Sally
@sallyl23.bsky.social
Illuminating. How #narcissism / emotional immaturity cause harm via:
1) the false self
2) a one-up, one-down dynamic
3) antagonistic attachment styles (involving predation & parasitism, usually only seen *between* species, & competition)
Understanding = scope for healing
blubrry.com/wakinguptona...
1) the false self
2) a one-up, one-down dynamic
3) antagonistic attachment styles (involving predation & parasitism, usually only seen *between* species, & competition)
Understanding = scope for healing
blubrry.com/wakinguptona...
Your Pain, Their Power: How Narcissists Feed on Relationships
blubrry.com
November 16, 2025 at 6:32 PM
Illuminating. How #narcissism / emotional immaturity cause harm via:
1) the false self
2) a one-up, one-down dynamic
3) antagonistic attachment styles (involving predation & parasitism, usually only seen *between* species, & competition)
Understanding = scope for healing
blubrry.com/wakinguptona...
1) the false self
2) a one-up, one-down dynamic
3) antagonistic attachment styles (involving predation & parasitism, usually only seen *between* species, & competition)
Understanding = scope for healing
blubrry.com/wakinguptona...
Beautiful 😍
Indigenous Women Behind the Lens
From @amazonfrontlines.bsky.social
amazonfrontlines.org/chronicles/i...
#photography #indigenouswomen #indigenousresistance #UpperAmazon #Amazon
Indigenous Women Behind the Lens
From @amazonfrontlines.bsky.social
amazonfrontlines.org/chronicles/i...
#photography #indigenouswomen #indigenousresistance #UpperAmazon #Amazon
Indigenous Women Behind the Lens - Amazon Frontlines
Indigenous Women Behind the Lens A visual journey through photography workshops with land defenders in...
amazonfrontlines.org
November 4, 2025 at 12:46 PM
Beautiful 😍
Indigenous Women Behind the Lens
From @amazonfrontlines.bsky.social
amazonfrontlines.org/chronicles/i...
#photography #indigenouswomen #indigenousresistance #UpperAmazon #Amazon
Indigenous Women Behind the Lens
From @amazonfrontlines.bsky.social
amazonfrontlines.org/chronicles/i...
#photography #indigenouswomen #indigenousresistance #UpperAmazon #Amazon
🥺❤️
November 3, 2025 at 10:26 AM
🥺❤️
Righteous anger 🎉👏
"I DON'T NEED YOU TO FUCKING REWRITE WHAT I'VE JUST WRITTEN!"
October 29, 2025 at 12:24 PM
Righteous anger 🎉👏
Has anything changed* since this project in 2018? (*For the better, I mean...)
www.bbc.co.uk/news/enterta...
www.bbc.co.uk/news/enterta...
100 Women: The artist redrawing 'sexist' comic book covers
An artist in India is challenging sexist drawings of women in comic books, by reimaging male heroes.
www.bbc.co.uk
October 27, 2025 at 6:22 PM
Has anything changed* since this project in 2018? (*For the better, I mean...)
www.bbc.co.uk/news/enterta...
www.bbc.co.uk/news/enterta...
Really interesting. Comparison of healthy narcissism vs the distorted, unconscious sort that is on track to kill life on earth. In other words, what happens when we wind up...
* mirror-hungry
* ideal-hungry
* twinship-hungry
* merger-hungry or
* contact-shunning
depthcounseling.org/blog/ngiam-n...
* mirror-hungry
* ideal-hungry
* twinship-hungry
* merger-hungry or
* contact-shunning
depthcounseling.org/blog/ngiam-n...
Narcissism: Heinz Kohut’s Thoughts on Self-Love- Depth Counseling
Jessica Ngiam discusses Heinz Kohut's views on the importance of narcissism in self-development, and the consequences of insufficient care during childhood.
depthcounseling.org
October 24, 2025 at 9:45 AM
Really interesting. Comparison of healthy narcissism vs the distorted, unconscious sort that is on track to kill life on earth. In other words, what happens when we wind up...
* mirror-hungry
* ideal-hungry
* twinship-hungry
* merger-hungry or
* contact-shunning
depthcounseling.org/blog/ngiam-n...
* mirror-hungry
* ideal-hungry
* twinship-hungry
* merger-hungry or
* contact-shunning
depthcounseling.org/blog/ngiam-n...
'The Warren offers a safe space for young men to discuss their emotions, express their fears & difficulties without being judged, and find a new community where they are valued for who they are, not for how they can be exploited'
#extremism #misogyny #youngmen
www.opendemocracy.net/en/youth-wor...
#extremism #misogyny #youngmen
www.opendemocracy.net/en/youth-wor...
