Sending traumatized neurodivergent people to behavioral therapies where they're told to "stop judging" is so terrifyingly dangerous. I've spent my entire adult life relearning that it's not only ok to trust my value judgements, but vital in situations where my emotional processing is delayed.
November 14, 2025 at 6:09 PM
Sending traumatized neurodivergent people to behavioral therapies where they're told to "stop judging" is so terrifyingly dangerous. I've spent my entire adult life relearning that it's not only ok to trust my value judgements, but vital in situations where my emotional processing is delayed.
I had a little cry and thought it through. I have lovely people in my life, but I'm just not getting what I need with this "struggling to schedule a hang every month or two" adult friendship thing. I need to try again with hosting regular craft/dinner nights.
How do I keep my faith in people alive? I have a soul full of love and whimsy and also cPTSD and the world is *gestures at everything*
November 9, 2025 at 5:46 PM
I had a little cry and thought it through. I have lovely people in my life, but I'm just not getting what I need with this "struggling to schedule a hang every month or two" adult friendship thing. I need to try again with hosting regular craft/dinner nights.
When I look at my tumultuous dating/friendmaking history over the last few years, there's one factor that consistently correlates with better consent practices, better communication, and even better breakups: COVID caution in their life outside of me.
November 2, 2025 at 1:33 PM
When I look at my tumultuous dating/friendmaking history over the last few years, there's one factor that consistently correlates with better consent practices, better communication, and even better breakups: COVID caution in their life outside of me.
I didn't notice this model was trans until several poses in. Proof you can be stealth while naked! At least, you can if your audience is distracted by your shoulders.
October 31, 2025 at 9:18 PM
I didn't notice this model was trans until several poses in. Proof you can be stealth while naked! At least, you can if your audience is distracted by your shoulders.
I didn't notice this model was trans until several poses in. Proof you can be stealth while naked! At least, you can if your audience is distracted by your shoulders.
October 31, 2025 at 9:18 PM
I didn't notice this model was trans until several poses in. Proof you can be stealth while naked! At least, you can if your audience is distracted by your shoulders.
I think it's funny that Instagram flagged this as sexual content because of a cartoon porno mag, illustrating exactly my point about censorship. Any queer art that gets traction is in danger.
Things the US government doesn't want you to have!
October 31, 2025 at 2:59 PM
I think it's funny that Instagram flagged this as sexual content because of a cartoon porno mag, illustrating exactly my point about censorship. Any queer art that gets traction is in danger.