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Some people will try to tell you that all you need to masturbate are your hands and your imagination. That is missing so many things, where to begin...?
#masturbationmonth
May 18, 2025 at 1:19 AM
Masturbating feels good!
Orgasms feel good!
Everyone does it because it feels good!
And you should do it because it feels good!
You hear this all the time. It's not entirely true.

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May 16, 2025 at 4:10 PM
If you read yesterday's post, you may have noticed that I talked about masturbating as if it was only successful, and, in fact, could only considered be masturbating at all if an orgasm were achieved.

That's wrong. That's flat out wrong, and yesterday's post shouldn't have been written in that way.
May 15, 2025 at 2:43 PM
Today's misconception is that it's easy to masturbate. That it comes naturally to everyone. That pretty much all you have to do is reach down and your genitals will guide you through the process, and presto-bingo! an orgasm arrives on schedule 5-10 minutes later.

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May 14, 2025 at 2:52 PM
Today, I'm going to tackle the misconception that everyone wants to masturbate. There's a common belief that everyone would masturbate if they could, but that there are various blocks in place preventing them from doing so.
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May 13, 2025 at 2:40 PM
These graphs below take into account both how much they masturbate, but also how many people are in each group, for an estimate of proportionally how much each group is responsible for. The numbers here are per 100 people.
May 13, 2025 at 4:15 AM
The study I referenced gives the number of people in each group and rough estimates for how often they masturbate, so you can give each option a range of number of times, calculate a little and plot this out.
May 13, 2025 at 4:15 AM
This week's first misconception is that everyone masturbates. It's a prevalent joke: "Studies show that 95% of people masturbate and 5% of people lie." Except that's not true.

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May 12, 2025 at 2:55 PM
This week, I'd like to go over a few misconceptions about masturbation. Not "You'll go blind and grow hair on your palms": Not gonna waste any time on that nonsense. And not "Asexuals can't/don't/shouldn't masturbate" stuff, either. Already debunked those.
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May 11, 2025 at 5:59 PM
Another question: Do asexuals like toys?
Boy howdy! You should see how big my collection of Legos is!

Oh, you mean *sex* toys...
In that case...

Boy howdy! You should see how big my collection of Tenga-

Um. I mean. Some do, some don't. Let's explore.

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May 10, 2025 at 9:11 PM
Exercise 8: Attempt to reach orgasm. This one builds on exercise 7, but encourages the reader to continue on to orgasm. Explain what sensations may be expected, give description of what happens before/during/after orgasm. Emphasize that orgasm may not happen, not failure if it doesn't.
~10-20 min
May 10, 2025 at 6:27 AM
Exercise 7: Attempt to stimulate/pleasure. The goal isn't orgasm yet, it's just to figure out what induces pleasure and what does not. Suggest some techniques. Explain what might be felt. Encourage experimentation, focusing on what works, but also trying variation.
~10-15 minutes
May 10, 2025 at 6:27 AM
Exercise 2: Look at your genitals. Just look. Get a clear sense of how things are arranged and organized. Use a mirror, or maybe even take pictures with your phone (backups off, airplane mode on, and delete them and clear the trash!). Look from different angles. Move parts around, etc.
~10 minutes
May 10, 2025 at 6:27 AM
Exercise 1: Find a place to perform these exercises. It should be comfortable, private, and free of interruption. A locked bedroom, a bathroom, etc. are good. No audience (at least for now), because you should feel safe to be curious and not feel pressured to perform.
~5 minutes.
May 10, 2025 at 6:27 AM
Trying the image again because it apparently went wrong after uploading the first time.
May 9, 2025 at 1:36 AM
So instead, let me try to explain it another way: Are you familiar with the Drake Equation?
May 8, 2025 at 3:18 PM
May 7, 2025 at 2:54 AM
I've got my first question!
Do I fantasize or use porn?
No. Yes.
Thanks for asking, keep the questions coming!
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May 7, 2025 at 2:54 AM
Gonna give this whole anonymous question thing a shot. If you have any questions about asexuality and masturbation, or anything vaguely related to that topic, ask away!
ngl.link/asexualactiv...

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May 6, 2025 at 2:55 PM
I'll admit, it's kind of strange to be asexual and talking about masturbation for #MasturbationMonth. So today, I'd like to talk about why I do this.

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May 6, 2025 at 5:47 AM
And in that spirit:
I am an asexual who masturbates. I'm open for your questions, so fire away!
May 1, 2025 at 3:38 PM
I end with this message, which is at the heart of Masturbation Month: Drop the shame and embarrassment!
Whether you do it three times a day, once in a blue moon, or have never been interested in trying, there's nothing wrong with it. Don't let feelings of shame or embarrassment tell you otherwise.
May 1, 2025 at 3:38 PM
And not everyone who has tried it has liked it. For some people, it's just not a good experience, and that's all right. If it's not good for you, you don't have to do it.
If you like some parts and not others, then skip those parts. Some people like the build up, but hate orgasms, and that's fine!
May 1, 2025 at 3:38 PM
It' also important to mention that you do not have to masturbate, if you're not into it. You're not going to explode, you're not going to shrivel. If you don't want to, DON'T! You don't have to.
May 1, 2025 at 3:38 PM
But it's okay to not know how! It's actually not instinctual for anyone, and it takes practice and experimentation to figure out! Even some allos can have hard time with it.
May 1, 2025 at 3:38 PM