Krissy
@rightkindofme.bsky.social
I'm just trying to keep moving forward.
I've been booted from Facebook. Fetlife is the only social media I use on a regular basis & I use it for LJ style brain dumps where I talk about whatever the heck is on my mind.
Tomorrow's 11 months since Noah died.
I move forward a little bit at a time. I miss him and it hurts. I will survive.
Tomorrow's 11 months since Noah died.
I move forward a little bit at a time. I miss him and it hurts. I will survive.
November 23, 2025 at 2:58 PM
I've been booted from Facebook. Fetlife is the only social media I use on a regular basis & I use it for LJ style brain dumps where I talk about whatever the heck is on my mind.
Tomorrow's 11 months since Noah died.
I move forward a little bit at a time. I miss him and it hurts. I will survive.
Tomorrow's 11 months since Noah died.
I move forward a little bit at a time. I miss him and it hurts. I will survive.
Facebook has blocked my access. I don't think I did anything wrong, it just wanted proof that I'm a human. Now it won't accept any proof. Maybe this is a sign.
October 8, 2025 at 1:41 PM
Facebook has blocked my access. I don't think I did anything wrong, it just wanted proof that I'm a human. Now it won't accept any proof. Maybe this is a sign.
Maybe instead of NaNoWriMo I will use November to cross post all the years of stuff from Fetlife and Facebook onto my personalnpage. I will piss off all my email subscribers. Or delight them? Who knows. When I finish that I will delete everything from Facebook. Not ready to abandon Fet yet. Someday.
September 1, 2025 at 12:40 PM
Maybe instead of NaNoWriMo I will use November to cross post all the years of stuff from Fetlife and Facebook onto my personalnpage. I will piss off all my email subscribers. Or delight them? Who knows. When I finish that I will delete everything from Facebook. Not ready to abandon Fet yet. Someday.
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Japan Post just announced they will no longer deliver mail to the United States, joining Germany, Austria, Denmark, Italy, France, and Sweden.
August 25, 2025 at 11:53 PM
Japan Post just announced they will no longer deliver mail to the United States, joining Germany, Austria, Denmark, Italy, France, and Sweden.
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I support the What The Fet organised campaign. Building better digital spaces is no different to building better spaces in real life.
You can read more here: deviantsdomain.substack.com/p/what-the-f...
#WhatTheFet #CaretakerCallout #FetCareFail #UncensorBlackKink
You can read more here: deviantsdomain.substack.com/p/what-the-f...
#WhatTheFet #CaretakerCallout #FetCareFail #UncensorBlackKink
What the Fet Is Going On?
When Silence Is the Only Safety Feature
deviantsdomain.substack.com
August 26, 2025 at 5:39 AM
I support the What The Fet organised campaign. Building better digital spaces is no different to building better spaces in real life.
You can read more here: deviantsdomain.substack.com/p/what-the-f...
#WhatTheFet #CaretakerCallout #FetCareFail #UncensorBlackKink
You can read more here: deviantsdomain.substack.com/p/what-the-f...
#WhatTheFet #CaretakerCallout #FetCareFail #UncensorBlackKink
I've always known that I have strong addictive tendencies. I tend to go in binge cycles with which forum online is my favourite. Thanks to #WhatTheFet I'm noticing that I use Fetlife probably a lot too much these days. It's funny how different places feel safe for different reasons.
No Fetlife today
No Fetlife today
August 26, 2025 at 6:01 AM
I've always known that I have strong addictive tendencies. I tend to go in binge cycles with which forum online is my favourite. Thanks to #WhatTheFet I'm noticing that I use Fetlife probably a lot too much these days. It's funny how different places feel safe for different reasons.
No Fetlife today
No Fetlife today
My bluesky is wall to wall politics and depression. woof.
My life is hard but there are joyful moments every day.
I feel a lot of sadness but also the need for hope and happiness.
I am seeking out opportunities to be soft and share reciprocal care giving. It is good for my soul. I am very lucky.
My life is hard but there are joyful moments every day.
I feel a lot of sadness but also the need for hope and happiness.
I am seeking out opportunities to be soft and share reciprocal care giving. It is good for my soul. I am very lucky.
June 17, 2025 at 11:43 AM
My bluesky is wall to wall politics and depression. woof.
My life is hard but there are joyful moments every day.
I feel a lot of sadness but also the need for hope and happiness.
