RJ ✨
@rjiyer.bsky.social
I help you tap into the innate wisdom of your body and spirit so that you can walk the path that's uniquely yours and the deepest expression of who you are 🌹✨
https://rjiyer.com/
https://rjiyer.com/
I hope you take the time to understand what works for *you*, how *you* operate, and what would allow *you* to flourish.
March 23, 2025 at 5:41 PM
I hope you take the time to understand what works for *you*, how *you* operate, and what would allow *you* to flourish.
An apology would land so much more sincerely without the use of the word 'but'.
State what happened. Say you're sorry. Suggest solutions or make amends if the situation calls for it.
Why use a 'but' and ruin the apology?
State what happened. Say you're sorry. Suggest solutions or make amends if the situation calls for it.
Why use a 'but' and ruin the apology?
January 10, 2025 at 5:54 PM
An apology would land so much more sincerely without the use of the word 'but'.
State what happened. Say you're sorry. Suggest solutions or make amends if the situation calls for it.
Why use a 'but' and ruin the apology?
State what happened. Say you're sorry. Suggest solutions or make amends if the situation calls for it.
Why use a 'but' and ruin the apology?
One of the most liberating skills I've learnt yet is the art of speaking my truth with the love that I am. 💖 ✨
January 9, 2025 at 2:10 PM
One of the most liberating skills I've learnt yet is the art of speaking my truth with the love that I am. 💖 ✨
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One of my fav things to say to my friends over texts is "sending you love." Most of the time I randomly text this because I'm feeling it so deeply in the moment!
January 8, 2025 at 10:24 AM
One of my fav things to say to my friends over texts is "sending you love." Most of the time I randomly text this because I'm feeling it so deeply in the moment!
I used to contort and distort myself like a circus acrobat, trying not to inconvenience or upset others. The kicker was that I'd assume they'd be upset and preemptively start twisting myself into knots! 🧵 ➡️
January 7, 2025 at 5:02 PM
I used to contort and distort myself like a circus acrobat, trying not to inconvenience or upset others. The kicker was that I'd assume they'd be upset and preemptively start twisting myself into knots! 🧵 ➡️
How can you lean into something you've been avoiding — something you know you want to do and will benefit you? Usually, it isn't complicated at all. Like dipping just your toes into a sunlit pool, it might look like attending just one salsa class. Setting a timer for just 15 minutes to write.
January 7, 2025 at 12:02 PM
How can you lean into something you've been avoiding — something you know you want to do and will benefit you? Usually, it isn't complicated at all. Like dipping just your toes into a sunlit pool, it might look like attending just one salsa class. Setting a timer for just 15 minutes to write.
Jan-Mar is my absolute favourite time of the year in Blr. It seldom rains, the weather is cool but sunny, & the sky is blue. By Feb, the trees fill with flowers of various hues. It evokes a feeling of optimistic peace. Nature feels nourished, & my inner world reflects that.🌻🦋✨
January 7, 2025 at 9:34 AM
Jan-Mar is my absolute favourite time of the year in Blr. It seldom rains, the weather is cool but sunny, & the sky is blue. By Feb, the trees fill with flowers of various hues. It evokes a feeling of optimistic peace. Nature feels nourished, & my inner world reflects that.🌻🦋✨
I truly believe that we've each come here with our own innate gifts to share with the world. These gifts are meant to be uncovered from within rather than acquired from outside ourselves.
January 6, 2025 at 2:23 PM
I truly believe that we've each come here with our own innate gifts to share with the world. These gifts are meant to be uncovered from within rather than acquired from outside ourselves.
Posted this on IG so decided screenshot and post it here as well. (Yes I'm feeling a tad lazy lol).
Highly recommend the practice I share in the pics. It's changed my life!❤️✨
Highly recommend the practice I share in the pics. It's changed my life!❤️✨
January 6, 2025 at 11:36 AM
Posted this on IG so decided screenshot and post it here as well. (Yes I'm feeling a tad lazy lol).
Highly recommend the practice I share in the pics. It's changed my life!❤️✨
Highly recommend the practice I share in the pics. It's changed my life!❤️✨
what if the answer to all inner turmoil — the "what's wrong with me?", the "i'm not doing enough", the "i can't seem to get anything right" thoughts — is speaking to yourself with love?
January 4, 2025 at 6:52 AM
what if the answer to all inner turmoil — the "what's wrong with me?", the "i'm not doing enough", the "i can't seem to get anything right" thoughts — is speaking to yourself with love?
This year, be fully self-expressed in your own taste. Allow yourself to like what you like — accept, embrace, and display your personal preferences, style, and aesthetic choices without feeling the need to conform to others' expectations or current trends.
January 3, 2025 at 7:21 PM
This year, be fully self-expressed in your own taste. Allow yourself to like what you like — accept, embrace, and display your personal preferences, style, and aesthetic choices without feeling the need to conform to others' expectations or current trends.
