Bean
@xobeanxo.bsky.social
just for fun. minimaximalist. good soil.
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I wrote about this a bit in my last book but it really shakes me that a defining feature of this catastrophic era is that we just keep going to work. We work through pandemics, we work through natural disasters, we work through economic calamity, we work through coups, we work, we work, we work.
April 9, 2025 at 1:03 PM
I wrote about this a bit in my last book but it really shakes me that a defining feature of this catastrophic era is that we just keep going to work. We work through pandemics, we work through natural disasters, we work through economic calamity, we work through coups, we work, we work, we work.
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And 100/100 doesn't just mean finances, it means everything. True partnership, radical vulnerability, total effort.
Sometimes, one of you will be up and the other down, but if you're 100/100 you're both doing everything you can for each other, always.
Otherwise, in THESE times? You won't make it.
Sometimes, one of you will be up and the other down, but if you're 100/100 you're both doing everything you can for each other, always.
Otherwise, in THESE times? You won't make it.
April 3, 2025 at 8:02 PM
And 100/100 doesn't just mean finances, it means everything. True partnership, radical vulnerability, total effort.
Sometimes, one of you will be up and the other down, but if you're 100/100 you're both doing everything you can for each other, always.
Otherwise, in THESE times? You won't make it.
Sometimes, one of you will be up and the other down, but if you're 100/100 you're both doing everything you can for each other, always.
Otherwise, in THESE times? You won't make it.
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Playing games and taking half measures and trying to exploit power dynamics just means that you're not serious about anything to do with the relationship. You're trying to get something for yourself and it might work short term but that's it.
If you're SERIOUS, it's 100/100 or nothing.
If you're SERIOUS, it's 100/100 or nothing.
April 3, 2025 at 7:59 PM
Playing games and taking half measures and trying to exploit power dynamics just means that you're not serious about anything to do with the relationship. You're trying to get something for yourself and it might work short term but that's it.
If you're SERIOUS, it's 100/100 or nothing.
If you're SERIOUS, it's 100/100 or nothing.
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It's the 20s. If you want to be in a real relationship, a real PARTNERSHIP, in the REAL world... the only way it can work is if it's 100/100.
And that's not the same as 50/50. It's HARD out here for EVERYONE and if you're gonna make it with someone it'll take everything that you BOTH have to give.
And that's not the same as 50/50. It's HARD out here for EVERYONE and if you're gonna make it with someone it'll take everything that you BOTH have to give.
April 3, 2025 at 7:56 PM
It's the 20s. If you want to be in a real relationship, a real PARTNERSHIP, in the REAL world... the only way it can work is if it's 100/100.
And that's not the same as 50/50. It's HARD out here for EVERYONE and if you're gonna make it with someone it'll take everything that you BOTH have to give.
And that's not the same as 50/50. It's HARD out here for EVERYONE and if you're gonna make it with someone it'll take everything that you BOTH have to give.
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I love this little spot. The food is sooooo good and the bartenders are amazing. I can’t wait to go back.
February 15, 2025 at 1:00 PM
I love this little spot. The food is sooooo good and the bartenders are amazing. I can’t wait to go back.
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Just wait until I look how I’m really supposed to look.
December 23, 2024 at 8:59 PM
Just wait until I look how I’m really supposed to look.
a nice time was had. ♥️🍷
December 15, 2024 at 5:53 AM
a nice time was had. ♥️🍷
giving it my nothing today.
December 2, 2024 at 2:17 PM
giving it my nothing today.
ive been radiant all weekend long and feel the need to document. 🤭
December 1, 2024 at 3:35 AM
ive been radiant all weekend long and feel the need to document. 🤭
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😭😭😭😭😭
FUCK OSWALD OZ COBB and anybody who love him til infinity. matter fact, fuck corn on the cobb, cobblestone, cobb county, peach cobbler, cobb salad, cobwebs!
November 27, 2024 at 11:00 PM
😭😭😭😭😭
FUCK OSWALD OZ COBB and anybody who love him til infinity. matter fact, fuck corn on the cobb, cobblestone, cobb county, peach cobbler, cobb salad, cobwebs!
November 27, 2024 at 10:58 PM
FUCK OSWALD OZ COBB and anybody who love him til infinity. matter fact, fuck corn on the cobb, cobblestone, cobb county, peach cobbler, cobb salad, cobwebs!
“i demand to speak to a manager!”
November 25, 2024 at 10:35 PM
“i demand to speak to a manager!”
i’m curious. on average, how often do you talk on the phone with your friends? not text, talk via phone.
November 24, 2024 at 10:49 PM
i’m curious. on average, how often do you talk on the phone with your friends? not text, talk via phone.
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You can do what you want, but I don’t have to be forced to experience it.
November 22, 2024 at 9:11 AM
You can do what you want, but I don’t have to be forced to experience it.
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I don’t trust accounts on here with 6-7K followers already. You doing too much.
November 22, 2024 at 4:47 AM
I don’t trust accounts on here with 6-7K followers already. You doing too much.
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That upper right album is called Sharayet El Disco and it’s an Egyptian Disco compilation album that’s got some bangers! Including this one: open.spotify.com/track/0IykOF...
November 21, 2024 at 10:31 PM
That upper right album is called Sharayet El Disco and it’s an Egyptian Disco compilation album that’s got some bangers! Including this one: open.spotify.com/track/0IykOF...
skeets after dark? i thought we all came here to get out of the ghetto.
November 21, 2024 at 3:54 AM
skeets after dark? i thought we all came here to get out of the ghetto.
the african american urge to pronounce bluesky, “blueski” like druski.
November 19, 2024 at 5:50 PM
the african american urge to pronounce bluesky, “blueski” like druski.
making lasagna is a labor of love. ain’t nothing platonic about it, lmao.
November 18, 2024 at 10:50 PM
making lasagna is a labor of love. ain’t nothing platonic about it, lmao.