I am seeking out opportunities to be soft and share reciprocal care giving. It is good for my soul. I am very lucky.
My life is hard but there are joyful moments every day.
I feel a lot of sadness but also the need for hope and happiness.
I am seeking out opportunities to be soft and share reciprocal care giving. It is good for my soul. I am very lucky.
Once on a plane from San Francisco to LA a bunch of men in fancy suits asked me what I thought of Scream 3. I explained how only someone who was monumentally stupid would think it was a good idea to make a 3rd version of a mediocre movie.
Turns out the head of the studio was on that plane. Whoops.
Turns out the head of the studio was on that plane. Whoops.
Right folks. Feeling rather down at the moment so bringing back an oldie
Please Quote this with your most minor celebrity interaction
Please Quote this with your most minor celebrity interaction
June 13, 2025 at 2:33 PM
Once on a plane from San Francisco to LA a bunch of men in fancy suits asked me what I thought of Scream 3. I explained how only someone who was monumentally stupid would think it was a good idea to make a 3rd version of a mediocre movie.
Turns out the head of the studio was on that plane. Whoops.
Turns out the head of the studio was on that plane. Whoops.
A bunch of lovely folks in my local community made a really sweet video. Yay for love. Yay for being human beings together.
Massive thank you to @heatherherbert.uk @sarahjanebaker.bsky.social
and many other amazing trans and enby people for taking part in this.
Trans People are not a threat.
We are just human beings.
Please share! 🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️
and many other amazing trans and enby people for taking part in this.
Trans People are not a threat.
We are just human beings.
Please share! 🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️
June 10, 2025 at 7:56 PM
A bunch of lovely folks in my local community made a really sweet video. Yay for love. Yay for being human beings together.
I'm going to need 2 people who are not related to Noah who are willing to sign an affidavit that his signature on his will is really his. I need these people because the wet-signed copy is in Scotland and not having a wet-signed copy for the US means extra paperwork.
Anyone willing to help?
Anyone willing to help?
April 6, 2025 at 11:00 PM
I'm going to need 2 people who are not related to Noah who are willing to sign an affidavit that his signature on his will is really his. I need these people because the wet-signed copy is in Scotland and not having a wet-signed copy for the US means extra paperwork.
Anyone willing to help?
Anyone willing to help?
I've been working as hard as I can to stay in the closet since I moved to Scotland. I've dramatically limited my writing and the forums in which I am fully disclosing stuff about my private life because I worry about backlash. As if I could ever be quiet enough to escape backlash.
It's not working.
It's not working.
March 26, 2025 at 12:19 PM
I've been working as hard as I can to stay in the closet since I moved to Scotland. I've dramatically limited my writing and the forums in which I am fully disclosing stuff about my private life because I worry about backlash. As if I could ever be quiet enough to escape backlash.
It's not working.
It's not working.
It's hard to summon up my normal work ethic. I do a lot of sitting and staring out windows. What will my future look like without him?
I know I won't be alone. I collect people like shiny trophies. I am exceedingly blessed in my friendships. I know.
I shaped myself around Noah for almost 20 years
I know I won't be alone. I collect people like shiny trophies. I am exceedingly blessed in my friendships. I know.
I shaped myself around Noah for almost 20 years
March 25, 2025 at 6:47 AM
It's hard to summon up my normal work ethic. I do a lot of sitting and staring out windows. What will my future look like without him?
I know I won't be alone. I collect people like shiny trophies. I am exceedingly blessed in my friendships. I know.
I shaped myself around Noah for almost 20 years
I know I won't be alone. I collect people like shiny trophies. I am exceedingly blessed in my friendships. I know.
I shaped myself around Noah for almost 20 years
I’m coping through a combination of leaning on friends and distractions. I still feel like I don’t have any idea what my future will be like. I’m scared a lot of the time but I can’t slow down.
I’m struggling with feeling like I can’t say a lot of things in most spaces. That is hard for me.
I’m struggling with feeling like I can’t say a lot of things in most spaces. That is hard for me.
March 23, 2025 at 11:39 AM
I’m coping through a combination of leaning on friends and distractions. I still feel like I don’t have any idea what my future will be like. I’m scared a lot of the time but I can’t slow down.
I’m struggling with feeling like I can’t say a lot of things in most spaces. That is hard for me.
I’m struggling with feeling like I can’t say a lot of things in most spaces. That is hard for me.
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Stretch goals announced!
