TerryEnby
@terryenby.bsky.social
They/Them
I’m AuDHD, have PTSD, and various disabilities. Nonbinary, bi/pan and aromantic. I am happily married with amazing kids. I like watercolours, crafting, playing with words, naps with Mako the dog, and playing BG3.
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I’m AuDHD, have PTSD, and various disabilities. Nonbinary, bi/pan and aromantic. I am happily married with amazing kids. I like watercolours, crafting, playing with words, naps with Mako the dog, and playing BG3.
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TerryEnby
@terryenby.bsky.social
· May 4
Hey lovely folks,
Just a reminder that regardless of my clothes/hair/makeup style I am still nonbinary. Please avoid gendered terms, especially feminine ones (eg. Woman/Girl/Lady/Sis etc.)
Thanks! 💜
(Pet names are usually fine though! If you want to clarify anything I’m happy to chat here or in DMs)
Just a reminder that regardless of my clothes/hair/makeup style I am still nonbinary. Please avoid gendered terms, especially feminine ones (eg. Woman/Girl/Lady/Sis etc.)
Thanks! 💜
(Pet names are usually fine though! If you want to clarify anything I’m happy to chat here or in DMs)
Despite everything, had the loveliest time with Small today, school holidays rock 🥰
And hubs and Eldest when they got home too. I’m so grateful for them all! 🥰
And hubs and Eldest when they got home too. I’m so grateful for them all! 🥰
February 17, 2026 at 9:55 PM
Despite everything, had the loveliest time with Small today, school holidays rock 🥰
And hubs and Eldest when they got home too. I’m so grateful for them all! 🥰
And hubs and Eldest when they got home too. I’m so grateful for them all! 🥰
Shitelink smashed their ferry port too hard and Redfail need to do “maintenance” so have cancelled 18 sailings…
At least the hovercraft still works presently?? 😬
www.countypress.co.uk/news/2586119...
At least the hovercraft still works presently?? 😬
www.countypress.co.uk/news/2586119...
Wightlink cancellations as port and ferry damaged during 'heavy berthing'
The Isle of Wight ferry operator says it is currently unable to load or unload vehicles or foot passengers on one of its routes.
www.countypress.co.uk
February 17, 2026 at 2:37 PM
Shitelink smashed their ferry port too hard and Redfail need to do “maintenance” so have cancelled 18 sailings…
At least the hovercraft still works presently?? 😬
www.countypress.co.uk/news/2586119...
At least the hovercraft still works presently?? 😬
www.countypress.co.uk/news/2586119...
Only I could damage my hand on hand cream 🫣🤣
The soft plastic crimp is apparently all my palm needed to split. Bloody EDS skin.
The soft plastic crimp is apparently all my palm needed to split. Bloody EDS skin.
February 17, 2026 at 1:14 PM
Only I could damage my hand on hand cream 🫣🤣
The soft plastic crimp is apparently all my palm needed to split. Bloody EDS skin.
The soft plastic crimp is apparently all my palm needed to split. Bloody EDS skin.
When life gets tough, book travel plans and arrange all the little fun details…
You could argue I’m sat up being unwell at gone 1am, but I’d argue I’m getting excited about a weekend trip with friends and comedy!
(Fuck you very much body).
You could argue I’m sat up being unwell at gone 1am, but I’d argue I’m getting excited about a weekend trip with friends and comedy!
(Fuck you very much body).
February 17, 2026 at 1:37 AM
When life gets tough, book travel plans and arrange all the little fun details…
You could argue I’m sat up being unwell at gone 1am, but I’d argue I’m getting excited about a weekend trip with friends and comedy!
(Fuck you very much body).
You could argue I’m sat up being unwell at gone 1am, but I’d argue I’m getting excited about a weekend trip with friends and comedy!
(Fuck you very much body).
Taken all the extra doses of antiemetics I can, hopefully they work soon 🤞 I just want to sleep.
Also, if anyone out there is a food scientist, can we invent more flavours for electrolytes?? Blackcurrant might be the best at hiding the saltiness, but there has to be a way to make cherry vanilla?
Also, if anyone out there is a food scientist, can we invent more flavours for electrolytes?? Blackcurrant might be the best at hiding the saltiness, but there has to be a way to make cherry vanilla?
February 16, 2026 at 11:20 PM
Taken all the extra doses of antiemetics I can, hopefully they work soon 🤞 I just want to sleep.
Also, if anyone out there is a food scientist, can we invent more flavours for electrolytes?? Blackcurrant might be the best at hiding the saltiness, but there has to be a way to make cherry vanilla?
Also, if anyone out there is a food scientist, can we invent more flavours for electrolytes?? Blackcurrant might be the best at hiding the saltiness, but there has to be a way to make cherry vanilla?
True to form, it seems my fever yet again precedes a nasty digestive flare.
This body can get in the sea.
