Also the real crux of the top/bottom/vers debates is personal desirability politics because people do shit for the people they want to. Yes, we all need to interrogate our preferences but most of these debates come from a mismatch between someone’s preferences and what is actually attainable.
Also the real crux of the top/bottom/vers debates is personal desirability politics because people do shit for the people they want to. Yes, we all need to interrogate our preferences but most of these debates come from a mismatch between someone’s preferences and what is actually attainable.
October 7, 2025 at 1:25 PM
Also the real crux of the top/bottom/vers debates is personal desirability politics because people do shit for the people they want to. Yes, we all need to interrogate our preferences but most of these debates come from a mismatch between someone’s preferences and what is actually attainable.