100% Once my purchasers had kids, the 2 they bought became regrettable impulse purchases and the abuse dramatically increased. Their kids, however, we're cherished and doted on.

Apricot Pol Pot is one of my favorites.

My bio dad is also a naval Vietnam vet. He was extremely lucky. His music background landed him in the music corps & he spent his time in Seattle, tasked with playing Taps while coffins came off the planes.

Yes and they didn't offer any help.

People have no idea how much nazi propaganda was being openly preached in America prior to Pearl Harbor. Congressmen were using taxpayer dollars to utilize the post office to mail materials to citizens. We had our own wing of brownshirts!

The ones that didn't go to the US, yes.

They only love soldiers when they are killing anyone who isn't palm colored.

Adopters think they are morally superior to unmarried pregnant women. Their infertility trauma makes them resentful towards anyone who seemingly got pregnant without even trying.

Let's be realistic. Thr majority of us live paycheck to paycheck. Nobody can afford to stop working.

💯 with you on that!

The "it worked out ok for me, what's the issue" adoptees are so problematic and harmful.

I love a pre-emptive block.

The savior narrative is so deeply embedded in adoption that nobody can even fathom that APs can and do abuse the children they bought.

I am 57 and still have recurring nightmares of being abused in my childhood home.

I think reunion really opened her eyes to how many lies she relied upon to comfort herself over the guilt of relinquishment. She was never able to have a serious conversation with me. It was all superficial topics. Anything deeper was poking at a wound she couldn't face.

Can confirm. It was very upsetting to my mother when I told her I was abused.