Quekern
@quekern.bsky.social
51yo nerd, mother, wife, and "con mom". Lover of Anime, RPG/TTG, video games, cosplay, and recently danmei. I may be older, but I'm not dead. I can be vocal with little filter. Always have an ear if anyone needs to talk. I'm a good listener, ask my kids
Took kids to see Crane Wives. Great convert except my husband passed out cold in the pit at opening act. Medics could not find anything wrong with him. We did get to stay for the concert but was a svary experience. Everyone was so nice though.
November 9, 2025 at 6:09 AM
Took kids to see Crane Wives. Great convert except my husband passed out cold in the pit at opening act. Medics could not find anything wrong with him. We did get to stay for the concert but was a svary experience. Everyone was so nice though.
Went to go to karaoke Halloween party but turned up and no one dressed. So percy, maomao, and wwx are watching kpop demonhunter sing-along. #KpopDemomHunters #MDZS #ApothecaryDiaries #CriticalRole
November 1, 2025 at 1:16 AM
Went to go to karaoke Halloween party but turned up and no one dressed. So percy, maomao, and wwx are watching kpop demonhunter sing-along. #KpopDemomHunters #MDZS #ApothecaryDiaries #CriticalRole
Surgery is done. Never been in this much pain but due to nausea can't give me my pain pills and afraid anything by iv could cause respitory failure. Trying to call PA but he is currently in another surgery, sigh. Anyone who know me knows I can handle pain, but am in tears. So phone for distraction
October 14, 2025 at 3:08 PM
Surgery is done. Never been in this much pain but due to nausea can't give me my pain pills and afraid anything by iv could cause respitory failure. Trying to call PA but he is currently in another surgery, sigh. Anyone who know me knows I can handle pain, but am in tears. So phone for distraction
I probably won't be on tomorrow. Have surgery and being on social media while medicated ia not adviseable, lol.
October 14, 2025 at 3:46 AM
I probably won't be on tomorrow. Have surgery and being on social media while medicated ia not adviseable, lol.
Today I may have have cost myself some friends. One of the group said something untrue about someone I respect. I called them out with proof. When they tried to argue/gaslight, instead of engaging and making everyone uncomfortable I logged out. YesI left them to go one sided without defending myself
October 14, 2025 at 3:45 AM
Today I may have have cost myself some friends. One of the group said something untrue about someone I respect. I called them out with proof. When they tried to argue/gaslight, instead of engaging and making everyone uncomfortable I logged out. YesI left them to go one sided without defending myself
Tuesday I have to have surgery (total knee) and will be stuck in my room alot (2nd floor) so decided to decorate it today. Thanks to those who help fuel my obsession, especially my kids who enable me.
October 12, 2025 at 9:28 PM
Tuesday I have to have surgery (total knee) and will be stuck in my room alot (2nd floor) so decided to decorate it today. Thanks to those who help fuel my obsession, especially my kids who enable me.
Is it bad when cardiologist says he needs to run tests to find out why you get shortnrss of breath/chrst pain/sweating with mild exertion but hr ferls your knee is so bad he would rather you have your knee replacement first? Ortho had said even a non-ortho could see how bad my knee is.
September 24, 2025 at 3:06 AM
Is it bad when cardiologist says he needs to run tests to find out why you get shortnrss of breath/chrst pain/sweating with mild exertion but hr ferls your knee is so bad he would rather you have your knee replacement first? Ortho had said even a non-ortho could see how bad my knee is.
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DID SOMEONE WRITE A FANFIC THAT YOU FEEL WAS INCORRECT, OUT OF CHARACTER, OR SCARY SOMEHOW? TRY THESE STEPS:
🔘 Hit the back button
🔘 Log off
🔘 Tell a trusted adult about your feelings
DO NOT. COMPLAIN. TO THE AUTHOR.
Remember! Stories are not real! And you can always write your own! Or shut up!
🔘 Hit the back button
🔘 Log off
🔘 Tell a trusted adult about your feelings
DO NOT. COMPLAIN. TO THE AUTHOR.
Remember! Stories are not real! And you can always write your own! Or shut up!
September 8, 2025 at 5:00 PM
DID SOMEONE WRITE A FANFIC THAT YOU FEEL WAS INCORRECT, OUT OF CHARACTER, OR SCARY SOMEHOW? TRY THESE STEPS:
🔘 Hit the back button
🔘 Log off
🔘 Tell a trusted adult about your feelings
DO NOT. COMPLAIN. TO THE AUTHOR.
Remember! Stories are not real! And you can always write your own! Or shut up!
