tay mabelitini
@taymabelitini.bsky.social
30. trying to love this life, in spite of my clenched fist. incurably clumsy. claire saffitz fan club. @taymabelitini everywhere it matters. she/her. rigatoni’s mom 🐈⬛
gonna need a private threads account and QUICKLY
September 15, 2025 at 9:55 PM
gonna need a private threads account and QUICKLY
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“Refusing to harden your heart is a radical act.” — @artofmarza.bsky.social
It’s hard to stand in the face of a movement that hates empathy and respond with… empathy. It’s hard to counter cruelty with compassion. But that’s the way forward.
If I become like my enemy, my enemy has won.
It’s hard to stand in the face of a movement that hates empathy and respond with… empathy. It’s hard to counter cruelty with compassion. But that’s the way forward.
If I become like my enemy, my enemy has won.
As humans we find “Love your enemies” to be one of Jesus’s hardest commands. And for us, it *is* very hard.
But I wonder if this was a command Jesus gave in the same tone as a parent saying “Don’t drink drain cleaner,” and for a similar reason.
But I wonder if this was a command Jesus gave in the same tone as a parent saying “Don’t drink drain cleaner,” and for a similar reason.
September 11, 2025 at 12:48 PM
“Refusing to harden your heart is a radical act.” — @artofmarza.bsky.social
It’s hard to stand in the face of a movement that hates empathy and respond with… empathy. It’s hard to counter cruelty with compassion. But that’s the way forward.
If I become like my enemy, my enemy has won.
It’s hard to stand in the face of a movement that hates empathy and respond with… empathy. It’s hard to counter cruelty with compassion. But that’s the way forward.
If I become like my enemy, my enemy has won.
whiskey breath, titties out, stupid in love, this is a country song right
September 7, 2025 at 4:42 AM
whiskey breath, titties out, stupid in love, this is a country song right
max just saw me tipsy belt-shout natasha bedingfield’s unwritten at top volume in this bar so yes i do think he is in fact in love with me
September 7, 2025 at 4:41 AM
max just saw me tipsy belt-shout natasha bedingfield’s unwritten at top volume in this bar so yes i do think he is in fact in love with me
big fan of the woman next to me at this baseball game doing the nyt crossword and reading her e-book
September 6, 2025 at 12:35 AM
big fan of the woman next to me at this baseball game doing the nyt crossword and reading her e-book
hey siri why am i like, devastatingly bummed for no discernible reason
September 5, 2025 at 12:04 AM
hey siri why am i like, devastatingly bummed for no discernible reason
trading in my overly expensive lease today for a used car from 2013 and feeling like that one meme of nicole kidman after her divorce
August 30, 2025 at 8:23 PM
trading in my overly expensive lease today for a used car from 2013 and feeling like that one meme of nicole kidman after her divorce
sure I talk about it online a lot but max literally accidentally calls me his wife so delulu i am not
August 26, 2025 at 7:02 PM
sure I talk about it online a lot but max literally accidentally calls me his wife so delulu i am not
can’t believe i’m getting married the same year as Taylor Swift (presumably)
August 26, 2025 at 7:01 PM
can’t believe i’m getting married the same year as Taylor Swift (presumably)
do you think the conservatives would lose it if i told them that every time i remove the background from an employee’s headshot and then save it the file name is “[NAME]-trans” or like
August 22, 2025 at 6:46 PM
do you think the conservatives would lose it if i told them that every time i remove the background from an employee’s headshot and then save it the file name is “[NAME]-trans” or like
do i think that being a maid of honor a year before i get married is good for me? yes. do i also think it’s going to drive me fucking bonkers and make me want to elope. yes
August 21, 2025 at 5:51 PM
do i think that being a maid of honor a year before i get married is good for me? yes. do i also think it’s going to drive me fucking bonkers and make me want to elope. yes
still can’t figure out if the place to be is here on bluesky, or threads, or even back on twitter, and at this point i’m too tired to
August 19, 2025 at 5:43 PM
still can’t figure out if the place to be is here on bluesky, or threads, or even back on twitter, and at this point i’m too tired to
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captioning a post “credit to the artist” without actually tagging or naming the artist is not the move, hope this helps
August 19, 2025 at 1:13 PM
captioning a post “credit to the artist” without actually tagging or naming the artist is not the move, hope this helps
being single sucks sometimes. it really does. but you have to learn to enjoy your own company and love spending time alone at least a little bit or else you will go mad even when you find a person because you can’t give them space without losing yourself or crashing out