Checking my application for head-in-a-jar status again.
This body can get in the sea.
Checking my application for head-in-a-jar status again.
a cartoon of a man 's head in a clear container
Alt: a cartoon of George Takei in a jar, he says “oh my!”. It’s from Futurama.
media.tenor.com
February 16, 2026 at 5:37 PM
True to form, it seems my fever yet again precedes a nasty digestive flare.
This body can get in the sea.
Checking my application for head-in-a-jar status again.
This body can get in the sea.
Checking my application for head-in-a-jar status again.
Just go leaves and a load of details to stitch!
February 15, 2026 at 9:47 PM
Just go leaves and a load of details to stitch!
Guess what my brain needed to do today!
February 15, 2026 at 5:51 PM
Guess what my brain needed to do today!
Don’t settle for anyone who doesn’t look at you the way Mako looks at the hand she has decided to lick.
She isn’t a very licky dog, but occasionally she will grab you with both paws
She isn’t a very licky dog, but occasionally she will grab you with both paws
February 15, 2026 at 11:45 AM
Don’t settle for anyone who doesn’t look at you the way Mako looks at the hand she has decided to lick.
She isn’t a very licky dog, but occasionally she will grab you with both paws
She isn’t a very licky dog, but occasionally she will grab you with both paws
Snapped two needles, had to cut a thread early cos I was a bleeding nuisance… but it’s getting there slowly!!
Will finish the mouse, then dagger&acorn, then the oak leaves!
Will finish the mouse, then dagger&acorn, then the oak leaves!
February 15, 2026 at 12:36 AM
Snapped two needles, had to cut a thread early cos I was a bleeding nuisance… but it’s getting there slowly!!
Will finish the mouse, then dagger&acorn, then the oak leaves!
Will finish the mouse, then dagger&acorn, then the oak leaves!
I don’t really get romance, I’m not adverse to it, it’s just kind of confusing. Like a secret third thing that other people get somewhere between platonic adoration and lust? 🤷🏻
I definitely understand loneliness though 🫂 💜 sending anyone who wants them virtual hugs and DMs 💜🫂
I definitely understand loneliness though 🫂 💜 sending anyone who wants them virtual hugs and DMs 💜🫂
February 14, 2026 at 2:08 PM
I don’t really get romance, I’m not adverse to it, it’s just kind of confusing. Like a secret third thing that other people get somewhere between platonic adoration and lust? 🤷🏻
I definitely understand loneliness though 🫂 💜 sending anyone who wants them virtual hugs and DMs 💜🫂
I definitely understand loneliness though 🫂 💜 sending anyone who wants them virtual hugs and DMs 💜🫂
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TWITCH PEEPS - We're back tonight with a Community Phasmo Valentine's Special! 7.30 PM GMT - twitch.tv/devilligan
February 14, 2026 at 1:02 PM
TWITCH PEEPS - We're back tonight with a Community Phasmo Valentine's Special! 7.30 PM GMT - twitch.tv/devilligan
It’s sunny!! And I’m outside!!
(Wearing lots of suncream, don’t worry. I already learned from getting sunburn in February previously).
(Wearing lots of suncream, don’t worry. I already learned from getting sunburn in February previously).
February 14, 2026 at 12:04 PM
It’s sunny!! And I’m outside!!
(Wearing lots of suncream, don’t worry. I already learned from getting sunburn in February previously).
(Wearing lots of suncream, don’t worry. I already learned from getting sunburn in February previously).
Well, now I can’t even escape??
February 14, 2026 at 10:56 AM
Well, now I can’t even escape??
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Correction, this will start at 8.30 PM GMT!
Hey folks, just to let you know that Neil and I are doing a Divinity stream tonight! I think it's mostly likely to start at 8.45 PM GMT. He just hasn't posted about it yet because he's been running around all day!
February 13, 2026 at 6:27 PM
Correction, this will start at 8.30 PM GMT!
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Hey folks, just to let you know that Neil and I are doing a Divinity stream tonight! I think it's mostly likely to start at 8.45 PM GMT. He just hasn't posted about it yet because he's been running around all day!
February 13, 2026 at 5:59 PM
Hey folks, just to let you know that Neil and I are doing a Divinity stream tonight! I think it's mostly likely to start at 8.45 PM GMT. He just hasn't posted about it yet because he's been running around all day!
Got BG3 to load, as soon as I messaged Larian support it started working... 🤣
February 13, 2026 at 5:54 PM
Got BG3 to load, as soon as I messaged Larian support it started working... 🤣
Slept most of the day away with a fever. BG3 won’t load despite reinstalling and verifying the files.
But at least it’s half term so I get extra hugs from Small for the next week 🥰
But at least it’s half term so I get extra hugs from Small for the next week 🥰
February 13, 2026 at 5:24 PM
Slept most of the day away with a fever. BG3 won’t load despite reinstalling and verifying the files.
