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ArJay Barrera
@talkn3rdy2me.bsky.social
Allow me to reintroduce myself...

Avid reader of books, both comic and otherwise. Proud girl dad to one Swiftie and one pound puppy. I’m a little bit country, and a whole lotta rock & roll.

🤘 Hook ‘Em
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I realized something this morning.

It’s not just what the day brings you. It’s also what you bring the day. It can’t be just one or the other.

Passive with no control. Or frustrated and angry that the world doesn’t follow your plans.

It’s a push and pull. It’s both.
Been nearly 24 years since the accident that claimed Aaliyah’s life. I think a lot of her final album still sounds current. That’s a rarity.

Her 2001 self-titled LP set the bar. High.

That’s a testament to the magic that Timbaland, Static Major, and Aaliyah had. Wish they had more time together.
May 8, 2025 at 2:05 PM
When ppl ask how old I am, I’m gonna start showing them this picture.

#olderthanmicrowaveablepopcorn
February 27, 2025 at 5:31 PM
Seventeen Years. That’s a long time between ink sessions.
February 27, 2025 at 3:03 PM
You think our retirement homes are gonna be refurbished malls? And we spend all day playing at the arcade, eating corndogs, and buying stupid shit from Spencer's. But at the end of the day, the workers put all the stuff back and we just Groundhog Day until we join the Great Showbiz Pizza in the Sky?
February 21, 2025 at 2:50 PM
“The wound is the place where the Light enters you.” – Rumi
February 9, 2025 at 7:43 PM
Currently Spinning - “Only the Strong Survive” by Jerry Butler

Thank you Ice Man.
February 6, 2025 at 2:40 PM
I realized something this morning.

It’s not just what the day brings you. It’s also what you bring the day. It can’t be just one or the other.

Passive with no control. Or frustrated and angry that the world doesn’t follow your plans.

It’s a push and pull. It’s both.
February 5, 2025 at 4:57 PM
Currently Reading - The Secret History by Donna Tartt

It’s been a long time since I’ve laughed at loud while reading. Tartt is able to bend and stretch words in a way that is lyrical.

I’ve had to stop many, many times and re-read parts just bc it was so damn good.
January 17, 2025 at 1:20 PM
Jaydon. BMF. Blue.

#HookEm  | #CFBPlayoff
December 22, 2024 at 12:29 AM
Beautiful day for a playoff game.

#HookEm  | #CFBPlayoff
December 21, 2024 at 3:32 PM
Does anyone have any experience or insights into the Tough Guys Book Club?

There’s a new Dallas chapter being established, and I’m interested in checking it out.

But I have neither the time nor the interest in joining any more cults at the moment.
December 20, 2024 at 9:30 PM
December 20, 2024 at 4:14 PM
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Here you go: the #Superman trailer.
Krypto, take us home.

youtu.be/uhUht6vAsMY?...
Superman | Official Teaser Trailer
YouTube video by DC
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December 19, 2024 at 4:19 PM
Currently Reading - Zia Summer by Rudolfo Anaya

Thank you @marcofinnegan.bsky.social for putting this on my radar.

“You can’t kill a tree and not kill the past.”

Such a profound message in such a short sentence.
December 20, 2024 at 12:57 PM
Just heard an *interesting* old Christmas song.

I'd post the link, but I'm afraid to google "Back Door Santa"
December 6, 2024 at 3:03 PM
Currently Spinning - Better Lovers

As much as I love DEP, Killer Be Killed, and The Black Queen, I feel like Better Lovers might be my favorite project from Greg Puciato.

IMO, “At All Times” can only be born from pain of growth. Of rediscovering the light after wandering through the darkness.
December 4, 2024 at 5:12 PM
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Fans of late '90s/early 2000s post-hardcore & metalcore, take note: Poison The Well are playing 'The Opposite of December' on tour with Glassjaw and ETID/DEP supergroup Better Lovers www.brooklynvegan.com/poison-the-w...
Poison The Well announce 'Opposite of December' tour with Glassjaw & Better Lovers
Well here's an amazing tour for fans of late '90s / early 2000s post-hardcore and metalcore. Poison The Well are celebrating the 25th anniversary of their classic late-1999 debut album, and they'll be...
www.brooklynvegan.com
December 3, 2024 at 5:51 PM
Currently Reading - We Called Them Giants by @kierongillen.bsky.social @stephaniehans.bsky.social @claytoncowles.bsky.social

I couldn’t stop staring at this cover at my LCS. I’ve only read through once, but this book completely stopped me in my tracks.

It’s unsettling in the best possible way.
December 3, 2024 at 3:09 AM
The Mel Robbins podcast has the capacity to change lives.

But this episode in particular with Dr. Gabor Maté, also has the capacity to save them.

Thank you @melrobbins.bsky.social | @melrobbinspodcast.bsky.social
November 23, 2024 at 5:28 PM
Currently Reading - The Giver by Lois Lowry

My daughter is reading this for school, and I’ve picked up a copy to read along with her.

I don’t know how I managed to miss out on this book. I didn’t know what to expect, but Lowry’s universe resonates strongly with where we seem to be headed.
November 18, 2024 at 3:32 PM
Thinking of making some bumper stickers…thoughts?
November 17, 2024 at 9:33 PM