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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺
@positivelad.me
Gay guy living with HIV - working in HIV & Sexual Health. 🧬

Often seen on TV, radio & print.

Husband to @jimmyavenger.me 👬
Dog dad 🐾
Often found aboard a cruise ship 🛳️
Love a wine and a good sit down 🍷

Proud sponsor of @deck.blue

📍London, UK
Pinned
Fab to see more #HIV organisations joining Bluesky

Shout-out to @appghiv.bsky.social, @hiv-i-base.bsky.social, @positiveeast.bsky.social & @positivelyuk.bsky.social

I've added these & more to my two HIV & Sexual Health #StarterPacks

Pack 1: go.bsky.app/FgETwkU
Pack 2: go.bsky.app/Aewd8QP

#HIVsky
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Man who bought up 33,000 acres of farmland to avoid tax and moved his business to Singapore after the Brexit he voted for wants your sympathy.
December 28, 2025 at 8:28 AM
Merry Christmas 🎅🏻 🎄
December 25, 2025 at 11:15 AM
I love this stuff. I’ve never felt smoother, or smelt more like a wealthy Victorian ghost.

Don’t tell my family.
December 22, 2025 at 12:01 AM
Ho ho ho. Merry Tuesday.
December 16, 2025 at 1:39 PM
Gwen Stefani can get in the fucking sea.
December 14, 2025 at 11:07 PM
Beautiful warm sunny day in Brighton.

Bit odd to be eating outside in mid-December - but nice all the same.
December 13, 2025 at 1:54 PM
Just let me staple the vicar.

We’re making love in a femidon.
December 12, 2025 at 5:34 PM
I asked Siri for a cartoon emoji of a laughing brain.

Instead, she gave me this cursed nightmare.
December 11, 2025 at 10:52 AM
My special boy 🥺
December 10, 2025 at 1:04 AM
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Wow -- Russia reportedly plotted last year to plant bombs on US-bound flights (gift link) giftarticle.ft.com/giftarticle/...
December 9, 2025 at 7:33 PM
@soozuk.bsky.social you were FABULOUS last night at the Clapham Grand. Takes some steel to keep Frank Lavender in check!
December 9, 2025 at 12:50 PM
I’ve been a massive fan of @eurovision.tv for years.

But @ebu.ch letting genocidal Israel compete, like nothing is happening, is unconscionable genocide-washing.

I support the countries who are boycotting, and call for more to do so - including the UK and the BBC.

www.bbc.com/news/article...
Ireland among countries boycotting Eurovision after Israel allowed to compete
There had been calls for Israel's exclusion over the war in Gaza, as well as unfair voting accusations.
www.bbc.com
December 4, 2025 at 8:47 PM
Yes, I’m a homosexual in his forties. What of it?

#AppleMusicReplay
December 4, 2025 at 1:11 PM
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May his bum hairs grow forever backwards and inwards
December 4, 2025 at 1:04 PM
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I’d like for Wes Streeting to have a full review of mental healthcare over the past ten years, identify waiting times to see people, the level of care and how many people have been left with long term issues or feeling like they’ve no other option but to take their own lives.

Not “overdiagnosis” 🤬
Words cannot fully convey how much I detest this snivelling piece of shit.
December 4, 2025 at 12:30 PM
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May he poo hairbrushes from now until Christmas 2083
December 4, 2025 at 12:12 PM
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And may his socks remain permanently damp
December 4, 2025 at 11:59 AM
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May a seagull shit on his face every time he leaves the house, and his bed be full of cockroaches every night.
December 4, 2025 at 12:01 PM
Words cannot fully convey how much I detest this snivelling piece of shit.
December 4, 2025 at 11:35 AM
Shampooing dog diarrhoea out of the carpet at 02:45am really wasn’t on my mood board.

I’m close to snapping. I swear.
December 3, 2025 at 2:53 AM
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Anon Opin Live is coming. Rob Manuel's hosting shows in Leicester (12–13 Feb 2026). Got opinions? Let's fight about them live. https://sites.google.com/view/fesshole
December 2, 2025 at 12:00 AM
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there’s a scene in the new documentary where Elizabeth Taylor is talking about the stigma of AIDS and how she got involved in the movement and it’s fucking everything
August 10, 2024 at 3:21 PM