🔘 Hit the back button
🔘 Log off
🔘 Tell a trusted adult about your feelings
DO NOT. COMPLAIN. TO THE AUTHOR.
Remember! Stories are not real! And you can always write your own! Or shut up!
Odds of my husband having heart cath at same time my estranged father is having a procedure and his wife being near me in waiting room. Been 23yrs. Not sure she recognized me. My luck SUCKS. I'm shaking. Note: my husband is fine. That's the important part.
September 8, 2025 at 4:33 PM
Odds of my husband having heart cath at same time my estranged father is having a procedure and his wife being near me in waiting room. Been 23yrs. Not sure she recognized me. My luck SUCKS. I'm shaking. Note: my husband is fine. That's the important part.
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September 4, 2025 at 5:37 PM
Just watch KPop Demonhunters sing-a-long. Seeing little kids know all the words and sing/ dance was so cute. One quoted EVERY line. She was 8? People were afraid to sing until Sodapop. Then people were having fun. The wailing of people when Jinu sacrificed was loud. Now watching Nez ha 2
August 24, 2025 at 10:50 PM
Just watch KPop Demonhunters sing-a-long. Seeing little kids know all the words and sing/ dance was so cute. One quoted EVERY line. She was 8? People were afraid to sing until Sodapop. Then people were having fun. The wailing of people when Jinu sacrificed was loud. Now watching Nez ha 2
Took my youngest back to college 6 hrs from home. Before we drove home today my mom called. She got home with my brother to find one of my cats deceased. No trauma. Just gone. He was only 2. He was my Kaeya. A bit wobbly. My brother covered him til we got home. Other cats are confused.
August 23, 2025 at 5:25 AM
Took my youngest back to college 6 hrs from home. Before we drove home today my mom called. She got home with my brother to find one of my cats deceased. No trauma. Just gone. He was only 2. He was my Kaeya. A bit wobbly. My brother covered him til we got home. Other cats are confused.
From my husband being so bad, liver failure and sepsis, his number came down to only 3x/10x and they identified bactwria and awnr him home on antibiotics. Antibiotics are oral and with no other treatment needed they sent him home.
August 19, 2025 at 7:24 PM
From my husband being so bad, liver failure and sepsis, his number came down to only 3x/10x and they identified bactwria and awnr him home on antibiotics. Antibiotics are oral and with no other treatment needed they sent him home.
Husband calls at 715 to say they are taking him for his procedure in 35 min. I throw on clothes and rush to hospital. His board says it is scheduled for 11. They did lab work at the 35 min pt. If he wasn't sick I would strangle him. 5 hrs sleep in 48hrs is taking its toll on me
August 18, 2025 at 12:28 PM
Husband calls at 715 to say they are taking him for his procedure in 35 min. I throw on clothes and rush to hospital. His board says it is scheduled for 11. They did lab work at the 35 min pt. If he wasn't sick I would strangle him. 5 hrs sleep in 48hrs is taking its toll on me
My youngest moves into their 1st apartment this week with three roommates. I have started giving their roommates nicknames just between my kids and me. So far have Monk (ocd) and Wen Qing (premed). I am also ocd so mean no offense. 3rd is psych major who is a dumpster fire (her words) but loveable
August 18, 2025 at 11:52 AM
My youngest moves into their 1st apartment this week with three roommates. I have started giving their roommates nicknames just between my kids and me. So far have Monk (ocd) and Wen Qing (premed). I am also ocd so mean no offense. 3rd is psych major who is a dumpster fire (her words) but loveable
My husband was admitted to the hospital last night. His lab numbers are 20x times normal limit for liver and he is having extreme pain and is weak. He is too stubborn to let me sit with him. I have never seen him this bad before. I haven't slept yet.
August 17, 2025 at 5:02 PM
My husband was admitted to the hospital last night. His lab numbers are 20x times normal limit for liver and he is having extreme pain and is weak. He is too stubborn to let me sit with him. I have never seen him this bad before. I haven't slept yet.
