Poly Dad
@polydadenm.bsky.social
Cis bi guy in his early 40s with two children. In an open marriage and have another long-term partner. Sharing poly experiences, learning and all that good stuff. From the UK. He/him.
So many of these women they have now are looking so good. Don't know if anyone else has noticed.
August 27, 2025 at 3:02 PM
So many of these women they have now are looking so good. Don't know if anyone else has noticed.
Three things I've noticed on (AFAB) dating profiles lately.
- Everyone is a "silly goose" now.
- They are looking for "silly billies".
- Talkative women say they "yap".
Is this just me noticing the dominant youth culture because I'm no longer part of it at 42?
- Everyone is a "silly goose" now.
- They are looking for "silly billies".
- Talkative women say they "yap".
Is this just me noticing the dominant youth culture because I'm no longer part of it at 42?
July 7, 2025 at 8:18 AM
Three things I've noticed on (AFAB) dating profiles lately.
- Everyone is a "silly goose" now.
- They are looking for "silly billies".
- Talkative women say they "yap".
Is this just me noticing the dominant youth culture because I'm no longer part of it at 42?
- Everyone is a "silly goose" now.
- They are looking for "silly billies".
- Talkative women say they "yap".
Is this just me noticing the dominant youth culture because I'm no longer part of it at 42?
Is Feeld down for anyone else? Maybe they're fixing whatever technical glitch it is that causes me to get no matches.
June 19, 2025 at 7:17 AM
Is Feeld down for anyone else? Maybe they're fixing whatever technical glitch it is that causes me to get no matches.
It's such a shame that Match has basically killed off OK Cupid in favour of Hinge, which sucks. Leaves no good alternative to Feeld (as far as I know?) for poly/kinky/gender non-confirming folk. And there really needs to be an alternative to Feeld.
April 6, 2025 at 3:44 PM
It's such a shame that Match has basically killed off OK Cupid in favour of Hinge, which sucks. Leaves no good alternative to Feeld (as far as I know?) for poly/kinky/gender non-confirming folk. And there really needs to be an alternative to Feeld.
Several women have told me they assume men give better blowjobs. I'm here as a spokesperson for bi men to say that this is not the case. Dude, it's not a race to get the cum.
March 22, 2025 at 6:46 PM
Several women have told me they assume men give better blowjobs. I'm here as a spokesperson for bi men to say that this is not the case. Dude, it's not a race to get the cum.
Any London folk headed to Fox Den Below tomorrow?
March 12, 2025 at 12:22 PM
Any London folk headed to Fox Den Below tomorrow?
Severance Shag, Marry, Kill anyone?
Shag: Helly(outie). I think she'd be very demanding and expect me to worship at the altar of her pussy/ass Very into it. [1/3]
Shag: Helly(outie). I think she'd be very demanding and expect me to worship at the altar of her pussy/ass Very into it. [1/3]
February 20, 2025 at 10:20 AM
Severance Shag, Marry, Kill anyone?
Shag: Helly(outie). I think she'd be very demanding and expect me to worship at the altar of her pussy/ass Very into it. [1/3]
Shag: Helly(outie). I think she'd be very demanding and expect me to worship at the altar of her pussy/ass Very into it. [1/3]
This is only funny if you're British.
December 24, 2024 at 6:46 PM
This is only funny if you're British.
At this time of year I like to remember the best Christmas I ever had, completely alone, skiing half the day, getting super high, eating chocolate and watching box sets the rest of it. Pure joy.
December 24, 2024 at 4:57 PM
At this time of year I like to remember the best Christmas I ever had, completely alone, skiing half the day, getting super high, eating chocolate and watching box sets the rest of it. Pure joy.
What's the difference between a weaver and a dominatrix?
One slaves over a hot loom...
One slaves over a hot loom...
December 19, 2024 at 11:33 AM
What's the difference between a weaver and a dominatrix?
One slaves over a hot loom...
One slaves over a hot loom...
New euphemism for vulva just dropped.
December 16, 2024 at 1:58 PM
New euphemism for vulva just dropped.
Where are my British poly and ENM heads at?
Feels like everyone i follow is American, which is fine but also I need kinship with folk who live in a country where people despise sex unless they're drunk, at which point they have no interest in anything else.