Come check out them out,
#kickstarter #ttrpg #zinequest #crowdfunding
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Come check out them out,
#kickstarter #ttrpg #zinequest #crowdfunding
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THE pENDulum AND the pIT: A Pocket ttrpg
A leaflet horror RPG about desperate people trying to stop emerging horrors from reshaping the world.
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February 21, 2025 at 10:36 AM
Stretch goals announced!
Come check out them out,
#kickstarter #ttrpg #zinequest #crowdfunding
kck.st/4k4oqWg
Come check out them out,
#kickstarter #ttrpg #zinequest #crowdfunding
kck.st/4k4oqWg
I will confess that I am mostly not reading a lot of other peoples social media. I'm talking to myself on the internet so I don't talk to the kids.
8 weeks without Noah.
This morning I broke into ugly screaming and crying for a long time. It feels like I am running out of some layers of cope.
8 weeks without Noah.
This morning I broke into ugly screaming and crying for a long time. It feels like I am running out of some layers of cope.
February 18, 2025 at 10:50 AM
I will confess that I am mostly not reading a lot of other peoples social media. I'm talking to myself on the internet so I don't talk to the kids.
8 weeks without Noah.
This morning I broke into ugly screaming and crying for a long time. It feels like I am running out of some layers of cope.
8 weeks without Noah.
This morning I broke into ugly screaming and crying for a long time. It feels like I am running out of some layers of cope.
Today we were supposed to be arriving at Disneyland Paris because Shorty wanted to go for her birthday. Disney was very understanding when I cancelled.
I couldn't possibly do it now. Someday, sure. Not this week. I am not strong enough for that. It's ok. I will be later.
48 days since he left us.
I couldn't possibly do it now. Someday, sure. Not this week. I am not strong enough for that. It's ok. I will be later.
48 days since he left us.
February 10, 2025 at 9:01 AM
Today we were supposed to be arriving at Disneyland Paris because Shorty wanted to go for her birthday. Disney was very understanding when I cancelled.
I couldn't possibly do it now. Someday, sure. Not this week. I am not strong enough for that. It's ok. I will be later.
48 days since he left us.
I couldn't possibly do it now. Someday, sure. Not this week. I am not strong enough for that. It's ok. I will be later.
48 days since he left us.
Looking in the mirror is weird. I both can and can't see what made Noah need me so desperately. He needed me like he needed air and water.
I will never be needed like that again. I'm extraneous. I see value in me, and I see how the cost will always be too high for anyone else to pay.
Keep moving.
I will never be needed like that again. I'm extraneous. I see value in me, and I see how the cost will always be too high for anyone else to pay.
Keep moving.
February 8, 2025 at 11:01 AM
Looking in the mirror is weird. I both can and can't see what made Noah need me so desperately. He needed me like he needed air and water.
I will never be needed like that again. I'm extraneous. I see value in me, and I see how the cost will always be too high for anyone else to pay.
Keep moving.
I will never be needed like that again. I'm extraneous. I see value in me, and I see how the cost will always be too high for anyone else to pay.
Keep moving.
Every day we have to choose: who are we going to be today? I don't always live up to my ideals. I do not always uplift people. Sometimes I succumb to my shitty side and I am cruel.
The next day I have to choose again. I can do better. I am not limited by my mistakes. I can move on.
So can you.
The next day I have to choose again. I can do better. I am not limited by my mistakes. I can move on.
So can you.
February 8, 2025 at 8:04 AM
Every day we have to choose: who are we going to be today? I don't always live up to my ideals. I do not always uplift people. Sometimes I succumb to my shitty side and I am cruel.
The next day I have to choose again. I can do better. I am not limited by my mistakes. I can move on.
So can you.
The next day I have to choose again. I can do better. I am not limited by my mistakes. I can move on.
So can you.
"I'll get the paperwork done in January."
- receives email back finally in February with notification of a call to take place in April.
Crow. I eat a lot of crow.
- receives email back finally in February with notification of a call to take place in April.
Crow. I eat a lot of crow.
February 7, 2025 at 10:49 AM
"I'll get the paperwork done in January."
- receives email back finally in February with notification of a call to take place in April.
Crow. I eat a lot of crow.
- receives email back finally in February with notification of a call to take place in April.
Crow. I eat a lot of crow.
I should reserve this handle.
February 5, 2025 at 5:30 AM
I should reserve this handle.