Moth (Em) 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
@8bitem.bsky.social
they/them Nonbinary Lesbian. Autistic. Author of trans stories living the creative life as a spiritual adventure
Books: https://galaxymoth.carrd.co/
Tip: https://ko-fi.com/N4N41G69XC
Books: https://galaxymoth.carrd.co/
Tip: https://ko-fi.com/N4N41G69XC
Dr. Ramani’s book is life changing.
![In narcissistic relationships, the trauma bond is a deep and distracting sense of love or connection that blocks you from seeing the toxic cycles of the relationship clearly.[8] Nobody stays in a narcissistic relationship because it is abusive and uncomfortable, and describing survivors of adult narcissistic relationships as “masochists” or “gluttons for punishment” is an inaccurate and unfair characterization. The good moments are what draw you in and what you want to sustain; the bad moments are confusing and unsettling.](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:r4shig6h2ibbaex7ovmo2a5g/bafkreiebzontoiexksgujxhhz44u2iiwpaii32p2r256l2duae23kcvsp4@jpeg)
November 12, 2025 at 5:33 PM
Dr. Ramani’s book is life changing.
The secret to my podcast editing is the help of my assistant.
November 12, 2025 at 4:21 PM
The secret to my podcast editing is the help of my assistant.
A friend was in town today, and we went hiking in some caves on my lunch break.
November 11, 2025 at 8:23 PM
A friend was in town today, and we went hiking in some caves on my lunch break.
A small tour of some of the cozy lights in my house as the air turns cold outside and twilight begins.
November 9, 2025 at 11:26 PM
A small tour of some of the cozy lights in my house as the air turns cold outside and twilight begins.
Sunday afternoon in bed with the girls.
November 9, 2025 at 7:47 PM
Sunday afternoon in bed with the girls.
Really enjoyed your book reading yesterday @lukemcquillan.com !!!
November 9, 2025 at 5:25 PM
Really enjoyed your book reading yesterday @lukemcquillan.com !!!
I put up some dried grape vines, faux foliage, and MOTHS.
November 9, 2025 at 4:02 AM
I put up some dried grape vines, faux foliage, and MOTHS.
Portable meds but make it *aesthetic*
November 9, 2025 at 12:40 AM
Portable meds but make it *aesthetic*
The full moon last night was so bright!
November 6, 2025 at 3:20 PM
The full moon last night was so bright!
Omg this is such a good snack.
November 5, 2025 at 7:58 PM
Omg this is such a good snack.
You've heard of girl dinner. Lemme try something. Here's enby dinner. Vegan burger and many, many kinds of pickled veggies.
😋
😋
November 4, 2025 at 10:59 PM
You've heard of girl dinner. Lemme try something. Here's enby dinner. Vegan burger and many, many kinds of pickled veggies.
😋
😋
Not needing the blackout curtains in the bedroom anymore means I added some plant friends!
Also did some transplants to take to my aunt. 🪴
Also did some transplants to take to my aunt. 🪴
November 4, 2025 at 9:09 PM
Not needing the blackout curtains in the bedroom anymore means I added some plant friends!
Also did some transplants to take to my aunt. 🪴
Also did some transplants to take to my aunt. 🪴
Cats and I are enjoying being in the bedroom during the day. (Last one has Galaxy sneaking up on Tavi).
November 3, 2025 at 10:24 PM
Cats and I are enjoying being in the bedroom during the day. (Last one has Galaxy sneaking up on Tavi).
Recommended a book and wow. It is making some past encounters make sense. I didn't know moderate narcissism was a thing, and this has got to be the hardest kind of thing I've tried to grasp as an autistic person. Like the patterns with some people never made sense, but now I know why.
November 3, 2025 at 1:38 AM
Recommended a book and wow. It is making some past encounters make sense. I didn't know moderate narcissism was a thing, and this has got to be the hardest kind of thing I've tried to grasp as an autistic person. Like the patterns with some people never made sense, but now I know why.
This has been the hardest cat intro of my life. 3 weeks of separate rooms/screens, treats, scent swapping. Added Feliway optimum in 3 rooms, got calming treats for Moxie, and started her on Purina Pro calming supplement.
Finally, today it is just growling and Moxie is able to chill a bit.
Finally, today it is just growling and Moxie is able to chill a bit.
October 31, 2025 at 9:51 PM
This has been the hardest cat intro of my life. 3 weeks of separate rooms/screens, treats, scent swapping. Added Feliway optimum in 3 rooms, got calming treats for Moxie, and started her on Purina Pro calming supplement.
Finally, today it is just growling and Moxie is able to chill a bit.
Finally, today it is just growling and Moxie is able to chill a bit.
Delighted! I found some peonies for sale on my lunch break. 🥰
October 30, 2025 at 7:52 PM
Delighted! I found some peonies for sale on my lunch break. 🥰
Galaxy Moth the kitty is one of the best things to happen in my life this year. She was instantly my BFF when I brought her home and is so loving.
October 29, 2025 at 5:03 PM
Galaxy Moth the kitty is one of the best things to happen in my life this year. She was instantly my BFF when I brought her home and is so loving.
I am so, so proud and happy share this! Did you love my convo with Soph on the Galaxy Moth podcast? You're going to love entering the whirlpool of wild with us in the NeuroQueeries podcast! The first episode is out now. We talk gender, autism, queerness, and sex! Music by @demongrrl.gay
October 28, 2025 at 12:34 AM
I am so, so proud and happy share this! Did you love my convo with Soph on the Galaxy Moth podcast? You're going to love entering the whirlpool of wild with us in the NeuroQueeries podcast! The first episode is out now. We talk gender, autism, queerness, and sex! Music by @demongrrl.gay
October 26, 2025 at 1:59 AM
Having a fun night playing Monster Prom with @anneelise.bsky.social @blitztraveling.bsky.social @sophrishea.bsky.social
October 25, 2025 at 11:44 PM
Having a fun night playing Monster Prom with @anneelise.bsky.social @blitztraveling.bsky.social @sophrishea.bsky.social
Sounds like someone has a fetish
October 25, 2025 at 9:35 PM
Sounds like someone has a fetish
Damn grrl. So enjoyed this album. My top 3 from it: Interstellar Spellbound, Life Like, and New Horizon
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October 25, 2025 at 9:33 PM
Damn grrl. So enjoyed this album. My top 3 from it: Interstellar Spellbound, Life Like, and New Horizon
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Another hike today. Very much looked like a sapling Ent running away in the first photo (look on the left under the fallen tree).
October 25, 2025 at 9:26 PM
Another hike today. Very much looked like a sapling Ent running away in the first photo (look on the left under the fallen tree).
The juxtaposition of the vacuum sealer and the person flattened out on the yoga mat really gave me pause here. I'm supposed to explore these categories?
October 24, 2025 at 11:14 PM
The juxtaposition of the vacuum sealer and the person flattened out on the yoga mat really gave me pause here. I'm supposed to explore these categories?
e q u a n i m i t y
October 24, 2025 at 12:09 AM
e q u a n i m i t y