listen for once, it's just true you can look it up and fact check. Women have always been easier to lie to and manipulate on a mass scale. Throughout all of history. Women are the targets of mass state propaganda in the west from being pro uncontrolled mass immigration to being convinced they don't want a family. Men never fell for any of that, generally speaking. Round_Personality302 2h Yea, because nowadays it's easier the throw someone in the trash than try to solve a problem StarlightSurfing 2m That's because men, despite also being subjected to the hyper individualistic and materialist fantasies don't find as much gratification in pure material pursuit, and feel more satisfied when they are building or supporting something, i.e. a family, even if they aren't great at it. Women are satisfied with the purely materialistic pursuit as the "cosmopolitan woman." bobbyadekanye 28m When young women decide to stop finding toxic masculine traits attractive, this will Reply Vote DiZzY_404 21m Overwork yourself, get money to buy things and have no one to share them with. The recipe for the successful life apparently. A whole generation set up to wake up in their 40s to the idea of having kids and realize they can't make them anymore and it's already observable.
November 16, 2025 at 4:04 PM
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Onlyfans is proof women have no problem being sexulalized as long as they get paid for it. 66 Comment Send Cash registers are proof stores have no problem being robbed so long as they get paid for it 8h Like Reply Boxing is proof men have no problem getting punched in the face so long as they get paid for it 8h Reply Jobs are proof people have no problem with unpaid slave labor so long as they get paid for it 8h Reply
November 16, 2025 at 2:18 PM
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Umm Kraft Mac & Cheese, you okay?
LIMITED EDITION no artificial flavors, preservatives, or dyes mac & APPLE PIE WITH OTHER NATURAL FLAVOR ENLARGED TO SHOW DETAIL SERVING SUGGESTION PER 2.2 OZ (UNPREPARED) 230 CALORIES 0 ADDED SUGARS 0.5 SAT FAT 3% DV 0% DV 380mp SODIUM 16% DV SEE NUTRITION FACTS PANEL FOR AS PREPARED MACARONI & CHEESE SAUCE MIX WITH SEASONING NET WT 7.25 OZ (206g)
November 16, 2025 at 4:30 AM
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Ahh yes lauding the marriages of 1970s that has the highest divorce rate including gray divorce.

Anyways lowest divorce rates are women with college education or more. But that doesn't fit their narrative.
Ahh yes lauding the marriages of 1970s that has the highest divorce rate including gray divorce. Anyways lowest divorce rates are women with college education or more.
November 16, 2025 at 1:31 AM
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He's 37 and has to tell his mom how far he got with a woman?

Umm ..
IG & Threads: @ask_aubry He's 37, btw. This message came after I refused to get physical with him. We were supposed to have dinner plans for tomorrow. Stephen Nope, this sugar is reserved I'm going to have to pass. Not because you're not easy (I respect that), but because I live with my mom and get anxiety telling her I'm going on a date because she needs to know everything I do and then is critical like "oh that's too far." I was going to go to today Soooooooo it's not you, it's me I shouldn't even be on this Yea, it's definitely you, dude
November 15, 2025 at 10:53 PM
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Had me in the first half. And Milana, girl run.
My is not as good as english so i'm just gonna say this in english i'm from Pakistan and ppl are so mean to foreigners, can you guys just be nicer? can you stop being so rude to us, we're just trying to find new connections in a different country and get the experience of living here personally i came here for baddies, y'all are so fine and hot, we don't have snow bunnies in my country, and you are my fav. but i have an exception, it's Milana from economy with dark hair, she's so cute, i hope one day i will be able to be confident enough to come up to you. but girl, i'm so rich so don't even think twice about being my girl ik you like me, you stare at me all the time as im your dream man love OP 19h 3 My university group. I'm a student, but also in a group that helps foreigners, so at first I was worried that the guy actually needs help, but.... yeah, poor Milana. Also my uni gives free scholarships to all international students, so it's kind of sad that he says the only reason h
November 15, 2025 at 7:40 PM
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The way he can't see women as people.
I don't think women can be depressed Discussion I know people are going to get angry but in my opinion women can't be depressed. Women are given EVERYTHING, money, love, empathy and free sex. If they're sad, everyone comes rushing towards them to help. But if a guy like me cries we get stares and told to grown up. Anyways, back to my point. Women can't be depressed. They have intense emotions but not depression like us. They can be sad for a couple minutes or maybe days but they will never understand real clinical depression.
November 15, 2025 at 5:56 PM
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Ah yes Red Scare Bernie Socialist Red to a switch to Trump Brown Coat pipeline Dasha. She has literally been this way platforming Alex Jones and the like for so long. I wonder why the shift now? Is a shift in the air that the media companies are sniffing out?
Actress Dasha Nekrasova Fired By Gersh, Dropped From Movie Amid Backlash Over Podcast Interview With Far-Right Political Commentator Nick Fuentes By The Deadline Team November 14, 2025 1:16pm Dasha Nekrasova COMMENTS Ma ists
November 15, 2025 at 4:51 AM
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Squid Game actor O Yeong-su acquitted of sexual misconduct by appellate court not because he didn't do it, he wrote the actress an apology letter stating he did, but because her "memory" might be fuzzy and he won a Golden Globe.