I think the reason we sometimes feel shaken up when looking at what other people are doing (especially those we deem successful or likely to be successful) is that we're out of touch with our own inner knowing — our remembrance of what our own life path is and what the right move for us is.
January 3, 2025 at 8:34 AM
I think the reason we sometimes feel shaken up when looking at what other people are doing (especially those we deem successful or likely to be successful) is that we're out of touch with our own inner knowing — our remembrance of what our own life path is and what the right move for us is.
One of the easiest ways to build a genuine connection with someone and make them feel seen and valued is to use their name while addressing them. It's fascinating to see just how many people miss this simple yet powerful aspect of social interaction.
January 2, 2025 at 6:56 PM
One of the easiest ways to build a genuine connection with someone and make them feel seen and valued is to use their name while addressing them. It's fascinating to see just how many people miss this simple yet powerful aspect of social interaction.
What if your challenges and struggles aren't evidence that you're doing something wrong? What if, instead, they are proof of your courage, growth, and healing in progress?
December 19, 2024 at 5:02 PM
What if your challenges and struggles aren't evidence that you're doing something wrong? What if, instead, they are proof of your courage, growth, and healing in progress?
I love brewing masala chai every day. Lately, I’ve been making the experience even more fun by imagining that each ingredient also carries a ‘secret’ ingredient. As I add each one, I name its magical, secret quality.
December 19, 2024 at 2:55 PM
I love brewing masala chai every day. Lately, I’ve been making the experience even more fun by imagining that each ingredient also carries a ‘secret’ ingredient. As I add each one, I name its magical, secret quality.
What if you allowed yourself to flow in and out of social circles, places, and boxes as you sampled and clarified your tastes?
What if you started saying, "Yes, and my preferences have changed?"
What if you started saying, "Yes, and my preferences have changed?"
December 11, 2024 at 1:12 PM
What if you allowed yourself to flow in and out of social circles, places, and boxes as you sampled and clarified your tastes?
What if you started saying, "Yes, and my preferences have changed?"
What if you started saying, "Yes, and my preferences have changed?"
Spaciousness is so important. To allow your own tastes and preferences to arise naturally. To discover and embrace the gifts you're here to give the world. To root deep into your essence. To be a sovereign being.🌌 ✨
December 10, 2024 at 4:32 PM
Spaciousness is so important. To allow your own tastes and preferences to arise naturally. To discover and embrace the gifts you're here to give the world. To root deep into your essence. To be a sovereign being.🌌 ✨
There are moments when time slows down and you realise that you are living a life - finally - that you could only dream of not that long ago.
December 10, 2024 at 1:19 PM
There are moments when time slows down and you realise that you are living a life - finally - that you could only dream of not that long ago.
Learning to give yourself unconditional love might be the journey of a lifetime. It's still worth it by a long shot.
December 10, 2024 at 12:00 PM
Learning to give yourself unconditional love might be the journey of a lifetime. It's still worth it by a long shot.
My desire for every woman is to allow her heart, mind, body, and soul to dance to the rhythm of her cycle. This way, she aligns with her life force and becomes 10x more magnetic.🧲🌹✨
December 9, 2024 at 1:32 PM
My desire for every woman is to allow her heart, mind, body, and soul to dance to the rhythm of her cycle. This way, she aligns with her life force and becomes 10x more magnetic.🧲🌹✨
There is no "dark switch". At any given moment, you are either letting the light in or you're not. Meaning — you can deliberately turn towards the light and allow yourself to feel better.☀️🌻
December 9, 2024 at 9:10 AM
There is no "dark switch". At any given moment, you are either letting the light in or you're not. Meaning — you can deliberately turn towards the light and allow yourself to feel better.☀️🌻
Acknowledge your desires, however scary it might be to do so. Take baby steps towards making them happen, trembling knees notwithstanding. Soon, you'll find that facing mild (or intense!) fear and discomfort was but a small price to pay to get what you want.🌹✨
December 9, 2024 at 6:32 AM
Acknowledge your desires, however scary it might be to do so. Take baby steps towards making them happen, trembling knees notwithstanding. Soon, you'll find that facing mild (or intense!) fear and discomfort was but a small price to pay to get what you want.🌹✨
You have the permission to want what you want. Fully, joyfully, irreverently. ☀️🌹
December 8, 2024 at 9:31 PM
You have the permission to want what you want. Fully, joyfully, irreverently. ☀️🌹
Be brave. Say out loud to the universe, "I really want this but I have no idea how to get it. But I know you do. So I'm turning this over to you. I trust you. I love you."
This is enough to get the ball rolling.✨
This is enough to get the ball rolling.✨
December 6, 2024 at 7:04 PM
Be brave. Say out loud to the universe, "I really want this but I have no idea how to get it. But I know you do. So I'm turning this over to you. I trust you. I love you."
This is enough to get the ball rolling.✨
This is enough to get the ball rolling.✨