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Anthony Parrott
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Reclaiming the Bible for love and liberation.
Affirming. Antiracist. Universalist.
Pastor of the Table Church DC
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Hello! My name’s Anthony, here’s a little about me:

- Pastor of an LGBTQ-affirming, multiracial church
- Raised in fundamentalism
- MDiv specializing in Biblical Studies
- Certified in Trauma Competent Care
- Pastor for 15 years
- Obsessed with Jesus
- Universalist
- Open & Relational Theologian
Reposted by Anthony Parrott
October 7, 2025 at 11:24 AM
Is growing to a larger size of church simply more likely to require relying on coercion, authoritarianism, and control?

We don't demand weekly attendance or tithing. We have shared values, sure. But the rest is... messy.

Turns out, messy doesn't scale well.

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Maybe We're Not Supposed to Grow That Way
Is growing to and maintaining a larger size of church simply more likely to require relying more on coercion, authoritarianism, and control?
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October 7, 2025 at 1:42 PM
The truth matters more than approval, and justice matters more than comfort.

Sometimes the message that wins converts is the wrong message.

Palatability can come at the cost of virtue.

Making everyone feel okay about the conversation means nobody actually changes.

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The Value and Cost of Clarity
The truth matters more than approval, and justice matters more than comfort
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October 1, 2025 at 2:23 PM
If a pastor has ever used the Bible to tell you that being a good Christian means staying in an abusive relationship, or that questioning harmful treatment makes you "unforgiving" or "bitter"—they were wrong.

Biblical enemy-love is never about enabling greater harm.

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Saving Enemy Love from Bad Theology
When "Turn the Other Cheek" Becomes a Weapon
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September 25, 2025 at 1:45 PM
In which I compare the speeches of Goebbels and Stephen Miller.

Same dehumanization: "You are nothing"

Same civilizational claims: "Our ancestors built everything"

Same "awakened dragon" metaphors

Same martyrdom-to-escalation patterns

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Comparing Goebbels' "The Storm is Coming" and Miller's Charlie Kirk Memorial Speech
"The Storm is Coming," was delivered by Nazi propaganda minister Joseph Goebbels on July 9, 1932, during a campaign rally in Berlin's Lustgarten before the July 31, 1932 Reichstag elections. Stephen ...
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September 23, 2025 at 12:16 AM
You, Jesus, are you not also a mother?
Are you not the mother who, like a hen
gathers her chickens under her wings?
Truly, Lord, you are a mother.

For longing to bear sons into life, you tasted of death
and by dying you begot them.
So you, Lord God, are the great mother

—St. Anselm of Canterbury
September 17, 2025 at 5:54 PM
I really loved The Weep duology by K. Eason (@svartjagr.bsky.social) and I'm super upset that there's not any more of it!
September 16, 2025 at 8:48 PM
Thanks to Christian Nationalism, we have a form of Christianity that has hollowed out the gospel, scooped out its heart, and put on its husk like a skinwalker. It calls empathy sin. It blames the poor for poverty. It treats immigrants like invaders.

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When Rome Wears the Skin of Christianity
Jesus didn't come to make Rome nicer. It came to make Rome obsolete. The fact that Rome is back, wearing Jesus' name tag, should enrage every single one of us.
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September 10, 2025 at 12:59 PM
Roman philosophy said the poor deserved their poverty.

Jesus said, "Blessed are the poor."

Rome said foreigners were threats.

Jesus said, "Welcome the stranger."

Rome said empathy was weakness.

Jesus wept.
September 6, 2025 at 1:33 PM
The ethics of Rome are back in style—the poor get what they deserve, foreigners are dangerous, the sick and infirm are a burden on society—wearing a Jesus name tag.
September 6, 2025 at 1:19 AM
If I, a native-born citizen, were to move into a neighborhood of immigrants, I would be statistically more likely to commit a crime than my immigrant neighbors.
September 5, 2025 at 7:07 PM
Meritocracy is a lie. The poor don't deserve to be poor; the rich don't deserve to be rich.

But, equally a lie, is that we solely the product of capricious fate.

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Swinging Between "You Built This" and "Fate Built This"
Anybody else remember Obama's "You didn't build that" moment? It was 2012, and he was making a point about infrastructure, education, and the collective foundation that makes individual success possib...
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September 5, 2025 at 5:53 PM
Christlike theology cancels records of people’s debt.

Christlike theology disarms the rulers and authorities.

Christlike theology exposes the world’s oppressive powers to public disgrace.
September 5, 2025 at 5:50 PM
Making salvation depend on how certain you feel about your beliefs is psychologically traumatizing. It assumes God is controlling and domineering rather than loving.
September 5, 2025 at 1:45 PM
According to 1 Timothy, the aim of instruction is love. Biblical instruction should lead to three things:

Love
A good conscience
A sincere faith

This means:

If it leads to hate, violence, or cruelty rather than love, throw it out—that's the biblical thing to do.
September 4, 2025 at 9:25 PM
I've been told by congregants many reasons why another church had denied them Communion:

Divorce
Being LGBTQ+
Disagreement on some theological point

It fills me with something close to righteous anger. Jesus's act of hospitality turned into a membership card.

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The Longest Table: Why We Keep the Door Wide Open at Communion
As a pastor, I love watching people approach our communion table—some eager, some hesitant, some with tears already forming. Over the years, I've been told by congregants many reasons why another chur...
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September 3, 2025 at 3:59 PM
I'm too old to have a PTA board meeting *start* at 9 PM.
September 3, 2025 at 12:05 AM
I’m a DC resident. The thing to understand about what’s happening is that folks like me (white American with a regular income) will likely not be affected

But if you’re Black, poor, homeless, or an immigrant, you’re screwed. It’s a retrenchment of Jim Crow

Folks like me have some decisions to make
August 14, 2025 at 12:50 AM
There are at least 3 reasons people continue to connect with religion that have nothing to do with whether they think every doctrine is literally true. And understanding these reasons might just save us from the exhausting binary of "believer" versus "non-believer." www.parrott.ink/four-reasons...
Why We Stay: Four Reasons People Adhere to Religion
"Pastor, I have to confess something," Alika said, fidgeting with her coffee cup during our meeting. "I'm not sure I believe in God anymore. Or maybe I do? I don't know if the resurrection actually ha...
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July 23, 2025 at 3:50 PM
Grace creates more grace, more love, more fruit that feeds others. The whole point of grace being received is that it becomes grace that's given.

In a world obsessed with scarcity and competition, God's economy operates on abundance and multiplication.
God's Ridiculous, Indiscriminate Love
What the Parable of the Sower Teaches About Grace
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July 21, 2025 at 8:45 PM
"The apostasy from Christian will not come about by everybody openly renouncing Christianity; no, but slyly, cunningly, by everybody assuming the name of being Christian." Soren Kierkegaard
May 27, 2025 at 4:21 PM
He’s the one people sing about in their dances,

"Bush has lost has thousands
but Trump has lost his tens of thousands."
April 7, 2025 at 3:30 PM
"Heresy" has a specific meaning in theological discourse—it's not just shorthand for "viewpoints I disagree with."
April 2, 2025 at 8:17 PM
God transcends and includes gender. Our limited human categories will always fall short of capturing divine fullness. Perhaps by embracing multiple images and metaphors—including those that make us uncomfortable—we might glimpse more of who God truly is.

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Encountering the Divine Feminine: Reflections from the Alliance of Baptists Conference
God transcends and includes gender. Our limited human categories will always fall short of capturing divine fullness. Perhaps by embracing multiple images and metaphors—including those that make us un...
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April 2, 2025 at 7:35 PM