Christ on a bike this is grim.
SUWON, South Korea, Nov. 11 (Yonhap) - An appellate court on Tuesday acquitted "Squid Game" actor O Yeong-su of sexually harassing a woman in 2017. The Suwon District Court overturned a lower court's ruling that found the 81-year-old guilty of hugging and kissing a woman on the cheek against her will during a regional tour for a play. SUWON, South Korea, Nov. 11 (Yonhap) - An appellate court on Tuesday acquitted "Squid Game" actor O Yeong-su of sexually harassing a woman in 2017. The Suwon District Court overturned a lower court's ruling that found the 81-year-old guilty of hugging and kissing a woman on the cheek against her will during a regional tour for a play. The appellate court bench said there is reason to suspect the actor harassed the woman, based on the fact she received counseling for sexual violence six months after the incident and received an apology from 0 at her request. However, it also noted the possibility that the victim's memory may have been distorted with time and the need to protect the defendant's interest in the event there are doubts. The lower court had sentenced O to an eight- month prison term, suspended by two years. Prosecutors had demanded a one-year prison term during both the first and second trials. O won Best Performance by an Actor in a Supporting Role on TV at the 2022 Golden Globe Awards for his role in the sensational Netflix original series "Squid Game."
November 15, 2025 at 1:28 AM
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Form a single line ladies, this man is single.
Today 6:10 PM You look like the type of women would fall in love with then after 6 years of marriage I would start to beat you and our kids. The first couple years would be fun tho. Oh- Sent IG & Threads: @ask_aubry
November 15, 2025 at 12:51 AM
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Imagine setting yourself up to compete against your own therapist and then surprised you don't get better.
doomer @uncledoomer Follow therapy only works if you have a lower IQ than the therapist
November 14, 2025 at 11:22 PM
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Funny how she never talks about actual studies on divorce rates that show if you don't want a divorce one should marry a college educated woman
College-educated women with careers don’t need men. They can support themselves now. Need is a powerful and a God-given glue that keeps marriages together. College & careers take this away. Thus, up to 90% of women initiating divorce are college educated. Satan’s plan for women. 45.3% high school or less 38.8% 36.3% 30.1% 25.9% college < OUR CLASSES WORK Parents who took online parenting divorce education classes reported child improvement 22% 70% 54
November 14, 2025 at 8:51 PM
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Gaffe or Freudian slip?
November 14, 2025 at 7:17 PM
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The way they tell on themselves.
Follow thItd @thltd Eri @ask_aubry @musestoom... Dating would improve tenfold, marriage rates would skyrocket, if we simply banned women from earning above the poverty line. IG & Threads: ironically women have never been more secure or self-sufficient and somehow that made dating harder, not easier.. 6:53 PM 09 Nov 25 385K IG & Threads: @ask_aubry
November 14, 2025 at 5:51 PM
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I would bet good money she is miserable and seeks out random male validation because her partner isn't being a partner at all.
nytshaed512 4d Perpetually Annoyed Here's a fun fact.... I am a woman! Im the opposite of the 'normal' women of today. I don't need a man for his money, because I make my own. I bring more to the table than the single women of today, because I am actually independent, kind, caring and loyal. The only thing I have ever wanted from a man is safety/security and acceptance that Im not a demure, fragile flower that wants a man for his money with nothing in return. I know how to make men feel good and feel supported. Listen to their problems, offer solutions, help with balancing their stress, stay loyal in the moments of chaos, and ultimately support my partner in any way I can because I am a good woman. I get more attention now than ever because I am the opposite of what men have gotten from their partners
November 14, 2025 at 3:59 PM
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"Oh so surprising" said no woman ever.
Women's sexual desire is more strongly affected by stress, new study suggests by Vladimir Hedrih November 13, 2025 The results showed that when participants reported higher levels of subjective stress, they also tended to experience lower levels of sexual desire and arousal at the same time. While this was true for both genders, the reverse association-higher sexual desire and arousal being linked to lower stress-was only significant for women.
November 14, 2025 at 4:42 AM