Introduction Autistic flow is a term that has been used to describe the autistic experience of being deeply immersed in an activity. Autistic flow theory proposes that autistic people may be uniquel.....

I’m so conflicted about the new Autistic Barbie. On one hand, it’s a huge win that Mattel partnered with ASAN to push past the little boy who loves trains trope and challenge the male-centric stereotypes of autism. The press coverage highlighting the female presentation of autism is bringing vital awareness to autistic females. That said, the doll itself didn't quite land for me. I couldn't put my finger on why until I saw this fan-created version. To me, the fan version feels much more representative of the community I know and love—it captures a specific, authentic "vibe" that goes beyond functional accessories. Here is why: There is often a significant disconnection between female autistic experience and traditional womanhood (Bargiela et al., 2016; Cooper 2024). Research shows that autistic females often define their identities through their focused interests rather than conventional feminine social frameworks (Kourti & MacLeod, 2019). Common interests among autistic females include technology and media, animals, dolls or figurines, and collectibles (Bourson et al., 2024; Nowell et al., 2019). While the Mattel version feels "conventionally feminine" and adheres to a very standard "Barbie" aesthetic, the fan version captures this interest-based identity perfectly with its subculture-inspired style. It reflects the happiness that personal interests—or "enthusiasms," as Clara Claiborne Park called them (n.d., as cited in Prizant, 2015)—can bring, and how clothing that represents them can serve as a form of self-expression and a medium for those feelings of joy (Knight & Birtles, 2025).  Autistic females often have a greater sensitivity to touch (Kumazaki, 2015; Osorio et al., 2021). The Mattel version wears a short, loose-fitting A-line dress and flat Mary-Jane style shoes. While the fabric is sensory-friendly, the bare legs and "standard" silhouette require careful movement to avoid exposure. This overlooks a common sensory need for full coverage and clothes that allow for unrestricted movement to avoid undesired tactile sensations (Kyriacou et al., 2023). In contrast, the fan version opts for an oversized graphic tee, vibrant patterned lounge pants, a plushie dog hat over her headphones, a crocheted bag with pins, and Converse Chuck Taylor All Star High Tops. It reflects how many of autistic females actually navigate the world—prioritizing personal comfort and self-expression over social expectations and fashion (Knight & Birtles, 2025). While I truly appreciate the awareness Mattel and ASAN are building, I’m so moved by the thoughtfulness of the fan-created version. It captures the heart and spirit of the people it represents. I’m curious how actually autistic females feel about this—does one version speak to your experience more than the other? Image Credit: LuCiette  https://lnkd.in/e2ScuS4h

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