The former fire station fighting far-right radicalisation
Hull, a once busy port city in northern England that now faces high unemployment, is a key target for the far right
www.opendemocracy.net
October 21, 2025 at 5:28 PM
'The Warren offers a safe space for young men to discuss their emotions, express their fears & difficulties without being judged, and find a new community where they are valued for who they are, not for how they can be exploited'
#extremism #misogyny #youngmen
www.opendemocracy.net/en/youth-wor...
#extremism #misogyny #youngmen
www.opendemocracy.net/en/youth-wor...
BREAKING NEWS: Earth has passed its first climate tipping point
'The race is on to bring forward... positive tipping points [through climate action] to avoid what we are now sure will be the unmanageable consequences of further tipping points in the Earth system'
www.theguardian.com/environment/...
'The race is on to bring forward... positive tipping points [through climate action] to avoid what we are now sure will be the unmanageable consequences of further tipping points in the Earth system'
www.theguardian.com/environment/...
Planet’s first catastrophic climate tipping point reached, report says, with coral reefs facing ‘widespread dieback’
Unless global heating is reduced to 1.2C ‘as fast as possible’, warm water coral reefs will not remain ‘at any meaningful scale’, a report by 160 scientists from 23 countries warns
www.theguardian.com
October 14, 2025 at 7:35 AM
BREAKING NEWS: Earth has passed its first climate tipping point
'The race is on to bring forward... positive tipping points [through climate action] to avoid what we are now sure will be the unmanageable consequences of further tipping points in the Earth system'
www.theguardian.com/environment/...
'The race is on to bring forward... positive tipping points [through climate action] to avoid what we are now sure will be the unmanageable consequences of further tipping points in the Earth system'
www.theguardian.com/environment/...
Reposted by Sally
📚✍️ For author C. E. Gatchalian, Anne Shirley embodies resistance. Born into a society that preferred boys, Anne offers an imaginative counterworld - one of beauty, transcendence, and creative defiance.
October 5, 2025 at 3:36 PM
📚✍️ For author C. E. Gatchalian, Anne Shirley embodies resistance. Born into a society that preferred boys, Anne offers an imaginative counterworld - one of beauty, transcendence, and creative defiance.
RIP Jane Goodall 😢
I remember being inspired by reading about her when I was a young child - by which time she was already eminent! She certainly put her many years to good use ❤️
I remember being inspired by reading about her when I was a young child - by which time she was already eminent! She certainly put her many years to good use ❤️
Jane Goodall was not only a pioneering primatologist, she also campaigned more relentlessly and selflessly for the natural world than anyone I know.
A great soul if ever there was one
www.theguardian.com/science/2025...
A great soul if ever there was one
www.theguardian.com/science/2025...
Jane Goodall, world-renowned primatologist, dies aged 91
Jane Goodall Institute says ‘tireless advocate’ for natural world died in California during US speaking tour
www.theguardian.com
October 1, 2025 at 7:23 PM
RIP Jane Goodall 😢
I remember being inspired by reading about her when I was a young child - by which time she was already eminent! She certainly put her many years to good use ❤️
I remember being inspired by reading about her when I was a young child - by which time she was already eminent! She certainly put her many years to good use ❤️
Developing greater immunity to gaslighting: it's personal, it's political, and it's about survival.
'a society that cannot metabolise grief, fear, or shame in times of upheaval is easy prey for denialists [and fascists] who promise relief through simple lies.'
substack.com/@steffibedna...
'a society that cannot metabolise grief, fear, or shame in times of upheaval is easy prey for denialists [and fascists] who promise relief through simple lies.'
substack.com/@steffibedna...
Gaslighting Democracy and the Double Bind of Truths
A psychological perspective on the theatre of lies
substack.com
September 27, 2025 at 8:48 AM
Developing greater immunity to gaslighting: it's personal, it's political, and it's about survival.
'a society that cannot metabolise grief, fear, or shame in times of upheaval is easy prey for denialists [and fascists] who promise relief through simple lies.'
substack.com/@steffibedna...
'a society that cannot metabolise grief, fear, or shame in times of upheaval is easy prey for denialists [and fascists] who promise relief through simple lies.'
substack.com/@steffibedna...
Reposted by Sally
Israeli forces arrested Hamdan Ballal, a Palestinian co-director of the Oscar-winning documentary 'No Other Land,' in the occupied West Bank after settlers beat and injured him, according to his colleague
‘No Other Land’ co-director attacked by Israeli settlers and arrested
The film is an Oscar-winning documentary collaboration by Israeli and Palestinian filmmakers.
aje.io
March 24, 2025 at 9:49 PM
Israeli forces arrested Hamdan Ballal, a Palestinian co-director of the Oscar-winning documentary 'No Other Land,' in the occupied West Bank after settlers beat and injured him, according to his colleague
Galvanising. What was, what is, and what to do.
