NonMono
@nonmono.bsky.social
Non-monogamous Scandinavian (she/her) with a love for books and podcasts. Enjoying life outside the comfort zone. Do not obey in advance
I’m on Reddit too: https://www.reddit.com/u/Non-mono/s/RLRZQYfDsM
I’m on Reddit too: https://www.reddit.com/u/Non-mono/s/RLRZQYfDsM
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NonMono
@nonmono.bsky.social
· Dec 22
🧵 This has been my journey in #ethicalnonmonogamy so far:
After more than 20 years in a happy, monogamous marriage, my husband and I decided we wanted more experiences in life, including sexual ones.
We started out with the intention of #swinging , but that scene just didn’t work for us.
After more than 20 years in a happy, monogamous marriage, my husband and I decided we wanted more experiences in life, including sexual ones.
We started out with the intention of #swinging , but that scene just didn’t work for us.
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Second, an out queer is a political statement. Queers take control of their lives. They buck the system. They show that the system is not required nor viable. Which is the “sanctity of marriage”. Keeping women oppressed. We must also keep queers repressed to keep men in power. Also queers vote left
October 26, 2025 at 10:25 PM
Second, an out queer is a political statement. Queers take control of their lives. They buck the system. They show that the system is not required nor viable. Which is the “sanctity of marriage”. Keeping women oppressed. We must also keep queers repressed to keep men in power. Also queers vote left
Went to a party where I hardly even knew the host.
And yet, because he’s gathered such an interesting and mixed group of people around him, it became an incredible interesting and easy evening.
I have had conversations about DP, polyamory, playparties, Putin, anthropology and the countryside.
And yet, because he’s gathered such an interesting and mixed group of people around him, it became an incredible interesting and easy evening.
I have had conversations about DP, polyamory, playparties, Putin, anthropology and the countryside.
October 26, 2025 at 8:33 PM
Went to a party where I hardly even knew the host.
And yet, because he’s gathered such an interesting and mixed group of people around him, it became an incredible interesting and easy evening.
I have had conversations about DP, polyamory, playparties, Putin, anthropology and the countryside.
And yet, because he’s gathered such an interesting and mixed group of people around him, it became an incredible interesting and easy evening.
I have had conversations about DP, polyamory, playparties, Putin, anthropology and the countryside.
Another day, another slut loving tag. 😍
October 25, 2025 at 10:29 AM
Another day, another slut loving tag. 😍
Do you go left or right?
October 7, 2025 at 8:26 PM
Do you go left or right?
Overnight dates with @cheapslut.bsky.social be like:
September 24, 2025 at 1:25 PM
Overnight dates with @cheapslut.bsky.social be like:
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Our 2025 Community Survey is officially here! This anonymous survey help promote understanding and drives our advocacy work.
Seeking volunteers who are 18+ and identify with non-monogamy.
🔗Take the survey: open-love.org/survey
Seeking volunteers who are 18+ and identify with non-monogamy.
🔗Take the survey: open-love.org/survey
September 16, 2025 at 5:22 PM
Our 2025 Community Survey is officially here! This anonymous survey help promote understanding and drives our advocacy work.
Seeking volunteers who are 18+ and identify with non-monogamy.
🔗Take the survey: open-love.org/survey
Seeking volunteers who are 18+ and identify with non-monogamy.
🔗Take the survey: open-love.org/survey
Spent my Saturday with Husband writing our unmarried vows.
We’ve agreed to unmarry each other in the ruins of an old church on our 25th anniversary.
We are still together.
We still love each other though.
We just won’t be married in our minds.
We’ve agreed to unmarry each other in the ruins of an old church on our 25th anniversary.
We are still together.
We still love each other though.
We just won’t be married in our minds.
September 13, 2025 at 9:33 PM
Spent my Saturday with Husband writing our unmarried vows.
We’ve agreed to unmarry each other in the ruins of an old church on our 25th anniversary.
We are still together.
We still love each other though.
We just won’t be married in our minds.
We’ve agreed to unmarry each other in the ruins of an old church on our 25th anniversary.
We are still together.
We still love each other though.
We just won’t be married in our minds.
Polyam be like:
Yesterday, Boyfriend sent me an “I love you” snap. And within minutes I got an “I love you” text from Husband who was away.
#polyamory #enm
Yesterday, Boyfriend sent me an “I love you” snap. And within minutes I got an “I love you” text from Husband who was away.
#polyamory #enm
a man in a pink shirt is standing in front of a wall with foam coming out of his mouth and head .
ALT: a man in a pink shirt is standing in front of a wall with foam coming out of his mouth and head .
media.tenor.com
September 13, 2025 at 9:03 AM
Polyam be like:
Yesterday, Boyfriend sent me an “I love you” snap. And within minutes I got an “I love you” text from Husband who was away.
#polyamory #enm
Yesterday, Boyfriend sent me an “I love you” snap. And within minutes I got an “I love you” text from Husband who was away.
#polyamory #enm
Summer isn’t over yet!
September 7, 2025 at 9:54 AM
Summer isn’t over yet!
Another one spotted, in a different part of town.
Sir/madam - I salute you for your relentless slut loving.
Sir/madam - I salute you for your relentless slut loving.
September 5, 2025 at 8:30 AM
Another one spotted, in a different part of town.
Sir/madam - I salute you for your relentless slut loving.
