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Zandi Dandizette
@zandi.bsky.social
4D chromatic queerdo
I have a new contract coming up, and when looking through the responsibilities I noticed in the second half I am going to be updating the onboarding documents. Literally every time I am involved in a new org that's what I AM SO EXCITED to do. 🤣 I have created multiple handbooks when none existed.
December 11, 2025 at 10:33 PM
It's mundane, but I have had the most bizarre week with automated systems and online services. Minding my own business just living life normally... unbothered, moisturized, and staying in my lane not even using the systems to do anything and...not once, but 3x this week I've had to call in.
November 29, 2025 at 5:43 PM
I cried my eyes out at a video game for almost an hour yesterday. I knew what they were doing, and tried not to give in, but boy oh boy did they get me.
November 7, 2025 at 1:21 AM
It's only a notion that one is radicalized because what has been normalized is not common decency.
October 7, 2025 at 9:44 PM
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August 6, 2025 at 10:48 PM
was it all for naught
July 4, 2025 at 1:09 AM
one odd gap in my general way of moving about the world is I seem to lack the self-protection basics most people's brains jump to. Like now adays, I -perform- some of it through unnecessarily hard lessons, or as requisite. It's not a natural for me to be protective or prioritize security.
June 19, 2025 at 5:40 PM
The little doodle that taught me I keep trying to zoom in as if it's digital.
May 30, 2025 at 11:23 PM
I know I haven't drawn physically in awhile because I repeatedly tried to zoom in as if it was an iPad. 🧐🙃🤐😖
May 30, 2025 at 11:22 PM
Fun fact: once when I was working in tech support a lifetime ago, I told an angry customer by e-chat that I would not call them because I was saving my voice for marriage and it was against my religion. :^)
May 23, 2025 at 5:54 AM
made a tassel chandelier to cover up a Big Light that was unused and held disdain.
May 22, 2025 at 4:40 PM
Lately only elderly men seem to acknowledge me, and their compliments have been top tier. Ranging from "stylish" to "dressed impeccably today." It feels less like getting hit on, more that they want what I'm wearing, and I think that exactly what I'd prefer. #gender
May 20, 2025 at 11:13 PM
onlyhomo
May 11, 2025 at 5:50 AM
As a young tot, I felt compelled to warn a young mother pushing her 2 y/o on the swing at a park, that they would go to hell if they weren't "saved by jesus christ". I was so concerned with other people's safety that as a 6 y/o I'd go up to complete strangers and ask them if they were saved.
May 9, 2025 at 7:46 PM
the base code
May 8, 2025 at 10:50 PM
"Spiritual Capitalism is my speciality." - daily life of the immortal king
May 1, 2025 at 4:19 AM
"The “bone collector” caterpillar species disguises itself with the body parts of dead insects so that it can live among spiders and poach their prey. This is the only caterpillar known to use such grisly camouflage or have spiders as roommates."

Image: Daniel Rubinoff et al. 2025
April 28, 2025 at 8:02 PM
Is there room in the shower for one more?
April 19, 2025 at 4:29 AM
In a twist of fate, one of the most destructive actions I have ever witnessed that was both self-harm and community harm has blossomed a beautiful new era that I could not be more excited and ecstatic for. It's a dream come true and aligns with my hopes for the future.
April 16, 2025 at 8:08 PM
May 2014 - April 2025

nearly 11 years of my life
April 5, 2025 at 7:15 AM
Been a unusual week, and the turning point I was looking for.
March 31, 2025 at 3:45 AM
current job: plumber, cleaner, electrician, financial manager, curator, security, grant writer, operations, graphic design, advertising, installer, consultant...idk I do it all, I promise anything else will be less than what I currently do.
March 17, 2025 at 3:10 AM
What's a moment of a mundane synchronicity that's happened for you?

One time, myself and four other employees as a cafe, did rock paper scissors over having to do the dishes. We collectively tied 5 times in a row, so the manager exclaimed she would do it cause clearly we weren't meant to.
March 10, 2025 at 7:44 PM
2025
March 9, 2025 at 9:44 AM
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the thing about being hurt by someone with clout in a community is their narrative dominates even if they were the abusive one. Without backup the abused get cast out and disappear into the background or just leave the community, and everyone else is none the wiser
March 7, 2025 at 11:41 PM