'Representatives from ... Ecuador’s national oil company, had just stopped by with the small care package ... Many years before, two of Mendua’s small children had died in separate incidents after oil spills.'
amazonfrontlines.org/chronicles/w...
'Representatives from ... Ecuador’s national oil company, had just stopped by with the small care package ... Many years before, two of Mendua’s small children had died in separate incidents after oil spills.'
amazonfrontlines.org/chronicles/w...
We Need More Than Hope in a Burning World - Amazon Frontlines
By Mitch Anderson One day, a few years ago, Romelia Mendua stood outside of her...
amazonfrontlines.org
March 16, 2025 at 11:07 AM
Galvanising. What was, what is, and what to do.
'Representatives from ... Ecuador’s national oil company, had just stopped by with the small care package ... Many years before, two of Mendua’s small children had died in separate incidents after oil spills.'
amazonfrontlines.org/chronicles/w...
'Representatives from ... Ecuador’s national oil company, had just stopped by with the small care package ... Many years before, two of Mendua’s small children had died in separate incidents after oil spills.'
amazonfrontlines.org/chronicles/w...
Reposted by Sally
Gender vote share gap among young Germans. Massive.
Among women, the left, greens and social democrats have a comfortable majority; among men, AfD, CDU/CSU and FDP score 50%.
Thanks to @lizamugge.bsky.social for pointing me to this; the German original is here: www.tagesschau.de/wahl/archiv/...
Among women, the left, greens and social democrats have a comfortable majority; among men, AfD, CDU/CSU and FDP score 50%.
Thanks to @lizamugge.bsky.social for pointing me to this; the German original is here: www.tagesschau.de/wahl/archiv/...
February 24, 2025 at 11:28 AM
Gender vote share gap among young Germans. Massive.
Among women, the left, greens and social democrats have a comfortable majority; among men, AfD, CDU/CSU and FDP score 50%.
Thanks to @lizamugge.bsky.social for pointing me to this; the German original is here: www.tagesschau.de/wahl/archiv/...
Among women, the left, greens and social democrats have a comfortable majority; among men, AfD, CDU/CSU and FDP score 50%.
Thanks to @lizamugge.bsky.social for pointing me to this; the German original is here: www.tagesschau.de/wahl/archiv/...
Reposted by Sally
"The best study on the subject in my opinion suggests that in the long term, institutions really can’t save us; that civil society and mass mobilization are a more potent check on a backsliding democracy in the long term..." meditations-in-an-emergency.ghost.io/the-nature-o...
February 8, 2025 at 5:29 PM
"The best study on the subject in my opinion suggests that in the long term, institutions really can’t save us; that civil society and mass mobilization are a more potent check on a backsliding democracy in the long term..." meditations-in-an-emergency.ghost.io/the-nature-o...
'People are trapped in a block of flats without running water, as heavy rain caused flooding and travel chaos across the North West...'
The beauty about climate action is that nobody has to do everything 'right'.
[cont'd]
#climate #NYD #resolutions
www.bbc.co.uk/news/article...
The beauty about climate action is that nobody has to do everything 'right'.
[cont'd]
#climate #NYD #resolutions
www.bbc.co.uk/news/article...
Homes flooded and travel chaos as heavy rain batters North West
The weather has also caused major road closures and severe disruption to train services.
www.bbc.co.uk
January 1, 2025 at 12:49 PM
'People are trapped in a block of flats without running water, as heavy rain caused flooding and travel chaos across the North West...'
The beauty about climate action is that nobody has to do everything 'right'.
[cont'd]
#climate #NYD #resolutions
www.bbc.co.uk/news/article...
The beauty about climate action is that nobody has to do everything 'right'.
[cont'd]
#climate #NYD #resolutions
www.bbc.co.uk/news/article...
Happy #solstice! ❤️ 'Time is eternity in disguise.'
Here are two takes on this 'entangled life' at this time of year, from Glennie Kindred (practical pagan) & John O'Donohue (Celtic priest).
As the light returns, let's make room for our souls to breathe, & rise up for all that's precious 🙏
Here are two takes on this 'entangled life' at this time of year, from Glennie Kindred (practical pagan) & John O'Donohue (Celtic priest).
As the light returns, let's make room for our souls to breathe, & rise up for all that's precious 🙏
December 21, 2024 at 10:02 AM
Happy #solstice! ❤️ 'Time is eternity in disguise.'