Found out my newer physical health issues may be leftover from past trauma. I am a survivor of csa, dv, and sa, with the worst being at the hands of my ex 20+ years ago. Evidently my brain decided I am "safe" enough that I can now deal with the trauma, and it is warped enough that it is presenting
August 16, 2025 at 6:45 PM
Found out my newer physical health issues may be leftover from past trauma. I am a survivor of csa, dv, and sa, with the worst being at the hands of my ex 20+ years ago. Evidently my brain decided I am "safe" enough that I can now deal with the trauma, and it is warped enough that it is presenting
If anyone has any fun fic recs I can really use a distraction today. Got call husband needs cardiac catheterization for 2 blockages. They wanted next week but kid moving to college so husband said no. Doc is allowing an extra week if he stays healthy. I am a wreck. Should I mention his job wants to
August 14, 2025 at 8:17 PM
If anyone has any fun fic recs I can really use a distraction today. Got call husband needs cardiac catheterization for 2 blockages. They wanted next week but kid moving to college so husband said no. Doc is allowing an extra week if he stays healthy. I am a wreck. Should I mention his job wants to
One of our first dates, first real date, my husband sang karaoke "I"ll be" by Edwin Mccain. First time I ever heard him sing. Tuesday we are taking our 2 grown kids to see Train with Edwin McCain. I am so excited. Family loves Train, but for me it is hearing the song that made me start
August 11, 2025 at 3:57 AM
One of our first dates, first real date, my husband sang karaoke "I"ll be" by Edwin Mccain. First time I ever heard him sing. Tuesday we are taking our 2 grown kids to see Train with Edwin McCain. I am so excited. Family loves Train, but for me it is hearing the song that made me start
Last week my husband was at the ER, back/arm pain. a followup to cardiology said testing showed issues. More heart testing this week. Last night 20yo started complaining of severe spasms/shoulder pain. Trip to ER. Find out possible rotator cuff tear. Please keep fics coming. Need distraction.
August 11, 2025 at 1:37 AM
Last week my husband was at the ER, back/arm pain. a followup to cardiology said testing showed issues. More heart testing this week. Last night 20yo started complaining of severe spasms/shoulder pain. Trip to ER. Find out possible rotator cuff tear. Please keep fics coming. Need distraction.
My kid got their best friend to watch season 2 of tgcf. His response to ep 1. San lang got a glow up and jun wu is a really powerful, chill, good guy. Lol. Note it took til last ep of season 1 for the kid to figure out san lang is crimson rain. I swear this kid is really smart too, lol.
August 8, 2025 at 2:04 AM
My kid got their best friend to watch season 2 of tgcf. His response to ep 1. San lang got a glow up and jun wu is a really powerful, chill, good guy. Lol. Note it took til last ep of season 1 for the kid to figure out san lang is crimson rain. I swear this kid is really smart too, lol.
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"ChatGPT is great for brainstorming!"
Actually we have a tool for that already! It's called thinking. We use our brain. It's called brainstorming! Clue is in the name.
Actually we have a tool for that already! It's called thinking. We use our brain. It's called brainstorming! Clue is in the name.
July 31, 2025 at 7:49 PM
"ChatGPT is great for brainstorming!"
Actually we have a tool for that already! It's called thinking. We use our brain. It's called brainstorming! Clue is in the name.
Actually we have a tool for that already! It's called thinking. We use our brain. It's called brainstorming! Clue is in the name.
Healthwise I am not well. I am having TIAs at least 3x/wk of various severity. They started in Nov. I was sceheduled for neuro in June but sue to surgery it got moved to Aug. Not sleeping at night for fear of not waking up. Yesterday, I had 2 pretty bad ones. Went to ER in Jan but
July 25, 2025 at 12:43 AM
Healthwise I am not well. I am having TIAs at least 3x/wk of various severity. They started in Nov. I was sceheduled for neuro in June but sue to surgery it got moved to Aug. Not sleeping at night for fear of not waking up. Yesterday, I had 2 pretty bad ones. Went to ER in Jan but
My children and husband are such enablers...they convinced me it was good to buy more mxtx stuff for my walls/shrine (as husband calls it) as well as a wwx capelet with bunny ears at the con. Other danmei congoers called my husband my enabler and said I was lucky. I know I am. Lol
July 22, 2025 at 6:06 AM
My children and husband are such enablers...they convinced me it was good to buy more mxtx stuff for my walls/shrine (as husband calls it) as well as a wwx capelet with bunny ears at the con. Other danmei congoers called my husband my enabler and said I was lucky. I know I am. Lol
Confused a couple 10yos. Went in McD’s the other night and one girl was singing Sodapop. I said oh you like “KPDH”. Both girls eyes get wide and they ask how I know what it is. I say I have watched it. The show them my Spotify which showed I had just been listening to
July 21, 2025 at 12:05 AM
Confused a couple 10yos. Went in McD’s the other night and one girl was singing Sodapop. I said oh you like “KPDH”. Both girls eyes get wide and they ask how I know what it is. I say I have watched it. The show them my Spotify which showed I had just been listening to