But at least it’s half term so I get extra hugs from Small for the next week 🥰
But at least it’s half term so I get extra hugs from Small for the next week 🥰
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It announces:
Heavy restrictions on any social transition (which in any case would be very limited, see above).
Social transition to be hardly ever allowed at primary school.
Heavily pushed under psychological scrutiny.
Supportive parents deemed suspect & linked to need for safeguarding.
Heavy restrictions on any social transition (which in any case would be very limited, see above).
Social transition to be hardly ever allowed at primary school.
Heavily pushed under psychological scrutiny.
Supportive parents deemed suspect & linked to need for safeguarding.
February 12, 2026 at 5:50 PM
It announces:
Heavy restrictions on any social transition (which in any case would be very limited, see above).
Social transition to be hardly ever allowed at primary school.
Heavily pushed under psychological scrutiny.
Supportive parents deemed suspect & linked to need for safeguarding.
Heavy restrictions on any social transition (which in any case would be very limited, see above).
Social transition to be hardly ever allowed at primary school.
Heavily pushed under psychological scrutiny.
Supportive parents deemed suspect & linked to need for safeguarding.
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Trans folk and allies, flood this. It won’t stop them doing irreparable damage to trans kids in schools but in twenty years when this gets studied we’ll be able to say they knew the consequences and how poorly received it was.
consult.education.gov.uk/independent-...
consult.education.gov.uk/independent-...
Keeping children safe in education: 2026 proposed revisions
- Department for Education
- Citizen Space
Find and participate in consultations run by the Department for Education
consult.education.gov.uk
February 12, 2026 at 5:00 PM
Trans folk and allies, flood this. It won’t stop them doing irreparable damage to trans kids in schools but in twenty years when this gets studied we’ll be able to say they knew the consequences and how poorly received it was.
consult.education.gov.uk/independent-...
consult.education.gov.uk/independent-...
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New School Guidance announces:
Full bathroom ban.
Full PE ban.
Full school trip accommodation ban.
Trans kids will not go to the bathroom, do PE or go on any school trips. 1/
Full bathroom ban.
Full PE ban.
Full school trip accommodation ban.
Trans kids will not go to the bathroom, do PE or go on any school trips. 1/
February 12, 2026 at 5:48 PM
New School Guidance announces:
Full bathroom ban.
Full PE ban.
Full school trip accommodation ban.
Trans kids will not go to the bathroom, do PE or go on any school trips. 1/
Full bathroom ban.
Full PE ban.
Full school trip accommodation ban.
Trans kids will not go to the bathroom, do PE or go on any school trips. 1/
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Right, I have a week left to make rent, counting today, and that's the first goal. (Second is dealing with various emergencies.)
I have 23 different pendants up for grabs, all wrapped and ready to travel:
oishiny.etsy.com
Go on, grab yourself some magic.
#Handmade #DisabledArtist #ShopIndie
I have 23 different pendants up for grabs, all wrapped and ready to travel:
oishiny.etsy.com
Go on, grab yourself some magic.
#Handmade #DisabledArtist #ShopIndie
February 12, 2026 at 1:59 PM
Right, I have a week left to make rent, counting today, and that's the first goal. (Second is dealing with various emergencies.)
I have 23 different pendants up for grabs, all wrapped and ready to travel:
oishiny.etsy.com
Go on, grab yourself some magic.
#Handmade #DisabledArtist #ShopIndie
I have 23 different pendants up for grabs, all wrapped and ready to travel:
oishiny.etsy.com
Go on, grab yourself some magic.
#Handmade #DisabledArtist #ShopIndie
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Looking for a way to unwind? These pendants are carefully wrapped so that you can spin the stone in place, perfect for fidgeting and stimming on the go.
oishiny.etsy.com/listing/1604...
#Handmade #Stim #Fidget
oishiny.etsy.com/listing/1604...
#Handmade #Stim #Fidget
February 11, 2026 at 6:32 PM
Looking for a way to unwind? These pendants are carefully wrapped so that you can spin the stone in place, perfect for fidgeting and stimming on the go.
oishiny.etsy.com/listing/1604...
#Handmade #Stim #Fidget
oishiny.etsy.com/listing/1604...
#Handmade #Stim #Fidget
Teen Tune of the day: Queenadreena Drink Me
February 11, 2026 at 4:53 PM
Teen Tune of the day: Queenadreena Drink Me
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The very existence (let alone the wording) of this consultation is an outrage, but please fill it in anyway, it doesn't take long.
PS. Not too late to tell the government what you think about their proposed changes to Indefinite Leave to Remain - the public consultation is open until 12th Feb.
www.gov.uk/government/c...
www.gov.uk/government/c...
February 10, 2026 at 10:54 AM
The very existence (let alone the wording) of this consultation is an outrage, but please fill it in anyway, it doesn't take long.