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S. Bechtold
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Try love it costs less than hate and gets more positive outcomes per day. Abundance is free and is available in the shareable size. You can keep it all for yourself but therapy can help with hoarding. I generally ignore DMs
Trust those patterns. Patterns always win out over promises.
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November 19, 2025 at 1:19 AM
I am so grateful that I live in New Mexico. We may not be rich. We may not be fancy. But, on the whole, we care about each other and treasure our cultural variety. That free childcare thing is awesome too. Love each other. We're all we got.
November 18, 2025 at 12:46 AM
Where Do The Kids Hang Out?

I'm in search of 3rd spaces. Throughout my life, I stumbled into, rather than navigated towards, places where we could gather en masse without the requirements to either pay admission or to be a member of a community. One of the primary draws to a 3rd space was…
Where Do The Kids Hang Out?
I'm in search of 3rd spaces. Throughout my life, I stumbled into, rather than navigated towards, places where we could gather en masse without the requirements to either pay admission or to be a member of a community. One of the primary draws to a 3rd space was accessibility. If I could walk there, that was the best. If it took a bike ride, it had to have a specific draw.
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November 18, 2025 at 12:39 AM
They're low-balling us. I know that my freedom is much more valuable than a steak, or some bananas. The coffee? Flip's Farm Coffee helps so many and it's not imported! I was pretty sure the beef prices were a pressure campaign waged by Chick-fil-A and KFC. 😜🤭 Happy Sunday!
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November 16, 2025 at 7:39 PM
If everywhere we turn appears to be a wall, it's probably time to sit down and take a few. Maybe it's time to plant some flowers where we are. Bad days only last just as long as the good days but they both go better with music and a story. www.youtube.com/watch?v=KhTe...
[MV] 마마무(MAMAMOO) - HIP
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November 16, 2025 at 2:58 AM
Because it's Friday and we can't let the world steal the joy from our hearts. Good night. www.youtube.com/watch?v=VbD_...
David Bowie - Let's Dance (Official Video)
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November 15, 2025 at 5:11 AM
Traffic & Tides

Photo by Marc Cooper- Flickr, Leo Carrillo Beach, CA Where would I live, out of a million possibilities? As a lifelong wanderer, I'd like to go home. We can't go home they say. They're wrong. But my home is not a house, a street, or even a town. My home is on the edges of the…
Traffic & Tides
Photo by Marc Cooper- Flickr, Leo Carrillo Beach, CA Where would I live, out of a million possibilities? As a lifelong wanderer, I'd like to go home. We can't go home they say. They're wrong. But my home is not a house, a street, or even a town. My home is on the edges of the ever-changing ocean.
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November 14, 2025 at 8:38 PM
Innocence is not defined by an age. Merriam-Webster definition of innocence: 'the quality of not having much experience of life and not knowing about the bad things that happen in life'. But once lost, it is gone forever.
November 14, 2025 at 1:35 AM
Empathy is not a sin. Kindness matters. Generosity is a superpower.
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November 13, 2025 at 4:13 AM
The Sermon At The Table

The twins would say an entire homily before a meal. Every single meal would get cold on our plates and the hot coffee would lose its steam before we could say Amen and eat. But this only happened when they were back home. I don't know how their parish in Taiwan fared at…
The Sermon At The Table
The twins would say an entire homily before a meal. Every single meal would get cold on our plates and the hot coffee would lose its steam before we could say Amen and eat. But this only happened when they were back home. I don't know how their parish in Taiwan fared at breakfast, lunch and dinner. When we gathered together as a family, our blessings for the year were replete.
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November 12, 2025 at 5:52 PM
When my girls were toddlers, telling them that bedtime was 7 but not making them go to bed at 7 taught them that they should test ALL the rules. If we make a rule, we need to be very careful and keep it. We know better than to make commitments we won't, or can't, keep. Right?
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November 11, 2025 at 7:28 PM
11/11

"I've seen things you people wouldn't believe. Attack ships on fire off the shoulder of Orion. I watched C-beams glitter in the dark near the Tannhauser gate. All those moments will be lost in time… like tears in rain… Time to die." - Batty, Blade Runner - Rutger Hauer "Cry ‘Havoc!’ and let…
11/11
"I've seen things you people wouldn't believe. Attack ships on fire off the shoulder of Orion. I watched C-beams glitter in the dark near the Tannhauser gate. All those moments will be lost in time… like tears in rain… Time to die." - Batty, Blade Runner - Rutger Hauer "Cry ‘Havoc!’ and let slip the dogs of war" - Marc Antony, Julius Caesar - William Shakespeare…
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November 11, 2025 at 6:17 PM
Good night Bluesky friends. There's an opportunity to create a better day tomorrow. So rest up! 💙
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November 11, 2025 at 6:27 AM
“Always choose silence with liars, cheaters, cowards or spineless people.
Don't ask them any kind of questions, you don't have to give them any kind of answers or explanations.

Ignore, avoid, stay away.”
― Jyoti Patel
*and don't ever hand them the mic
November 11, 2025 at 1:58 AM
How Could They?

When people disappoint us. “He had the look of one who had drunk the cup of life and found a dead beetle at the bottom.”― P.G. Wodehouse Whether they're politicians or salesmen there's not a lot left unsaid about how their proffered expectations rarely survive the next dawn. Yet…
How Could They?
When people disappoint us. “He had the look of one who had drunk the cup of life and found a dead beetle at the bottom.”― P.G. Wodehouse Whether they're politicians or salesmen there's not a lot left unsaid about how their proffered expectations rarely survive the next dawn. Yet they charm us time and time again and we let the lessons of the past go to embrace that fuzzy, warm glow of hope springing anew.
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November 10, 2025 at 7:35 PM
If someone falls and we offer a hand to lift them up, but we don't check to make sure they're healthy enough to keep walking we did nothing to help them. We simply changed their location. A starving person doesn't become well-fed with one meal. A poor person isn't newly rich with 1000$ on their EBT.
November 9, 2025 at 8:28 PM
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Who is with me and will NOT Give Away Our Shot to Save America’s Livability, Civil Rights, Housing Security, Food Security, Voting Rights, Immigrant Rights, OUR Children’s Rights, Public Education, Women’s Rights & Democracy? America’s Children Need US! youtu.be/Fb4GlOabb1M?... go.bsky.app/6AXWsxz
November 8, 2025 at 9:56 PM
If I may If I might wish this wish tonight, I wish _____________.💙🕊️🙏🍞
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November 8, 2025 at 9:30 PM
As someone who made and served samples in Costco, don't mess with someone's food and never tell them they can't have another serving. There is no fury like the fury of the hangry. The last bit of pizza or a tiny fresh brownie has nearly led to a public brawl. (times 42 Million people?)
November 8, 2025 at 1:29 AM
Knitting A Life With Stories

Illustration by Kay Nielsen - Norway 1914 There's a story for everything. When I feel that I just can't make it through another day because my world has gone so utterly wrong I remember Joe Bonham. “He thought if I never have anything else I will always have dawn and…
Knitting A Life With Stories
Illustration by Kay Nielsen - Norway 1914 There's a story for everything. When I feel that I just can't make it through another day because my world has gone so utterly wrong I remember Joe Bonham. “He thought if I never have anything else I will always have dawn and morning sunlight.” - Dalton Trumbo, Johnny Got His Gun This was only a thought since he had no mouth with which to speak.
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November 7, 2025 at 7:05 PM