August 19, 2025 at 2:00 AM
being single sucks sometimes. it really does. but you have to learn to enjoy your own company and love spending time alone at least a little bit or else you will go mad even when you find a person because you can’t give them space without losing yourself or crashing out
as someone who was single for like, nine years, and only dated for like four of those years before finding a boyfriend, i would like to take every person who can’t be single and enjoy their own company for even a week by both of their shoulders and shake them while screeching like a barn owl
August 19, 2025 at 1:27 AM
as someone who was single for like, nine years, and only dated for like four of those years before finding a boyfriend, i would like to take every person who can’t be single and enjoy their own company for even a week by both of their shoulders and shake them while screeching like a barn owl
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it’s me ya girl making a short story long
August 14, 2025 at 9:12 PM
it’s me ya girl making a short story long
finally living up to my italian heritage by shouting into the phone on a street corner in broad daylight
August 13, 2025 at 6:13 PM
finally living up to my italian heritage by shouting into the phone on a street corner in broad daylight
I have had a really hard time being a person lately, and tonight I made myself both dinner and lunch for tomorrow using Trader Joe’s frozen stuff plus some fresh shredded beef from Kroger. But mostly frozen stuff. so if you have to use the frozen stuff to make sure you eat vegetables: do it
August 13, 2025 at 1:37 AM
I have had a really hard time being a person lately, and tonight I made myself both dinner and lunch for tomorrow using Trader Joe’s frozen stuff plus some fresh shredded beef from Kroger. But mostly frozen stuff. so if you have to use the frozen stuff to make sure you eat vegetables: do it
one year of us ♥️
how it started / how it’s going
how it started / how it’s going
August 10, 2025 at 3:14 AM
one year of us ♥️
how it started / how it’s going
how it started / how it’s going
nothing like waiting far too long to diy your concert outfit and then it still being sopping wet in the dryer when it’s time to go and having to come up with an equally cool outfit in five minutes
August 9, 2025 at 11:15 PM
nothing like waiting far too long to diy your concert outfit and then it still being sopping wet in the dryer when it’s time to go and having to come up with an equally cool outfit in five minutes
“tay how is it a surprise if you know about it”
i am frustratingly curious and have spent the last nine years plus planning my own birthday parties so if he didn’t admit they were planning something i would have tried to do it myself so i know the party is *happening* but i know none of the details
i am frustratingly curious and have spent the last nine years plus planning my own birthday parties so if he didn’t admit they were planning something i would have tried to do it myself so i know the party is *happening* but i know none of the details
August 8, 2025 at 7:58 PM
“tay how is it a surprise if you know about it”
i am frustratingly curious and have spent the last nine years plus planning my own birthday parties so if he didn’t admit they were planning something i would have tried to do it myself so i know the party is *happening* but i know none of the details
i am frustratingly curious and have spent the last nine years plus planning my own birthday parties so if he didn’t admit they were planning something i would have tried to do it myself so i know the party is *happening* but i know none of the details
last year I slid into a man’s DMs on my birthday to admit I thought he was cute and this year he lives in the same state as me and has spent the last month planning a surprise birthday party for me with my best friend. so. love is out there
August 8, 2025 at 7:56 PM
last year I slid into a man’s DMs on my birthday to admit I thought he was cute and this year he lives in the same state as me and has spent the last month planning a surprise birthday party for me with my best friend. so. love is out there
i know i’ve hit 30 because i just had the thought “i could fuck up a salad bar right now”
August 7, 2025 at 8:07 PM
i know i’ve hit 30 because i just had the thought “i could fuck up a salad bar right now”
it is 3pm. I dropped my car off at 8am to the dealership to be looked at and I am now deeply anxious I ruined it, it broke it, or something. they close in three hours and I don’t know if I’ll have a car because it started struggling to accelerate on the highway. I am so stressed
August 5, 2025 at 6:59 PM
it is 3pm. I dropped my car off at 8am to the dealership to be looked at and I am now deeply anxious I ruined it, it broke it, or something. they close in three hours and I don’t know if I’ll have a car because it started struggling to accelerate on the highway. I am so stressed