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SY: tokyo rev*ngers is so cool
SJ: [sees Draken] should i shave my head and get a dragon tattoo too
SY: absOLUTELY NOT

SQH: uhhh why is your brother blonde
SY: to intimidate people
SQH: [sees SJ's suitors full of jocks and bad boys] i'm intimidated alright

SJ: with blonde hair everyone will now fear me
SY: yeah gege they'll fear how much they have fallen head over heels for you

that being said, he has too many weaknesses to target (yqy, qjp disciples)

others cannot manipulate him but they can use the people he deeply cares about to orchestrate his downfall

my only desire in life is to have many men be obsessed with shen jiu 😩

on the other hand, sj could marry many simps as he wants. he could have a harem for himself alone, as a treat 🥰🥰🥰

this is why on my top 3 sj ship, liujiu is number 1 bc liu qingge wouldn't even think of marrying another after he proposed to sj 😍

yqy could argue that he does not marry others for love but for political reasons, that the only one he loves is sj, but sj won't allow it. choose xiao jiu or there will be no xiao jiu

i respect binghe's harem but if he doesn't break it up before he marries shen jiu, they will not be married at all

lmy and nyy also becomes very (intimately) close due to this and shen jiu is already planning their wedding

shen jiu becomes liu mingyan's beta reader for her stories and is also her muse*

*men of all ranks and status have known the bewitching beauty of a green-eyed scholar