🏳️🌈EvilBogCreature🏳️⚧️
@abogboy.bsky.social
No AI, No antis (fiction does NOT affect reality)
Pro Kink (pro Informed consent between adults)
TW/CW a lot of venting
In my 30s, MDNI
Disabled Queer VegAnarchist
Pro Kink (pro Informed consent between adults)
TW/CW a lot of venting
In my 30s, MDNI
Disabled Queer VegAnarchist
unfortunately probably, not legally binding note in my phone abt what I would like to happen in the event of my death including who gets my possessions, access to my accounts and who "gets" to plan my funeral and what happens to my remains. You know, the "good" stuff.
January 12, 2026 at 2:07 PM
unfortunately probably, not legally binding note in my phone abt what I would like to happen in the event of my death including who gets my possessions, access to my accounts and who "gets" to plan my funeral and what happens to my remains. You know, the "good" stuff.
So "edgy" to use all those "or sth, I guess, etc" am I trying to pretend to be chill? Act like idc? No, it's just to show that there's no REAL concern...
Nope, it's cringe if you do and cringe if you don't.
Fuck me, I GUESS
Nope, it's cringe if you do and cringe if you don't.
Fuck me, I GUESS
January 12, 2026 at 1:20 PM
So "edgy" to use all those "or sth, I guess, etc" am I trying to pretend to be chill? Act like idc? No, it's just to show that there's no REAL concern...
Nope, it's cringe if you do and cringe if you don't.
Fuck me, I GUESS
Nope, it's cringe if you do and cringe if you don't.
Fuck me, I GUESS
If I, get hit by a car or sth bc I wasn't paying attention outside or 💀ms or wtvr I'll leave a link to this account I guess.
January 12, 2026 at 1:17 PM
If I, get hit by a car or sth bc I wasn't paying attention outside or 💀ms or wtvr I'll leave a link to this account I guess.
Just feels like I'm fundamentally bad at caring or selfish or both or idk what atp.
January 12, 2026 at 1:14 PM
Just feels like I'm fundamentally bad at caring or selfish or both or idk what atp.
Currently on the 3rd type I've tried. I'm "doing everything right and properly". Why am I like this? And then I never have the words to describe what's wrong when it's time to do so. So I just say I'm ok, I'm just sort of dissatisfied w therapy or meds or wtvr...
January 12, 2026 at 1:13 PM
Currently on the 3rd type I've tried. I'm "doing everything right and properly". Why am I like this? And then I never have the words to describe what's wrong when it's time to do so. So I just say I'm ok, I'm just sort of dissatisfied w therapy or meds or wtvr...
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then we come online into these self-proclaimed "radical" spaces, and we think things will be different. people will give according to their ability and receive according to their need, right?
but you find out that these systems of harm are replicated everywhere. they take conscious unlearning.
but you find out that these systems of harm are replicated everywhere. they take conscious unlearning.
January 12, 2026 at 12:00 AM
then we come online into these self-proclaimed "radical" spaces, and we think things will be different. people will give according to their ability and receive according to their need, right?
but you find out that these systems of harm are replicated everywhere. they take conscious unlearning.
but you find out that these systems of harm are replicated everywhere. they take conscious unlearning.
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what's expected of help-seekers is a performance of deservedness, and these performances take a lot of emotional labor.
emotional labor is not valued in our society. it's not seen as a precious resource to conserve. one reason may be that it's seen in a patriarchal society as a "woman's job."
emotional labor is not valued in our society. it's not seen as a precious resource to conserve. one reason may be that it's seen in a patriarchal society as a "woman's job."
January 11, 2026 at 11:51 PM
what's expected of help-seekers is a performance of deservedness, and these performances take a lot of emotional labor.
emotional labor is not valued in our society. it's not seen as a precious resource to conserve. one reason may be that it's seen in a patriarchal society as a "woman's job."
emotional labor is not valued in our society. it's not seen as a precious resource to conserve. one reason may be that it's seen in a patriarchal society as a "woman's job."
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this comes into play when I attempt to get my needs met as well: you're expected to constantly market and justify yourself, stay "polite," and be grateful.
that's not how mutual aid is supposed to work, but it ends up being a daily reality that people punish you for if you don't fall in line.
that's not how mutual aid is supposed to work, but it ends up being a daily reality that people punish you for if you don't fall in line.
January 11, 2026 at 11:39 PM
this comes into play when I attempt to get my needs met as well: you're expected to constantly market and justify yourself, stay "polite," and be grateful.
that's not how mutual aid is supposed to work, but it ends up being a daily reality that people punish you for if you don't fall in line.
that's not how mutual aid is supposed to work, but it ends up being a daily reality that people punish you for if you don't fall in line.
What happened to the labeler? 😭
December 20, 2025 at 4:54 AM
What happened to the labeler? 😭
To YOU! In reality I'm just discosiating and possibly have alexythymia. Idk if it's caused by the discotiation or what but I am not doing as well as I present to you!
December 12, 2025 at 8:29 AM
To YOU! In reality I'm just discosiating and possibly have alexythymia. Idk if it's caused by the discotiation or what but I am not doing as well as I present to you!