Here are two takes on this 'entangled life' at this time of year, from Glennie Kindred (practical pagan) & John O'Donohue (Celtic priest).
As the light returns, let's make room for our souls to breathe, & rise up for all that's precious 🙏
Here are two takes on this 'entangled life' at this time of year, from Glennie Kindred (practical pagan) & John O'Donohue (Celtic priest).
As the light returns, let's make room for our souls to breathe, & rise up for all that's precious 🙏
This is chiming with my pre-solstice, end-of-year vibes...
Rest ye well, capitalism permitting.
Rest ye well, capitalism permitting.
December 20, 2024 at 1:46 PM
This is chiming with my pre-solstice, end-of-year vibes...
Rest ye well, capitalism permitting.
Rest ye well, capitalism permitting.
#MoveTheMoney #COP29
1) Make every purchase a vote for the #climate. Support sustainable businesses.
2) Green your investments. Move your pension and savings to fossil-free funds.
3) Push for change at work. Lobby your employer to divest from fossil fuels.
r.sib.wedonthavetime.org/mk/mr/sh/7nV...
1) Make every purchase a vote for the #climate. Support sustainable businesses.
2) Green your investments. Move your pension and savings to fossil-free funds.
3) Push for change at work. Lobby your employer to divest from fossil fuels.
r.sib.wedonthavetime.org/mk/mr/sh/7nV...
December 4, 2024 at 12:38 PM
#MoveTheMoney #COP29
1) Make every purchase a vote for the #climate. Support sustainable businesses.
2) Green your investments. Move your pension and savings to fossil-free funds.
3) Push for change at work. Lobby your employer to divest from fossil fuels.
r.sib.wedonthavetime.org/mk/mr/sh/7nV...
1) Make every purchase a vote for the #climate. Support sustainable businesses.
2) Green your investments. Move your pension and savings to fossil-free funds.
3) Push for change at work. Lobby your employer to divest from fossil fuels.
r.sib.wedonthavetime.org/mk/mr/sh/7nV...
If you don't like #BlackFriday, have #InternationalJaguarDay ❤
'Observed annually on November 29, International Jaguar Day celebrates the Americas’ largest wild cat as an umbrella species for biodiversity conservation and an icon for sustainable development...'
www.internationaljaguarday.org
'Observed annually on November 29, International Jaguar Day celebrates the Americas’ largest wild cat as an umbrella species for biodiversity conservation and an icon for sustainable development...'
www.internationaljaguarday.org
November 29, 2024 at 9:10 PM
If you don't like #BlackFriday, have #InternationalJaguarDay ❤
'Observed annually on November 29, International Jaguar Day celebrates the Americas’ largest wild cat as an umbrella species for biodiversity conservation and an icon for sustainable development...'
www.internationaljaguarday.org
'Observed annually on November 29, International Jaguar Day celebrates the Americas’ largest wild cat as an umbrella species for biodiversity conservation and an icon for sustainable development...'
www.internationaljaguarday.org
Nearly half of perpetrators of group child sexual abuse are aged 10-17. Direct anyone you think might need it to the Shore website: shorespace.org.uk
'...what some children have seen online has “normalised” harmful behaviour.'
www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/chil...
'...what some children have seen online has “normalised” harmful behaviour.'
www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/chil...
Nearly half of perpetrators of group child sexual abuse are children, data shows
Assistant Chief Constable Becky Riggs, who is the UK lead for child protection, said officers are seeing ‘volatile’ and ‘aggressive’ behaviour.
www.independent.co.uk
November 22, 2024 at 5:59 PM
Nearly half of perpetrators of group child sexual abuse are aged 10-17. Direct anyone you think might need it to the Shore website: shorespace.org.uk
'...what some children have seen online has “normalised” harmful behaviour.'
www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/chil...
'...what some children have seen online has “normalised” harmful behaviour.'
www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/chil...
Water is Love: Ripples of Regeneration
This is available to stream for free till the 22nd. If you're short of time, even the trailer is inspiring ❤️
#WaterIsLove #regeneration
watch.showandtell.film/watch/water-...
This is available to stream for free till the 22nd. If you're short of time, even the trailer is inspiring ❤️
#WaterIsLove #regeneration
watch.showandtell.film/watch/water-...
November 17, 2024 at 10:40 AM
Water is Love: Ripples of Regeneration
This is available to stream for free till the 22nd. If you're short of time, even the trailer is inspiring ❤️
#WaterIsLove #regeneration
watch.showandtell.film/watch/water-...
This is available to stream for free till the 22nd. If you're short of time, even the trailer is inspiring ❤️
#WaterIsLove #regeneration
watch.showandtell.film/watch/water-...