Feels like everyone i follow is American, which is fine but also I need kinship with folk who live in a country where people despise sex unless they're drunk, at which point they have no interest in anything else.
December 2, 2024 at 8:04 PM
Where are my British poly and ENM heads at?
Feels like everyone i follow is American, which is fine but also I need kinship with folk who live in a country where people despise sex unless they're drunk, at which point they have no interest in anything else.
Feels like everyone i follow is American, which is fine but also I need kinship with folk who live in a country where people despise sex unless they're drunk, at which point they have no interest in anything else.
I had to go to hospital while my wife was away, so my girlfriend came by to help me look after my daughter while I was there.
And that, friends, is one of the upsides of poly life.
And that, friends, is one of the upsides of poly life.
December 2, 2024 at 7:59 PM
I had to go to hospital while my wife was away, so my girlfriend came by to help me look after my daughter while I was there.
And that, friends, is one of the upsides of poly life.
And that, friends, is one of the upsides of poly life.
Me (to my daughter): Good girl!
*thinks*
Oooooh, that's why so many women like that.
*feels weird*
*thinks*
Oooooh, that's why so many women like that.
*feels weird*
November 30, 2024 at 6:40 PM
Me (to my daughter): Good girl!
*thinks*
Oooooh, that's why so many women like that.
*feels weird*
*thinks*
Oooooh, that's why so many women like that.
*feels weird*
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#Polyamory Truth: Being polyamorous doesn't mean that you're immune to jealousy and envy. Both are normal human emotions that come from fears and insecurities. Neither are sins in and of themselves. They can be overcome through open communication and reassurance, and from a willingness to heal.
November 24, 2024 at 6:10 PM
#Polyamory Truth: Being polyamorous doesn't mean that you're immune to jealousy and envy. Both are normal human emotions that come from fears and insecurities. Neither are sins in and of themselves. They can be overcome through open communication and reassurance, and from a willingness to heal.
What's with people on the dating apps getting maybe a dozen messages into a conversation and then just ghosting? I don't think I'd do that, I'd just say "You know what, I'm not feeling it."
If I wasn't poly and was looking for "the one" it would be so disheartening.
If I wasn't poly and was looking for "the one" it would be so disheartening.
November 25, 2024 at 2:01 PM
What's with people on the dating apps getting maybe a dozen messages into a conversation and then just ghosting? I don't think I'd do that, I'd just say "You know what, I'm not feeling it."
If I wasn't poly and was looking for "the one" it would be so disheartening.
If I wasn't poly and was looking for "the one" it would be so disheartening.
About half of the women I'm seeing on the apps these days describe themselves either as a "silly goose" or a "size queen". Yet to see both in one profile. Do geese not like big dick?
November 22, 2024 at 8:33 AM
About half of the women I'm seeing on the apps these days describe themselves either as a "silly goose" or a "size queen". Yet to see both in one profile. Do geese not like big dick?
Didn't expect my first thread here to be about my vasectomy but it is, for three reasons.
1. Contraception is inportant in poly (and everywhere).
2. Could be useful for couples considering it.
3. Story has a nice "poly life" ending.
Here we go... 🧵
1. Contraception is inportant in poly (and everywhere).
2. Could be useful for couples considering it.
3. Story has a nice "poly life" ending.
Here we go... 🧵
Is it weird that I'm creating this account while waiting to go down to theatre for a vasectomy? Yes, yes it is. Start as you mean to go on, that's what I say.
November 19, 2024 at 2:31 PM
Didn't expect my first thread here to be about my vasectomy but it is, for three reasons.
1. Contraception is inportant in poly (and everywhere).
2. Could be useful for couples considering it.
3. Story has a nice "poly life" ending.
Here we go... 🧵
1. Contraception is inportant in poly (and everywhere).
2. Could be useful for couples considering it.
3. Story has a nice "poly life" ending.
Here we go... 🧵
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Happy world vasectomy day! Snip snip, gents
November 15, 2024 at 4:37 PM
Happy world vasectomy day! Snip snip, gents
Is it weird that I'm creating this account while waiting to go down to theatre for a vasectomy? Yes, yes it is. Start as you mean to go on, that's what I say.
November 18, 2024 at 8:38 AM
Is it weird that I'm creating this account while waiting to go down to theatre for a vasectomy? Yes, yes it is. Start as you mean to go on, that's what I say.