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As I've mentioned before, I'm working on a sex ed book. I'm planning to ask questions to gather a wide variety of perspectives. Some of these questions might seem a bit basic or obvious or strange, but please answer them anyway if you feel comfortable. The more responses I get, the better!
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November 12, 2025 at 9:29 AM
Reminder that "No Nut November" is an anti-masturbation cult's ritual practice that escaped containment and not something that should be mainstreamed and DEFINITELY not something that should be tied to asexuality in any way.
November 2, 2025 at 9:26 PM
Is there a good hashtag on here for asking questions about sex that'll get the attention of "sexperts", sexuality educators, or sex researchers, etc.?
October 26, 2025 at 7:50 PM
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It's Ace Week!
a person holding a purple and black flag in a grassy field
Alt: a person holding a ginormous ace flag in a grassy field
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October 19, 2025 at 5:35 PM
I'm willing to answer questions people have about asexuality!
What better way to celebrate Asexual Awareness Week than by spillin' the asexualiTEA with @sparklemaia.bsky.social! 1/2
www.ohjoysextoy.com/ace-101-spar...
October 18, 2025 at 1:26 AM
Also, yesterday was apparently National Orgasm Day, so here's a reminder for those who could use it: Asexual people are allowed to have and enjoy orgasms.
August 2, 2025 at 3:28 AM
New high score! I have not had sex for 8280 days, beating my previous record of 8279 days, set during the Bush administration!
August 2, 2025 at 3:27 AM
After Pride Month settles, maybe I'll be able to get back to working on that book...
June 24, 2025 at 3:01 PM
Some people will try to tell you that all you need to masturbate are your hands and your imagination. That is missing so many things, where to begin...?
#masturbationmonth
May 18, 2025 at 1:19 AM
Masturbating feels good!
Orgasms feel good!
Everyone does it because it feels good!
And you should do it because it feels good!
You hear this all the time. It's not entirely true.

#masturbationmonth #masturbation #orgasms #asexual #asexuality
May 16, 2025 at 4:10 PM
If you read yesterday's post, you may have noticed that I talked about masturbating as if it was only successful, and, in fact, could only considered be masturbating at all if an orgasm were achieved.

That's wrong. That's flat out wrong, and yesterday's post shouldn't have been written in that way.
May 15, 2025 at 2:43 PM
Today's thread has me curious: Did anyone else with a penis have trouble figuring out how to masturbate like I did? What made it difficult for you? I always hear how easy it should be, but it wasn't that easy for me, and I'd like to know how common that is.
#masturbationmonth #masturbation #penis
May 15, 2025 at 5:26 AM
Today's misconception is that it's easy to masturbate. That it comes naturally to everyone. That pretty much all you have to do is reach down and your genitals will guide you through the process, and presto-bingo! an orgasm arrives on schedule 5-10 minutes later.

#masturbationmonth
May 14, 2025 at 2:52 PM
Today, I'm going to tackle the misconception that everyone wants to masturbate. There's a common belief that everyone would masturbate if they could, but that there are various blocks in place preventing them from doing so.
#asexual #asexuality #masturbationmonth
May 13, 2025 at 2:40 PM
On another site, someone read today's post about masturbation prevalence, and made a joke about Spiders Georg, the outlier who should not have been counted.
So, I thought, what's better than a Spiders Georg joke?
Spiders Georg SCIENCE!

#masturbationmonth
May 13, 2025 at 4:15 AM
This week's first misconception is that everyone masturbates. It's a prevalent joke: "Studies show that 95% of people masturbate and 5% of people lie." Except that's not true.

#asexual #asexuality #masturbationmonth
May 12, 2025 at 2:55 PM
This week, I'd like to go over a few misconceptions about masturbation. Not "You'll go blind and grow hair on your palms": Not gonna waste any time on that nonsense. And not "Asexuals can't/don't/shouldn't masturbate" stuff, either. Already debunked those.
#asexual #asexuality #masturbationmonth
May 11, 2025 at 5:59 PM
Another question: Do asexuals like toys?
Boy howdy! You should see how big my collection of Legos is!

Oh, you mean *sex* toys...
In that case...

Boy howdy! You should see how big my collection of Tenga-

Um. I mean. Some do, some don't. Let's explore.

#asexual #asexuality #masturbationmonth
May 10, 2025 at 9:11 PM
For the asexual sex ed book I'm writing, I've mentioned that I'm going to have a series of exercises for reader participation, to guide them through some of the basics of various activities. These exercises will have a time limit to spend time giving it a shot, but not waste time if it doesn't work.
May 10, 2025 at 6:27 AM
All I'm getting here are highly amatonormative auto-generated questions from the system itself, so I'm begging you to break up the monotony and send in some questions about exploring sexuality from an asexual perspective!
ngl.link/asexualactiv...

#asexual #asexuality #masturbationmonth
Anonymous messages!
Anonymous messages!
ngl.link
May 9, 2025 at 3:39 PM
I just got an email from a condom company wanting to know if I would be interested in testing their product.

Sure! I'd love to find out how much water it can hold, how much weight it can support, how long it remains inflated...
May 9, 2025 at 3:15 AM
"Yes," thought the pornbot, "this is the perfect thread upon which to ply my wares."
May 8, 2025 at 4:10 PM
Someone asked if porn or other erotic media is involved when I masturbate. The short answer is yes.
The longer answer is "But wow is that a complicated topic."
So let's go on an adventure into the world of one asexual's porn use!

#asexual #asexuality #masturbationmonth
May 8, 2025 at 3:18 PM
Questions are still open, if you have anything you're curious about! (And feel free to share this with anyone you think might be interested. Like, say, that prying allo who won't stop pestering you with questions about "how" and "why" and "but you're asexual")
Gonna give this whole anonymous question thing a shot. If you have any questions about asexuality and masturbation, or anything vaguely related to that topic, ask away!
ngl.link/asexualactiv...

#asexual #asexuality #masturbationmonth
May 7, 2025 at 3:17 PM
In one of my posts the other day, I mentioned that my first orgasm made me feel nauseous. Someone chimed in and said that they did too, and were wondering if that's a common experience.
Does anyone know? Are early orgasms a bit on the queasy side, or did we just have bad luck?
May 7, 2025 at 3:13 PM