Smalls
@notyourdestiny.bsky.social
Educational leadership and child development psychology for work. Urban farmer, writer, crocheter, nature enthusiast, stylist, and world traveler for fun.
I don’t enjoy watching anything where the characters are making bad choices without comedic relief l. For example, Always Sunny is just plain old stupid and hilarious. Scary movies with dumbass teenagers who can’t leave shit alone puts me on edge lol.
I had to turn Talk to Me off.
I had to turn Talk to Me off.
August 2, 2025 at 3:47 PM
I don’t enjoy watching anything where the characters are making bad choices without comedic relief l. For example, Always Sunny is just plain old stupid and hilarious. Scary movies with dumbass teenagers who can’t leave shit alone puts me on edge lol.
I had to turn Talk to Me off.
I had to turn Talk to Me off.
A practice I’ll always carry with me: “assume all are well intended”.
I believe in my capabilities to practice discernment and trust that the relationships I build are rooted in genuine love and compassion. I do not center myself or my own personal feelings; I choose grace and ultimately peace.
I believe in my capabilities to practice discernment and trust that the relationships I build are rooted in genuine love and compassion. I do not center myself or my own personal feelings; I choose grace and ultimately peace.
July 18, 2025 at 5:51 PM
A practice I’ll always carry with me: “assume all are well intended”.
I believe in my capabilities to practice discernment and trust that the relationships I build are rooted in genuine love and compassion. I do not center myself or my own personal feelings; I choose grace and ultimately peace.
I believe in my capabilities to practice discernment and trust that the relationships I build are rooted in genuine love and compassion. I do not center myself or my own personal feelings; I choose grace and ultimately peace.
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Highly recommended reading, in this order
June 18, 2025 at 10:06 AM
Highly recommended reading, in this order
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Eid Mubarak to the homies.
June 7, 2025 at 12:59 AM
Eid Mubarak to the homies.
It is not “petty” to stop serving relationships that do not serve you. It’s sustainability. Life is hard for everyone. Everything isn’t about you.
Literally nothing is about you.
Literally nothing is about you.
June 2, 2025 at 10:05 AM
It is not “petty” to stop serving relationships that do not serve you. It’s sustainability. Life is hard for everyone. Everything isn’t about you.
Literally nothing is about you.
Literally nothing is about you.
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“We the only race that…”
Please shut the fuck up.
Please shut the fuck up.
May 17, 2025 at 3:06 PM
“We the only race that…”
Please shut the fuck up.
Please shut the fuck up.
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We were never supposed to have this much access to stupid people’s thoughts
May 16, 2025 at 4:13 AM
We were never supposed to have this much access to stupid people’s thoughts
I love how my brain decides “yeah that’s enough sleep for you” two hours early every morning. I’m not absolutely exhausted or anything.
May 16, 2025 at 9:02 AM
I love how my brain decides “yeah that’s enough sleep for you” two hours early every morning. I’m not absolutely exhausted or anything.
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From the 2024 election season:
Y’all remember that Black woman that stopped the white woman from screaming in the kid’s face… in the stroller…
Telling her “That’s a kid.”
Y’all remember that Black woman that stopped the white woman from screaming in the kid’s face… in the stroller…
Telling her “That’s a kid.”
April 25, 2025 at 5:49 PM
From the 2024 election season:
Y’all remember that Black woman that stopped the white woman from screaming in the kid’s face… in the stroller…
Telling her “That’s a kid.”
Y’all remember that Black woman that stopped the white woman from screaming in the kid’s face… in the stroller…
Telling her “That’s a kid.”
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Dr. Toni Morrison on white women - a whole damn read:
April 25, 2025 at 4:12 AM
Dr. Toni Morrison on white women - a whole damn read:
Yall letting yall husband bite you? (Sinners) as soon as Bo came to the door I looked at my man and said “you wouldn’t even have to say anything” lol tf don’t leave me here
May 3, 2025 at 11:05 PM
Yall letting yall husband bite you? (Sinners) as soon as Bo came to the door I looked at my man and said “you wouldn’t even have to say anything” lol tf don’t leave me here
32 years around the sun today 💐♉️💚
April 30, 2025 at 1:55 PM
32 years around the sun today 💐♉️💚
I do not be fixing silly typos lol. Use context clues seriously don’t piss me off.
April 24, 2025 at 1:44 PM
I do not be fixing silly typos lol. Use context clues seriously don’t piss me off.
Once something that should be simple is made to be difficult I am no longer interested. Thanks anyway.
April 16, 2025 at 12:34 PM
Once something that should be simple is made to be difficult I am no longer interested. Thanks anyway.
I’m eating kix playing the sims. Anita baker is blasting. My house plants are back out in the sun. I don’t have random you’re a 30+ women belly ache. Never mind I felt a cramp as I was typing this. Life is still really good.
April 13, 2025 at 4:11 PM
I’m eating kix playing the sims. Anita baker is blasting. My house plants are back out in the sun. I don’t have random you’re a 30+ women belly ache. Never mind I felt a cramp as I was typing this. Life is still really good.
Two piece shorty got me over here all giddy. We should all punch someone in the face at least once a quarter.
April 9, 2025 at 11:41 AM
Two piece shorty got me over here all giddy. We should all punch someone in the face at least once a quarter.
Pittsburgh had hail, thunderstorms, and 70° weather today
March 16, 2025 at 9:07 PM
Pittsburgh had hail, thunderstorms, and 70° weather today
Such a productive morning and afternoon. I love being responsible so I can be irresponsible. Balance.
March 16, 2025 at 7:46 PM
Such a productive morning and afternoon. I love being responsible so I can be irresponsible. Balance.
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I don't want my appliances to be connected to the internet. I don't want them to have blinky lights or touch screen controls or be accessible by phone. All I want is for them to do the one thing they are supposed to do, and to beep less.
Hear that, manufacturers? Less beeping.
Hear that, manufacturers? Less beeping.
January 27, 2025 at 4:26 PM
I don't want my appliances to be connected to the internet. I don't want them to have blinky lights or touch screen controls or be accessible by phone. All I want is for them to do the one thing they are supposed to do, and to beep less.
Hear that, manufacturers? Less beeping.
Hear that, manufacturers? Less beeping.
Bobby Womack really said if you think you’re lonely now get a load of this bitch
March 5, 2025 at 11:49 AM
Bobby Womack really said if you think you’re lonely now get a load of this bitch
White people will try to police you minding your business. You just gotta pretend you can’t hear or see them. Literally pretend they are not there.
February 9, 2025 at 3:36 PM
White people will try to police you minding your business. You just gotta pretend you can’t hear or see them. Literally pretend they are not there.
My man’s birthday trip is booked. Now I can relax a bit. Planning group trips is a recipe for anxiety lol.
February 9, 2025 at 12:39 PM
My man’s birthday trip is booked. Now I can relax a bit. Planning group trips is a recipe for anxiety lol.
Do your own research. Just about anything they can sell you, you can get from the earth.
February 9, 2025 at 1:23 AM
Do your own research. Just about anything they can sell you, you can get from the earth.
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Good morning and happy February! Happy Saturday! Happy BHM! ✊🏾✊🏽✊🏿
a group of people are standing in a kitchen and one of them is wearing a purple sweater
Alt: a group of people are standing in a kitchen and one of them is wearing a purple sweater
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February 1, 2025 at 12:03 PM
Good morning and happy February! Happy Saturday! Happy BHM! ✊🏾✊🏽✊🏿