That happened to me too! I picked it up on sale too and I'm still figuring out the internal logic. And automation scares me.

Perhaps men are due a self-improvement movement that isn't all about stoicism (or stoicism), strength, and strategies to bed women; but instead of empathy, shared-support, emotional regulation, and community-building.

I genuinely don’t know.

"This person is offensive to me and therefore I won't consume their work"
is very different from
"This person is offensive to me and therefore no one should consume their work, and I will shout about it whenever their name is mentioned."

I have respect for the former. I'm exhausted by the latter.