Sir/madam - I salute you for your relentless slut loving.
Oslo in September can be quite alright.
Currently enjoying a beer in the sun on a roof top terrace, waiting for my Boyfriend to come and attend to me in our AirBnb.
Not being able to host sometimes, and sometimes you get this view instead.
Currently enjoying a beer in the sun on a roof top terrace, waiting for my Boyfriend to come and attend to me in our AirBnb.
Not being able to host sometimes, and sometimes you get this view instead.
September 4, 2025 at 2:57 PM
Oslo in September can be quite alright.
Currently enjoying a beer in the sun on a roof top terrace, waiting for my Boyfriend to come and attend to me in our AirBnb.
Not being able to host sometimes, and sometimes you get this view instead.
Currently enjoying a beer in the sun on a roof top terrace, waiting for my Boyfriend to come and attend to me in our AirBnb.
Not being able to host sometimes, and sometimes you get this view instead.
I love the colours and the style of Nice.
August 29, 2025 at 6:25 PM
I love the colours and the style of Nice.
Oh, look what turned up in my mail here in Norway today, @andreazanin.bsky.social and @everickert.bsky.social
August 5, 2025 at 11:30 AM
Oh, look what turned up in my mail here in Norway today, @andreazanin.bsky.social and @everickert.bsky.social
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That same survey found that a majority of men (64%) and women (57%) in America say monogamy is outdated, unrealistic, or undesirable – while only 39% say that monogamy is “the only type of relationship I’d consider.”
July 29, 2025 at 6:48 PM
That same survey found that a majority of men (64%) and women (57%) in America say monogamy is outdated, unrealistic, or undesirable – while only 39% say that monogamy is “the only type of relationship I’d consider.”
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📊 New survey data:
7% of Americans say they're currently in open relationships – including 15% of Gen Z!
Source: online survey of 7,100 US adults conducted by @wearehims.bsky.social : www.hims.com/news/america...
7% of Americans say they're currently in open relationships – including 15% of Gen Z!
Source: online survey of 7,100 US adults conducted by @wearehims.bsky.social : www.hims.com/news/america...
https://hims.com/news…
July 29, 2025 at 6:48 PM
📊 New survey data:
7% of Americans say they're currently in open relationships – including 15% of Gen Z!
Source: online survey of 7,100 US adults conducted by @wearehims.bsky.social : www.hims.com/news/america...
7% of Americans say they're currently in open relationships – including 15% of Gen Z!
Source: online survey of 7,100 US adults conducted by @wearehims.bsky.social : www.hims.com/news/america...
No! It’s 30 degrees here, and I’m in Norway for crying out loud.
Let people fetch their own snacks. And while they are at it, could they bring me a pitcher of beer?
Today I’ll be like the parched earth, in dire need of hydration.
Let people fetch their own snacks. And while they are at it, could they bring me a pitcher of beer?
Today I’ll be like the parched earth, in dire need of hydration.
Your horoscope for today:
Be like a bird feeder - provide snacks and a safe place for old friends and rare newcomers to gather, gossip, and sing.
Be like a bird feeder - provide snacks and a safe place for old friends and rare newcomers to gather, gossip, and sing.
July 17, 2025 at 4:51 PM
No! It’s 30 degrees here, and I’m in Norway for crying out loud.
Let people fetch their own snacks. And while they are at it, could they bring me a pitcher of beer?
Today I’ll be like the parched earth, in dire need of hydration.
Let people fetch their own snacks. And while they are at it, could they bring me a pitcher of beer?
Today I’ll be like the parched earth, in dire need of hydration.
And the summer days go on like the legs
July 14, 2025 at 4:41 PM
And the summer days go on like the legs
Had to take a picture when my friend turned up with this bag. 🥰
July 2, 2025 at 11:16 AM
Had to take a picture when my friend turned up with this bag. 🥰
Oslo Pride
- a few snap shots
- a few snap shots
June 28, 2025 at 1:30 PM
Oslo Pride
- a few snap shots
- a few snap shots
My nails are short, and I can’t paint them for the life of me, but at least I’m ready for the weekend.
June 26, 2025 at 8:31 PM
My nails are short, and I can’t paint them for the life of me, but at least I’m ready for the weekend.
Today’s mood:
Naked with my boyfriend by the water front.
Naked with my boyfriend by the water front.
June 21, 2025 at 12:46 PM
Today’s mood:
Naked with my boyfriend by the water front.
Naked with my boyfriend by the water front.
Look at this utter beauty @buenos.bsky.social has made for me! 🤩
A flogger made of reused wood and leather, imposing to look at, but fairly gentle and kind against the skin.
Gorgeous!
A flogger made of reused wood and leather, imposing to look at, but fairly gentle and kind against the skin.
Gorgeous!
June 19, 2025 at 10:19 AM
Look at this utter beauty @buenos.bsky.social has made for me! 🤩
A flogger made of reused wood and leather, imposing to look at, but fairly gentle and kind against the skin.
Gorgeous!
A flogger made of reused wood and leather, imposing to look at, but fairly gentle and kind against the skin.
Gorgeous!
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Su Blackwell, UK artist who creates paper art using books, often based on fairytale and nature #WomensArt
June 18, 2025 at 10:30 AM
Su Blackwell, UK artist who creates paper art using books, often based on fairytale and nature #WomensArt