Sarah Aitchison
@ambersalamander.bsky.social
Sutton United fan, Her Game Too ambassador and EDI Champion. I like making cakes and occasionally run stupidly long distances.
He thinks that's some sort of slap in the face for women, does he? Has he ever actually met one? Because I'd be like "well good, I don't want some dude spending money on me, I prefer to pay my own way thanks"
December 11, 2025 at 6:15 AM
He thinks that's some sort of slap in the face for women, does he? Has he ever actually met one? Because I'd be like "well good, I don't want some dude spending money on me, I prefer to pay my own way thanks"
Yeah, if he were just asking her as a friend/colleague then I doubt he'd even see it as rejection if she said she couldn't go.
December 11, 2025 at 6:11 AM
Yeah, if he were just asking her as a friend/colleague then I doubt he'd even see it as rejection if she said she couldn't go.
YES. "You decided not to speak to me for 15 minutes." No, I was processing something I'd just been told that affected my plans and was trying to work out how to deal with it.
December 10, 2025 at 3:10 PM
YES. "You decided not to speak to me for 15 minutes." No, I was processing something I'd just been told that affected my plans and was trying to work out how to deal with it.
I find no matter how you explain it, some just don't get it. I have friends who know I'm autistic but get pissed off when I can't cope with an unexpected change of plans because I'm verbally articulate and normally pretty good at masking so they sort of think I can do everything else they can do
December 10, 2025 at 1:41 PM
I find no matter how you explain it, some just don't get it. I have friends who know I'm autistic but get pissed off when I can't cope with an unexpected change of plans because I'm verbally articulate and normally pretty good at masking so they sort of think I can do everything else they can do
Can't say there's anything wrong with any of those tbf
December 9, 2025 at 1:33 PM
Can't say there's anything wrong with any of those tbf
That's going to be news to the billions of men in the world when they discover they're not people.
December 8, 2025 at 8:57 PM
That's going to be news to the billions of men in the world when they discover they're not people.
Sorry to butt in, but I find this infuriating because I was taught in my MSc something like eighteen years ago about the danger of "diagnostic overshadowing" where people with LD are made to live with untreated MH conditions because professionals say it's just part of their LD presentation. FFS
December 8, 2025 at 9:00 AM
Sorry to butt in, but I find this infuriating because I was taught in my MSc something like eighteen years ago about the danger of "diagnostic overshadowing" where people with LD are made to live with untreated MH conditions because professionals say it's just part of their LD presentation. FFS
That's the difference. When my husband and I started dating he said the barmaid at a bar I was a regular at (we chatted a lot) was hot. I told him that made me kind of uncomfortable because she was someone I knew. He got it and never went there again with someone I knew personally. Celebrities, sure
December 5, 2025 at 2:22 PM
That's the difference. When my husband and I started dating he said the barmaid at a bar I was a regular at (we chatted a lot) was hot. I told him that made me kind of uncomfortable because she was someone I knew. He got it and never went there again with someone I knew personally. Celebrities, sure
December 2, 2025 at 2:48 PM
Ugh you guys make me hate myself sometimes 😂
November 30, 2025 at 6:43 PM
Ugh you guys make me hate myself sometimes 😂
In my case it's the reason I stopped using Facebook
November 25, 2025 at 1:49 PM
In my case it's the reason I stopped using Facebook
Thank goodness Pickford was there to save him
November 25, 2025 at 8:25 AM
Thank goodness Pickford was there to save him
Exactly. My daughter's 10 and a big HP fan but we've also had that conversation and she knows exactly why her copies of the books have come from Oxfam, and why she doesn't get HP merchandise for Christmas.
November 24, 2025 at 2:15 PM
Exactly. My daughter's 10 and a big HP fan but we've also had that conversation and she knows exactly why her copies of the books have come from Oxfam, and why she doesn't get HP merchandise for Christmas.
I feel this one in my bones
November 23, 2025 at 3:12 PM
I feel this one in my bones
Boyfriend I had at uni came with a veritable parade of red flags but since you asked for the stupidest, he used to pick up stuff in the supermarket like a pack of cookies then open it right there in the shop and eat half of it before paying for it, so the poor cashier had to scan his crumby wrappers
November 22, 2025 at 12:45 PM
Boyfriend I had at uni came with a veritable parade of red flags but since you asked for the stupidest, he used to pick up stuff in the supermarket like a pack of cookies then open it right there in the shop and eat half of it before paying for it, so the poor cashier had to scan his crumby wrappers
Not only that but the description below the name is exactly the same for all the bottom-related ones. Someone just came up with these hilarious names and couldn't decide which one to use
November 21, 2025 at 2:37 PM
Not only that but the description below the name is exactly the same for all the bottom-related ones. Someone just came up with these hilarious names and couldn't decide which one to use
Now the original post has been deleted, this will forever remain a mystery to me.
Thank goodness
Thank goodness
November 18, 2025 at 2:52 PM
Now the original post has been deleted, this will forever remain a mystery to me.
Thank goodness
Thank goodness
I'm not sure how many iterations I could bear, if I'm honest.
November 15, 2025 at 9:25 AM
I'm not sure how many iterations I could bear, if I'm honest.
On repeat? That's awkward. Hard to dance to, too.
November 15, 2025 at 9:01 AM
On repeat? That's awkward. Hard to dance to, too.
*if you're a man
November 12, 2025 at 7:56 PM
*if you're a man
Would be a lot more interesting (and useful) if they'd tried seeing if there were any differences between men's voices and womens. I mean, this is only a proven (I use the term loosely) solution I'd you're a man.
November 12, 2025 at 7:56 PM
Would be a lot more interesting (and useful) if they'd tried seeing if there were any differences between men's voices and womens. I mean, this is only a proven (I use the term loosely) solution I'd you're a man.
Sometimes I hate those guys almost as much as I love them, for things like this
November 12, 2025 at 1:57 PM
Sometimes I hate those guys almost as much as I love them, for things like this
Only if you like it rather warm
November 9, 2025 at 8:09 PM
Only if you like it rather warm
That's the easy way 😁 mine is it has to be one word, two only if one is impossible. So Kevin's jinx would do.
November 8, 2025 at 2:05 PM
That's the easy way 😁 mine is it has to be one word, two only if one is impossible. So Kevin's jinx would do.